Samaina FF - The Reluctant Groom and His Accidental Bride CH 49 pg 81 - Page 24

Originally posted by: SixteenAgain

Dear All,

I am not completely sure if this is the right forum to share these thoughts, but have decided to, considering that a lot of the readers of this FF are youngsters.

Few days back, a teenage daughter of a school friend committed suicide. The family is extremely shocked to find out that she was a victim of cyber bullying and blackmail. I do not know the details, but apparently the girl had shared some photos with a guy she had met in some chatroom. The guy/man was now blackmailing her that he would share them over social media sites and apps.

In today’s world, where we all form so many virtual friendships and relationships, it will always be a very big challenge to not run into some manipulative and cruel people. Some of us are more trusting or gullible than others.

We will never know what exactly she must have gone through; extreme fear, shame, disillusionment, guilt and despair, probably just to name a few. Her parents had warned her against the dangers of sharing too much information online, but it still happened. What she should have realised was, irrespective of her having a serious lapse in judgement and landing in this situation, her family would have stood by her. Her parents would probably have been angry, shocked and maybe disappointed too, but they would not have stopped loving her and would have tried to understand her.

I have a young daughter, and time and again, I try to impress upon her that no mistake of hers will be too big for us to not move beyond. None of us can go through life, without making a lot of mistakes, both big and small. But, these blunders do not define us and should not dictate the entire course of your life. Learning from our various mistakes and not committing them again and again is important. Sometimes our only mistake is trusting the wrong person, and it should not cost our life.

Please, always remember, you are all much bigger than one or more of your mistakes. Even if your parents are not able to articulate it or do not say it often, you are the centre of their universes and existence. Please do not give into despair and do share your problems with your parents or any other adult that you trust. It is our role and responsibility as a parent, to protect you and fight for you, till you can stand very strong and fight all your battles. Also, as much as you might value your friend’s privacy, sometimes it’s important to seek help for a friend from another adult or the right authority figure. It could literally make the difference between life and death.

I am sorry, if some of you do not like this post, but I feel compelled to share these thoughts in the hope that someone will learn and benefit from this.

I have not made a lot of progress on the current update and will not be able to share it this week. Will share it next week.

Lots of love, May

May,

This is indeed a very correct place to share such note. I am glad that u did it. I am feeling very pity for girls parents, may her soul rest in peace n her parents get strength to bear this pain n loss of their.

Well being mother of daughter it already giving me goosebumps. Not only this note of yourz will enlighten young teenagers but also young mom like us. Where we shd assure our child wid our gesture n words that no matter what we will be there with u, if u fall in wrong company, plz come n let us know. We may b angry wid u but will be with u.

I DNT want to lecture here but will definitely want to share my pov, sometimes it's lack of communication, which leads to accident n here is my learning too.

Thnks a lot to share here, n open many of our eyes.

Regards, sakina

Hi May

I pray that the parents get the strength to bare the loss and let the soul rest in peace.

A very valid topic and its right place you have brought it here. Many readers are very young and its important for them to know this. You have articulated it very well.

Communication is the key in every relationship. As parents we need to communicate and assure them that no matter what, we are there to support them , that trust has to be built. I talked about this incident with my young daughter. Most of the times when things are shared I don't judge her but give my pov. Life is too precious to lose it .Any battle can be fought with right support.

I urge all the youngsters here to build that relationship with the parents or any person who can guide and support.

Thanks for sharing it.

Love

Sajida

4 days to go for update yayy...🥳

Originally posted by: MOH29

Hi May

It was a beautiful update bechara Sameer meetha khate khate reh Gaya. Naina is so naive and innocent that she doesn't know what follows the 😘. The open conversation between them about the physical intimacy and family planning was a good thing at least they know about their expectations..

I know we all are upset with the news of getting our show off air but I request you to continue your writing with other stories in this forum. Pls don't quit the forum after the show gets off air. Give us another beautiful story atleast we can live samaina in your stories.

Thank you dear!

I know.., bechare Sameer ke meethe Ki khwaish ab tak adhuri hai! Koi nahi, Mr Maheshwari jaldi kuch jugaad kar lenge 😉

Happy to read you are enjoying the HM so far 😊 and I will definitely complete this story!

Love, May

Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

May- I have to admit! I kinda love your Mr. Somani!

Haha- ise honeymoon pe jaana hai! :P Kahin bhi jao...hotel acha ho! :P

Sofe se nahi giri! Bande ko samajh hi nahi aata kab kahan kya bolna hai!

