कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 26 Jul 2019 - Page 13

Since when did just a NO mutual consent marriage was given rights ???Typical Indian mentality marriage over so the husband has rights over the wife ....Interesting.Man married her under blackmail and I guess that is easily forgotten but a man helping her in unconscious state is stated to be forcing himself on her.

Anurag and Prerna are still in love with each other so they both have more rights over each other than the so called rituals which mean nothing.Soul acceptance and heart is given more importance than any other ritual or for that case even marriage in papers.The day Prerna develops feelings for Mr B if from that day Anurag forces himself then members can criticize Anurag but not now.

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

suta tum sandwitch fan ho kya😳

Am neither fan of Anurag nor Bajaj ...

I am only Erica fan ... not the character Prerna ..it’s bit complicated ...

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Good Morning ☀️

I get the theory of unsaid rights, Prerna here has given her body to Anurag. I was not bashing him, it maybe a normal relationship for AnuPre where Anurag is manhandling her in every meeting. A woman deserves to be treated with respect only when she is submissive to her manchild Anurag otherwise he will twist her arm, pull and push her, slap her, threaten her that he will force himself on her.

I don't have a problem with dynamics of this relationship, I am thinking from a zone where it is not ok to treat a woman like Anurag is treating her. One more thing I'd like to add is that my resignation stems from the word love being used here. If they tell me that Anurag is obsessed with Prerna, I will watch it from that perspective, this is not love for me

Haha ur description abt Anurag shows lyk u r describing Ronit rather..

Anurag never did something lyk untill bajaj track

Anu mandhandle her in Naveen track sometimes but it was for her own gud...if u r hurting a bit someone for her/his benifit then I think it's ok..

If someone is trying to jump off the river n u stop him anyway ..be it manhandle or pull push then is it wrong??

Anu slapped her out of anger or may b the way she was describing herself...plus pushing her or whtever was out of anger..

This is normal emotion..u can't expect a person be Saint even after betrayal...

Pre also did d same so it was ok for me..

He was not doing something wrong in today's ep as well...he dint kidnap her bt she misunderstood him so it was normal to outbrust...

Anurag is not some abusive or obessive lover

.Anu respected her completely...even he took d slap when pre's mom tried to slap her..

Anurag everytym saved her

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Am neither fan of Anurag nor Bajaj ...

I am only Erica fan ... not the character Prerna ..it’s bit complicated ...

🤣

Originally posted by: nebuna

Since when did just a NO mutual consent marriage was given rights ???Typical Indian mentality marriage over so the husband has rights over the wife ....Interesting.Man married her under blackmail and I guess that is easily forgotten but a man helping her in unconscious state is stated to be forcing himself on her.

Anurag and Prerna are still in love with each other so they both have more rights over each other than the so called rituals which mean nothing.Soul acceptance and heart is given more importance than any other ritual or for that case even marriage in papers.The day Prerna develops feelings for Mr B if from that day Anurag forces himself then members can criticize Anurag but not now.

Legally, if someone is forced, blackmailed, under duress (threatened with an dire outcome to themselves or near and dear ones) that person can annul the marriage in court.

But Pre has given her promise of loyalty to RB. Pre has also broken her promises before. She promised Anu she will never leave him ever and well in a few weeks just did that. So far Anu is keeping his promise to continue to love her as she wanted him to. Between AnuPre Anu has done more to advance their relationship than Pre.

How much did Mohini swearing to never accept Pre as her bahu ever weigh into Pre’s decision to accept RB?

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Am neither fan of Anurag nor Bajaj ...

I am only Erica fan ... not the character Prerna ..it’s bit complicated ...

After reading comments.. Meri haalat..🤕

Anu and preyu... Itna pyaar karte ho tho bhaag jao na bhai... Gayab ho jao kahi.... 😈

Preyu.. Romantic novel se acha movies dekhti yash raj ke.. Tiger aur zoya ki tarah apni zindagi jee rahe hote..👍🏼

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

kaun bola pooja karne ko

per kisi ka huq marogo to koi bhi chup nahi baithega

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Haq what haq. Prerna koi property nahi hai jo haq jammaye. Yes a girl left u. U r heartbroken.

She has given u an explanation. Yes u dont like it.

That doesn't mean u do something against her wishes. Mein kuch bhi karunga tumhe paane ke liye, what crap is this.

You call this love, yes each to his own but I call it obsession

Yes, he saved her from goons, but then he shld have taken her to police or hospital . Or he cld have called for help nearby.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

Yes he is flawed ...not denying that but I don’t think one can call what he did today kidnapping. Stupid move ...yes . The first thing he asked her once she became conscious was whether she was feeling alright. He did not force himself on her. They had an argument resulting in a lot push-pull from either sides

Anyway , to each to his own

I don't call it kidnapping also . I call it mauke kaa faayda uthaana. That's what I see it.

He had an option to go to police, hospital or call for some help. But he didn't do any of this.

He grabbed prerna ,put it in her car and they went in godown . Who does that?

For me atleast, he saw this as an opp to get some alone time with prerna . And this was a pathetic way to do it.

Yes some ppl will see it as an act of love and that's fine. It's their view.

But I see this as an obsessive and psycho behaviour.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Legally, if someone is forced, blackmailed, under duress (threatened with an dire outcome to themselves or near and dear ones) that person can annul the marriage in court.

But Pre has given her promise of loyalty to RB. Pre has also broken her promises before. She promised Anu she will never leave him ever and well in a few weeks just did that. So far Anu is keeping his promise to continue to love her as she wanted him to. Between AnuPre Anu has done more to advance their relationship than Pre.

How much did Mohini swearing to never accept Pre as her bahu ever weigh into Pre’s decision to accept RB?

@bold: I consider it a blackmail but there are many counter arguments calling it a deal.

Definition of blackmail:-demand money or another benefit from (someone) in return for not revealing compromising or damaging information about them.

Definition of deal: an agreement entered into by two or more parties for their mutual benefit, especially in a business or political context.

So deal is where there is mutual benefit and blackmail is where only the person with power gets the benefit. If we call it a deal- bajaj gets Prerna as his wife and Prerna gets Anurag out of Jail...can we call that a benefit she is getting? Does Indian laws consider this blackmail? I have still not come across any satisfactory answers for why it should be called a deal.

Prerna did have an option but options are available even in the worst situations