PreRish/KaRica AT #57|Someone's Tears Are Affecting Me. But Why?| - Page 38

Originally posted by: rmahi25

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Originally posted by: kalank

OMG YAYYY KZK back in ORMAX!!!

https://twitter.com/ormaxmedia/status/1168923775771041793?s=21

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please do watch it if you guys can, I think the changes makes the VM better than before!

/forum/kasautii-zindagii-kay-2/5109468/new-prerish-vm-pal-ek-pal

Tere darwaaze pe, chilman nhi dekhi jaati

Jaane Jaan humse ye uljhan nhi dekhi jaati

Hum na Samjhe, teri nazron ka takaza kya hai

Kabhi parda kabhi jalwa ye tamasha kya hai

Originally posted by: shin-chan

She respects this marriage and her husband. Never have any doubts in that. She is a very honest girl. Never ever doubt her or her intentions wrt her husband :)

Problem with her is she takes her husband for granted and his given liberty in a wrong way. Also she is little dumb to understand his words. He needs to literally explain her the consequences of ex troubling her in a very detailed way like from society/world's pov too who will not only badmouth her ex but her too for why she letting it all happen. Everyone is not RB. Even if one character sees them in a private place, its consequences will be dirty particularly for P. But this thing she doesnt completely understand let alone act accordingly

She is not emotionally cheating on her husband. Please never say this. Say she is emotionally unstable. That makes the difference.

there you are Shin Ji...I was wondering where have you gone to...since last AT I'm seeing you're badi naraaz with Pre....I was wondering where is the Shin Ji that defends her...and here you are😆

I know Pre's character right now deserves all the anger she gets and its your frustration that's speaking like that....I'm also frustrated with this girl....accepted she's just 21-24....but then doesn't she know the way to behave....If you are doing right then you don't need to care for society....but if what you're doing is wrong...like allowing yourself to be so man-handled...abused....then forget society...how can you even look at yourself in a mirror...let alone face your husband...knowing he knows everything and still trusts you to do right by yourself...I really can't understand her character sometimes....

I will be just copy pasting what I wrote about Rishabh and Prerna in some other thread.

Every person has a choice in life, but we often feel that we are victims to circumstances.

But, I believe our choices are not indicative of our circumstances but are merely a reflection of our personality. Prerna’s personality is like that and that’s how sadly Indian women are expected to behave. As superwomen who have the ONLY option to sacrifice themselves. Faulty writing, NO but this is called creating empathy. Mass media caters to women who are vastly TRP audience. Majorly, to a generation whose lives have either been confined to homes or are still attached to the names of traditions. Women are supposed to be docile and are largely expected to be sacrificial lambs.

So, when you create a character who sacrifices everything all the time for family, it somehow creates a psychological empathy in the minds of the audience who believe strongly that they too are victims to circumstances. This empathy evokes the curiosity to know more about them and watch the show the next day. They relate to it.

It’s always easy to blame circumstances, isn’t it? That’s what these show makers create. A make believe world and situation of comfort for the watchers.

It’s like telling them - ‘ SEE, the heroine too had no option but to sacrifice.’

Coming back to the topic. Did Prerna really have a choice? Of course yes, everyone has. In life, everyone has a choice until they are beaten up physically or forced. So, could Prerna saved this situation? Yes, had she not been Prerna. Remember, this Prerna is not a Prerna in your Head or as you would want her to react. She is the Prerna makers have created whose DNA is taking the most myopic way out-Put herself as shield to protect the family. When I say shield, that doesn’t mean, she fights but she simply takes the torment herself.

I would give you an example- Haven’t we heard our mothers, MIL’s say - Bhagwan Karen tumhari bimari mujhe lag haye. Bhagwan ko agar bulana hai toh mujhe bula le’.

That’s the most natural reaction a TRP audience has and imagine a character that is drawn similar to hers. They are thrilled.

Prerna is simply a reflection of such women and above all Prerna is written that way. We are all about the choices we make and the chances we take. Prerna took a chance and made her choice. Who are we to judge her based on that?

And, coming to blackmail. Who doesn’t blackmail in real life?

1. Boss- You should Butter me up or else your career suffers.

2. Teachers-Behave extra nicely and take Tutions from us or else we fail you.

3. Parents-Get married to a man we decide for you or else what will we tell the world.

You think the world is a beautiful place with saints walking around? No, it’s bitter manipulative and totally murky. No one is a saint and every human being is selfish to some degree or the other.

Does that mean, Bajaj’s actions can be negated? Of course not! He will have to take a journey of remorse and guilt. Coercion is crime, agreed, but we have seen coercion’s everywhere. He is a man of few words but he has WRONGED Prerna. What better punishment than not being loved by the one for whom your heart will beat eventually?

I am not NORMALISING OR TRIVIALISING the emotional manipulation and exploitation of her emotions. But, it’s a truth. Human interactions are complex and increasingly coupled with toxicity- be it emotional or psychological.

So, in the end, the show is about Prerna, Anurag and Bajaj as characters. They are characters and not what we would want to see them doing.

Bottom line, we always have a choice! We just CHOOSE on the basis of our convenience. She is CAGED and stripped of her right to Love. The cage was definitely built by Bajaj. He dragged her there and then she took her step.

It’s not a WILL issue, it’s her SKILL issue!

Rishabh Bajaj ko galat saabit karne key chakkar mein kuch log itna nichey gir gaye ki woh kabhi bhi waspas nahi aa sakta.. 🤪🤪 in all the trying to kill me drama , if there comes a situation where someone has to give the testimony for RB ; I have a feeling ki it will be the brother in law. He might have seen/ have received some onliners from RB 😆😆 during the said time .

@esha143

Would you be kind enough to post tomorrows ep link too after it's uploaded on drive?

Thanks to you I got to watch it b4 airs on TV.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

@esha143

Would you be kind enough to post tomorrows ep link too after it's uploaded on drive?

Thanks to you I got to watch it b4 airs on TV.

Ofcourse...I'll do that by 8 IST...that's when I'll be free...and will do that daily until someone tells me I can't do this😆

Request to all the VM makers. Can someone make a VM on this song for Prerna and Rishabh?

https://youtu.be/ZkcyYqwJq9s