Kaam ki baat --Jawab do - Page 7

Originally posted by: beingsirius

Gham ki baat nahin hai.....Its just the way I'm wired....I feel like an alien on earth....aap nahin samjhoge...

But thank you for the kind words...❤️ And I got to know from here that you've a son who won a tournament...Congrats..You must be such a proud Papa....And best wishes!!.......Thank God for fathers...I love my Dad to bits. He's my best friend.

Thanks

Papa best friend hai na dnt wry sab sambhal lengey phir wo but bata dena unko jo bhi baat ho

Dil ki baatien share karna start karo solution milne lag jayengey ... log kya sochtey hai usse fark nahi padta tum kya sochte ho apne bare main usse jayda fark padta hai ..accha socho apne bare main jaise bhi ho 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Zeal17

I m shocked 😂 zandu se last yr tak Mai aise baat karta tha jaise apni age group ka ho😆.. is sal zyada nhi hui.. but ab respect deke baat karni pdegi... Itna Mera work-ex nhi hai jitna zandu ji ke kid ka age hai 😆...

I wonder who else I m talking n fighting on forum who is aged 😅 damn...

age is just a number ..dikhta abhi bhi main teri age ka hi hoon ...santoor se nahi nahata but umar se kam hi lagta hoon 😆

poetry ka shauk hai to mere signature main link hai wahan se meri poerty read kar le ..phir aur respect karega 😆

Originally posted by: polin

In my opinion looking at present circumstances, in future situation will be worse. So if you try think from your kids' point of view one child is enough. Because in future it will difficult for them.

👍🏼 ek dum mast baat bole tussi

You can go for it. You have financially good condition. you are responsible man. I've known you since long, you are pretty much sorted , well maintained guy. It's good to have 2 kids, in many family i have seen. If you have two kids, once they grow up, they will part their responsibilities. Ek pe boj toh nhi aayega if anything goes wrong. Plus, you get emotional support too.

We are 2 siblings.i always felt ek aur hona chahiye tha.

It depends. My sibling and I have 8 years age difference. When I was in 5th grade he started college. Before that he was busy with board exams, tuitions, etc. So despite having sibling I felt lonely at home. He always had his set of friends and I had mine. I share my thoughts more with my age cousins than my brother. We hardly bonded. But it might be different for others with same age difference. I sometimes wish I had a lesser age difference sibling like my cousins or I am the older sibling.

I am extremely happy that I have a younger sister... I am thankful to god for giving me her ❤️ And our gap is perfect.. just 5-6 years. And we are a rare scenario as we don't have any fights.. she will give her life for me and vice versa.

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

👍🏼 ek dum mast baat bole tussi

What I am trying to say that it will be difficult for you and your children both as the day passes. For everyone it's gonna be difficult.

Btw aap shadi-shuda ho bhaiya??

I feel like in the present world one child is enough. You can give them everything without a thought or worry about saving up for the other. There's also unexpected situations that can crop up where you might have to choose one over the other. Like a friend of mine had to give up his dream school in the US because his brother is sick and all the money goes to keep him healthy. So I feel a smaller family is better. Its more financially secure and stable and healthier with better insurance. You will have lots of savings to travel and take vacations as family too.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

I feel like in the present world one child is enough. You can give them everything without a thought or worry about saving up for the other. There's also unexpected situations that can crop up where you might have to choose one over the other. Like a friend of mine had to give up his dream school in the US because his brother is sick and all the money goes to keep him healthy. So I feel a smaller family is better. Its more financially secure and stable and healthier with better insurance. You will have lots of savings to travel and take vacations as family too.

True.There will be either unexpected or intentional situations.