Originally posted by: swasanlove
Babita today at her face said arey ye toh Minnie aayi hai(in a disappointed way) she is bound to feel bad because of that , no one would like to hear such a statement from their mom..See we cannot call her feelings insecurity or jealousy. What I feel is she would feel left out and a bit low, her parents must then go have a talk with her and M would be back to normal
I did not mean that scene. And I agree with your point of view. that can be seen as a slight miss, but it is not Babita's fault either. She loves Minnie unconditionally and Minnie also loves her, more than anything in the world.
But Babita has seen and felt a lot of pain. She is also not at fault. I am sure if Minnie's babes makes her understand that she did not mean to ignore her, she will understand.
The scene i was referring to was the earring scene. She sees her dadu biji's gift. But right now what she is not seeing is the love that Babita needs. These people did not support her when needed. They could not even stop their son from maligning Babita's name. So, now if she wants to wear the jhumkas sent by HS and not the earrings, then there is nothing wrong in that. It is fine.
Dadu and biji, specially biji, only changed their tone and thinking once they saw how badly ashok behaved with them, how mita behaved initially. They saw that mita would never care for them the way Babita does. And after everything happened, biji still wanted ashok to apologise and Babita to forgive him and get back together. Even though she did not say it to Babita or Minnie, ashok made it clear when he said "biji ne kaha tha, usse maafi maang le, woh maaf kar degi".
Minnie needs to realise this. That these people did not support her or Babita when they really needed it. Where were these people when Babita was working in the factory and had blisters on her feeet, where were they when she had to work as an aaya, where were they when she was alone fighting for her character, for her right to survive?
And the whole sequence of Minnie changing her last name. Dadu threatened her. that was not right. At that time he did not care aout what was right or wrong, he cared about the fact that Minnie changing her name would end his family line, what would the society say.
It is natural for Minnie to feel insecure and after all her talks she is very young. here i think apart from HS and babes, her friends need to make her understand that even though babita is her mother, right now she is that woman who wants to be loved, to feel loved and cared for. I think Mickey can make her understand that And preet can remind her of all the past happenings.
Shiv Shakti
