Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 5

I noticed for the first time how good Hanuman Singh is at emotional scenes??

This apology scene reminded me of one scene of the big bang theory. Male lead, Leonard has a overachieving psychologist mother who is always condescending about his achievements. And she doesn't realise that how much her words hurt Leonard ( she is not the unconditional love showering mother). One day,in a meltdown Leonard finally confronts his mother about how she failed him as a mother and how much her behavior hurts him. His mother says, " But that was never my intention". To which Leonard replies," It doesn't matter what you intended, what matters is how you made me feel".

This isn't an exact analogy of today's apology scene but I think it is pretty close one. HS didn't mean it, but still his words did hurt Babita. Can't downplay effect of his actions on babita.

I must say writers are showing us realistic story and character...

Normally In itv main leads specially female leads are. Imp and devis.... They are way too good and can't do anything wrong....

Bit writers broke that today... Na na... Long back through this show.... Wow what depiction of a human being and nobody is perfect...

Earlier also they have shown how insecure and selfish was babes when Minni was going to dadu Beeji when meeta was there... And even when hs held meeta hand after that also she became possesive for him too... She said apni cheezo ko samhalna padta hai nahi to koi bhi cheen sakta hai...

And today her ego overshadowed her love for him.. And she don't realize how hurt he was bcoz of that... She don't thought the situation should have been handled in different and good way as well...which happens with all the couple in the world... At least once I'm your life ur ego overshadows ur love for your partner... But it doesn't means that he or she doesn't love... They of course love u but they are humans and humans tend to make mistakes.... I know this will be

Kudos to the writers to show us realistic characters..... 👏

Take a bow....

Felt bad for HS today. Babita should have just told him that his words hurt her, but shouldn’t have put a condition and emotionally blackmail. HS is a good guy so he will never want to hurt Babita so he will always try to make her happy.

Also, I wonder if HS will rethink this whole marriage. I wonder if he will say he wants some time before getting married 🤔

Bt how will babita rectify her mistake???will Minnie make her understand or will HS give her silent treatment..after looking at her behavior today I think HS will be now double cautious while interacting with her..so no romantic talks for a few episodes..CVS have touched the ego aspect of babita's character bt I am more curious abt how they will solve it...will it be the MINNI helping her or HS or both???

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

To all who says babita is selfish, I disagree ...disagree to the same extent on which I felt for HS.

A women who just followed everyone. His parents, husband, in laws and then daughter. A women who was questioned about everything; character, marriage, upbriging daughter, an employee, as business person. A women who never got a man's love. I know , you cannot define a worthy a women is on basis of how much importance man give to her, but this is different. The man not provided love first, it was respect, confidence, self worth which was handed to her. Then both minni and HS handed decision making power to her, a trust that she can stand on her own and chose what she desire not just want.

You know what's difference between a want and desire? Wants are basics but desires, are selfish.they grew and grew. As a teenager ,when we young girls are provided with these powers, we are exactly same. We feel same price in putting down everyone, esp men and I being honest with it. We grew ,we learn. But when a women is given these elements at 35, she is not right but give her time , to correct herself.😍

Yes. She basically started from zero. She's now at a 100. Eventually, she'll understand that life needs to around 50.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Lol. I am neither of these. I am just an ordinary woman too but I perceive things differently that's all. May be due to my experiences in life? Not too sure because I never really believed in ego tussles in relationships, of the platonic or the romantic variety.

I can never say Maine bol diya na bas, now no more discussion. Me teri maa hun. I have decided bas finished. you better obey me!

well its her nature ....why is that is another Q as tweets says she is using this victim card

now she try to be Boss as here with Minnie and Hanuman she knew they will agree with or obey her

i think its very real i have come across many women esp who use victim card dominantly on husband or kids or anybody around them

It is still commendable for Indian TV show to show female lead as flawed and having ego. She needs to grow emotionally too.. I feel in her relationship with Minnie too she has shown her egoistic side quite number of times.. yes may be in her first marriage, her ego would have made her stay back with her in laws not accompanying her husband...it will be interesting to see how she will grow. .will she loose Hanuman and then learn .. or will his love be so strong to make her see beyond her ego..or Minnie will do the job..

I too felt bad for HS... Poor guy..🤗hug for him

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Felt bad for HS today. Babita should have just told him that his words hurt her, but shouldn’t have put a condition and emotionally blackmail. HS is a good guy so he will never want to hurt Babita so he will always try to make her happy.

Also, I wonder if HS will rethink this whole marriage. I wonder if he will say he wants some time before getting married 🤔

Even I feel the same.... 🙄🙃

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Felt bad for HS today. Babita should have just told him that his words hurt her, but shouldn’t have put a condition and emotionally blackmail. HS is a good guy so he will never want to hurt Babita so he will always try to make her happy.

Also, I wonder if HS will rethink this whole marriage. I wonder if he will say he wants some time before getting married 🤔

I really hope he does. As most of the people here, especially Jean, have been saying, the marriage is happening far too soon than it should be. They need to take some time.

Originally posted by: riti4u

It is still commendable for Indian TV show to show female lead as flawed and having ego. She needs to grow emotionally too.. I feel in her relationship with Minnie too she has shown her egoistic side quite number of times.. yes may be in her first marriage, her ego would have made her stay back with her in laws not accompanying her husband...it will be interesting to see how she will grow. .will she loose Hanuman and then learn .. or will his love be so strong to make her see beyond her ego..or Minnie will do the job..

I too felt bad for HS... Poor guy..🤗hug for him

Remember the returning of jewellery scene... that was a glimpse of ego too...