And Sameer bada desperate ho raha hai...and why is Naina holding back- mummyji se kya discuss krna hai? Aage pata chalega (yet to read the most recent updates).

And Vishakha ko bhi abhi hi rukna tha late...n Sameer ka Munna ko complain karna was hilarious! When Munna failed to see an issue with that, he mumbled something about Somani getting on his nerves...hahaha! Loved that line!

You thought of Mt. Abu as their honeymoon destination- that is so sweet! I'm eager to see the memories of the show unfold through your eyes!

I'll try and catch up soon with the recent updates!

Love,

Sur

Thanks Sur 🤗

So happy to read that you are enjoying Somani in this avatar... yaar jaha Dulha hi itna reluctant tha, waha kiss I aur villain Ki kya Jarurat, right? 😀

Bhai, ek umar mein ladka thoda despo na ho toh problem ho sakta hai 😉 Humari bachi bus kuch nadaan hai... seekh jayegi...

Mt Abu choose toh kar Iiya, par dekhti hu, kitna justice kar pati hu humari un memories ko. 🤞

Hope you enjoy the coming updates!

Love, May

Originally posted by: Suparna13

Thank you, May di!!

It was indeed a stressful week... for this year so far... exam ke time pe bhi shayad itna stress na ho koi!! Jo bhi ho... kudos to you... you gave us this update!! Love,love, lots of love to you❤❤❤!!

The night, after marriage blissful for them so far🙈❤❤... how you wrote the whole scenario... just applauding!! Not a single word is overboard... loved it❤❤!! Naive naina... ye to samne ana hi tha! Desperation of sameer, each description of that.. is just WOW! You just stunned us with each and every update!! And I am eager to be more stunned! The whole part at the first was sensuous, passionate❤❤.. sameer's desperation and naina's naivety is clearly felt with words!

Intimacy... ye topic to ab bhi tabooed hai... tab to 90's thi!! Sameer ko sab sikhana padega naina ko... ladki topper hai jaldi seekh jayegi!!

Bechara Sameer ki humiliation ho gayi drugstore ke bahar... koi nahi...!! Ab to mayan-talwar conversation hogi!! Mujhe lagta hai... naina bhi thodi bahot curious to hai.... topper brain ka upyog to karegi!!

Ab to last four days se leisure time mein mujhe yahi yaad araha hai.. ki kya hoga age!!! Dekhte hai honeymoon ki 2nd night mein kya hota hai???

Ab to bas besabri se update ka intezar hai...❤️!!!

Hope you are fine di....🤗 take care!!

With love,Suparna

Thanks Suparna 😊

Ha yaar... bahoot tension wala week gaya hai.. Pata nahi kya hone wala hai show ka!

Glad you are enjoying the HM so far. It’s harder to write than I had expected 😀 chalo, at least so far you guys are liking it! Not-at-all reluctant groom and his buddhu wife... dekhte hai kaise aage baat badhti hai 😉

Love, May

Originally posted by: Stuti596

Hello May

How are you??? The update was amazing. It’s so surreal on how you have explained Naina having no knowledge on intimacy and Sameer’s reaction over it. You are an outstanding writer. Thank you dear

Love

Stuti

Thanks Stuti!

It is so good to read that you are finding the HM and their challenges relatable. 😊

Hope you enjoy the coming updates too!

Love, May

Hi

Sad to hear about the young girl.. Its a fact that this is one of the biggest drawbacks of social media.. I have been reminding my daughter regarding posting pics n posts n making friends on social media since the day she has started using it.. Though she's quite mature now, but still I can't help myself from reminding to be careful on social media.

May God give strength to the family to bear the pain..

Loving it. 😳

Waiting for the next update😃

Originally posted by: Lovleenrai

Hi may

First of all sorry.... I hadn't commented about last update.... As usual very nice and full of innocence as well romantic update.

Bechara sameer kya kya sapne dhekhe the.... But dont worry poore ho jayenge jaldi hi.

Nina ko kuch nhi pata, per sameer sab samjha dega.

I loved "kehte kuch hai aur krte kuch aur hai"

Now comming to reality.... As yudkbh fandom, last week was really very painful for us, we still trying to save our show.

May as you said that you will complete this story, so happy for that...... But i have a request plzzz write another stories on samina.... As their name are enough for us to relate.

Thanks dear and so good to read that you enjoyed the last update 😊

Dekhte hai Sam babu kaise apni bailgaddi ko aage badhate hai 😜

I hope we get some good news about the show soon!

Love, May