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Baring herself emotionally naked, Babita has stood in front of Hanuman with all her beauty and all her ugliness. She is gutsy. Does he have the guts to emotionally bare himself?

What are his flaws? What exactly is his andar ki aag? His worst self? What are his ugliness? (as writers said about Babita's)

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Baring herself emotionally naked, Babita has stood in front of Hanuman with all her beauty and all her ugliness. She is gutsy. Does he have the guts to emotionally bare himself?

What are his flaws? What exactly is his andar ki aag? His worst self? What are his ugliness? (as writers said about Babita's)

I guess HS speaking what is in his heart regarding Babita. DOn't know if they mean baring to Lale or Babita.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Baring herself emotionally naked, Babita has stood in front of Hanuman with all her beauty and all her ugliness. She is gutsy. Does he have the guts to emotionally bare himself?

What are his flaws? What exactly is his andar ki aag? His worst self? What are his ugliness? (as writers said about Babita's)

I won't say ugliness but his flaws, to me, is his fear of falling weak in front of others .. I have noticed he gets uncomfortable as soon as his vulnerability comes to fore .. only minimal times he has exposed his emotions ..

His andar ki aag is his passion and limitless/unconditional love which to him can be overwhelming for others to handle and not reciprocate enough ..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, he needs to start communicating, slowly but surely. I know it will be hard for him to do that overnight but he must start somewhere. Having said that, I don't think she has shown any signs that she is ready to provide that space to listen to him, or to help him speak up.

I don't know which way this is going but my stomach has been churning slightly since the episode aired.

I am wondering the same. Let's say HS communicates. But what if Babita again thinks it is his ego? How long can Mini play mother to her?

Originally posted by: sanam912

I won't say ugliness but his flaws, to me, is his fear of falling weak in front of others .. I have noticed he gets uncomfortable as soon as his vulnerability comes to fore .. only minimal times he has exposed his emotions ..

His andar ki aag is his passion and limitless/unconditional love which to him can be overwhelming for others to handle and not reciprocate enough ..

@1st bold: Exactly what I thought. Fearing to show his vulnerability to the world because it shows that you are "weak" (per societal conditioning esp for a man). HS needs to be show his vulnerability to Babita at some point, and I think that is what baring himself emotionally is what writers are talking about.

@2nd bold: Yep. I think so. Idk what way writers are going with this one though 🤔

Originally posted by: rose1000

I am wondering the same. Let's say HS communicates. But what if Babita again thinks it is his ego? How long can Mini play mother to her?

I don't think she has ever shown that unless he has sunaoed her for something .. whenever he has said something she has heard and reciprocated positively ..

Agree .. High time, mini becomes her daughter .. she has become HS's daughter .. but not hers yet .. either she has been her guide or her mother .. not a friend or daughter

Today I don’t understand why HS was little upset after he apologized to her ? I really don’t understand also what was Babita was asking?

Originally posted by: sanam912

I won't say ugliness but his flaws, to me, is his fear of falling weak in front of others .. I have noticed he gets uncomfortable as soon as his vulnerability comes to fore .. only minimal times he has exposed his emotions ..

His andar ki aag is his passion and limitless/unconditional love which to him can be overwhelming for others to handle and not reciprocate enough ..

Yes I feel that too ..his putting up a mask when he is clearly breaking inside... I mean it puts that external burden on person that they can't be themselves freely.. it's like some restrictions that they have set themselves into just to protect people they love ..and in that regard is his unconditional love is also his flaw very true.. I don't know why I remember it now but Imarti's dialogue in the letter... Itni bhi Preet achi nahi.. ki Jaan hi le le ..and then his own admission of his extent of love..when he tells Minnie that even if we hold person tight then also it's suffocating.. but isn't he suffocating himself .. imagine being in a relationship when a person has to think carefully about words he has to choose and constant reminder of what if it hurts her .. there is no freedom in such relationship..no freedom to be actually his real self.. more I think more I believe that it's very important for people to be blunt at times...to tell their insecurities..their fears ..exposing their vulnerable side.. to the person they love... If that person really loves them than he or she would try to understand where those are coming from..

Originally posted by: Tshaheen

Today I don’t understand why HS was little upset after he apologized to her ? I really don’t understand also what was Babita was asking?

He was hurt with way she asked .. it was an emotional blackmail..a proof of love that she was asking..he had to prove it inspite of everything he has done

Originally posted by: riti4u

Yes I feel that too ..his putting up a mask when he is clearly breaking inside... I mean it puts that external burden on person that they can't be themselves freely.. it's like some restrictions that they have set themselves into just to protect people they love ..and in that regard is his unconditional love is also his flaw very true.. I don't know why I remember it now but Imarti's dialogue in the letter... Itni bhi Preet achi nahi.. ki Jaan hi le le ..and then his own admission of his extent of love..when he tells Minnie that even if we hold person tight then also it's suffocating.. but isn't he suffocating himself .. imagine being in a relationship when a person has to think carefully about words he has to choose and constant reminder of what if it hurts her .. there is no freedom in such relationship..no freedom to be actually his real self.. more I think more I believe that it's very important for people to be blunt at times...to tell their insecurities..their fears ..exposing their vulnerable side.. to the person they love... If that person really loves them than he or she would try to understand where those are coming from..

BANG ON riti

He is holding on to his insecurities of losing his daughter .. but he will suffocate if he keeps bending in front of her ego to please/placate her all the time

Its a pity when the relationship comes to that .. been there done that .. !!