Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 28

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Haha, I've already fallen in love and in some ways I think I still am, but it's just really complicated.

aww.. thats great... dont worry things ll get sorted.. m able to connect to u bcz i ll be turning 24 in few months nd not a single relationship till now.. so yeah sumtimes things go above my head too..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, that's what I saw too. Almost as if he was asking himself, were they really hers?

I just hope they show a different pehloo of her actions .. I dont have the heart to watch similar clip in the future. When attiya mentioned about it being difficult to watch .. I thought how much more difficult can it get after Imarti .. but for the first time I felt pierced and repelled

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, but he's not a quitter.

Also, don't forget that after losing Imarti and feeling helpless when all that happened, he will do everything in his power to keep Babita happy and in his life. Unfortunately, that may be to his detriment if things don't get sorted out eventually.

Bold BANG ON

You lose respect .. that heartfelt love !!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, this is the point of such shows and plot lines. They make you think outside of your comfort zone and re-evalute how you view things. If there's any confusion you can come and discuss with us too so we can also see your perspective. I love this forum and all the lovely people here. 😃

I agree and I thank the CVs whole heartedly for creating such a beautiful show. Even after it's over, it'll be something that I cherish and will continue to learn from forever. ❤

I think right now, the biggest confusion is in regards to the concept of self-respect and ego. I know there is a fine line between them but how do you know when to take a stand for yourself and when to let things slide?

For example, with Babes, I wanted her to take a stand for her self respect. What HS said to her was wrong, but the method she chose to get that apology and then her reaction after it, that felt didn't feel right to me.

Also, I haven't delved too deeply into yet, but a faint echo of my own past actions are arising in mind. Did I too act from a self-centered POV rather than considering the other person's feelings?

I want to divulge more but I'm refraining as I'm not sure how comfortable people are in discussing private lives.

Originally posted by: sanam912

I just hope they show a different pehloo of her actions .. I dont have the heart to watch similar clip in the future. When attiya mentioned about it being difficult to watch .. I thought how much more difficult can it get after Imarti .. but for the first time I felt pierced and repelled

The reason you felt this way was perhaps because you saw his love for Imarti, watched how losing her destroyed him, how he has been waiting for Babita for SOOOO long, and how early morning was the first time those pained eyes of his saw happiness in so many years, only for this to happen. Also because even though you are hurting for him, you know where Babita is coming from. These things have been playing on your subconscious mind because of the way the CVs presented the storyline.

Originally posted by: rr66

aww.. thats great... dont worry things ll get sorted.. m able to connect to u bcz i ll be turning 24 in few months nd not a single relationship till now.. so yeah sumtimes things go above my head too..

This is why I love when HS gives those words of wisdom on the complications between a man and a woman. As a woman, I know what I want, but what does the man want? What are their needs and desires? What do they look for out of a relationship?

I know it differs from man to man, but from what I have seen thus far, they all have the same quality of keeping things to themselves. 😂

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I think right now, the biggest confusion is in regards to the concept of self-respect and ego. I know there is a fine line between them but how do you know when to take a stand for yourself and when to let things slide?

There are two sides to the coin here. Firstly, what are you focusing on at any given moment? Ego or self-respect? Secondly, how is the other person taking it? Is he or she able to understand your situation and learn to let go of situations where they clearly see your ego taking over but choose to respect and love you regardless, knowing that it is part of your nature?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

This is why I love when HS gives those words of wisdom on the complications between a man and a woman. As a woman, I know what I want, but what does the man want? What are their needs and desires? What do they look for out of a relationship?

I know it differs from man to man, but from what I have seen thus far, they all have the same quality of keeping things to themselves. 😂

I am wondering if there will also be a commentary on conditioning men not to express their feelings, their pain or grieve openly due to social conditioning. Not all men are like that, though.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

This is why I love when HS gives those words of wisdom on the complications between a man and a woman. As a woman, I know what I want, but what does the man want? What are their needs and desires? What do they look for out of a relationship?

I know it differs from man to man, but from what I have seen thus far, they all have the same quality of keeping things to themselves.

hehe.. i think the society plays an imp part in this like guys are always being told be a man, boys dont cry, u r a man u r supposed to be strong, etc etc... it keeps them from showing their vulnerabe side to anyone... nd this cause so much complications especially for the women😔

Originally posted by: naq5

i dont understand why she needed haath jodke sorry. HS had already said'mujse galti hogi 'a few seconds earlier