PearlVPuri/RaghbirMalhotra AT # 1 { BINDAASS hai yeh!} - Page 73

Originally posted by: urmita

I don't want a baby just yet Ima... When baby enters the equation everything changes... parenting gets more importance than romancing.....first let Praghbir become a proper couple, explore different angles with these two, then a baby is welcome...also Bani baby would ruin Praghbir before it has even started...

U know show Nazar? There munna birth was really well timed....

However there were shows like Punar vivaah where both the couple had kids in their previous marriage; and the reason why they got married was for the sake of giving their kids a full set of parents. There is also a case of YHM; where in the beginning Raman was a single father divorcee.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Okay guys, one thing I don't understand is why does Raghbir Malhotra attempts to commit suicide multiple times. Attempt being the operative word here. I mean if he really wants to do why didn't he slit his throat or his groin; or why didn't he throw himself from 50 storeys building. Do something that will ensure that he will die and spare himself the hurt of self-inflicting harms.

If I'm being honest I don't think Raghbir Malhotra really wants to kill himself. I think he is doing all this because he is in a limbo between wanting to be alive and move on with his sufferings and wanting to go where Bani is. He wants to live on, yet at the same time he also wants his family members to care for him. He wants someone to actually do something effectively to bring him from the darkness that is swallowing him inside.

Which brings me to why I think Raghbir should live by himself in his own home rather than living with the family members that do not care about him. They only care about the marriage and the parties; and getting rich in laws so that they can get the benefits and perks being related to someone richer than they are. What's the purpose of living in a joint family if they cannot give you the family and emotional support system that a joint family supposed to be. When we all know that living in a joint family is messy with full of nosey relatives.

As for the rest of the Malhotra family members; they are true freeloaders; who wants to have a luxurious life and the perks of having a lot of money brings, however they do not want to work for it. Raghbir's dad and Raghbir should cut their income and force them to work instead of living off of their largess; and maybe, just maybe, they should get a court order to make them contribute to at least pay the rent, electricity, waters, and other bills. Otherwise, they should have evicted them or establish them to live in different premises.

@Urmi I agree they are using RM and as long as he worked for them and generate generous income for them, he is an asset to them. When he no longer serves his purpose; then they throw him away like yesterday's garbage. Just show how fickle family members can be.

for RM life is not worthliving without his Bani.......he does not want to live,he tried to kill himself twice....first time in swimming pool and second time yesterday.....his brother saved him then and now pragati will do the job.....if these people were not there ab tak apni Bani k paas jaa chuka hota RM.....

moving on is not in his to do list😆.....sorry but not a chance for it......his pain,his sufferings,his desire to die is the same as it was after bani's sudden death.....

Originally posted by: daud95

for RM life is not worthliving without his Bani.......he does not want to live,he tried to kill himself twice....first time in swimming pool and second time yesterday.....his brother saved him then and now pragati will do the job.....if these people were not there ab tak apni Bani k paas jaa chuka hota RM.....

moving on is not in his to do list😆.....sorry but not a chance for it......his pain,his sufferings,his desire to die is the same as it was after bani's sudden death.....

Indeed hence the question why did he choose the methods of where he could still be saved. If he had slit his throats or he had slit his groin; then mostly likely it will be almost impossible to save and he will get what he wants. Most suicidal are attempting to suicide because they want to attentions and help that they are not getting; that they do not how to ask help for. I think there might be a chance, no matter how low it is, that Raghbir Malhotra wants a second chance in his life; a better life that he could be better and happier.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Okay guys, one thing I don't understand is why does Raghbir Malhotra attempts to commit suicide multiple times. Attempt being the operative word here. I mean if he really wants to do why didn't he slit his throat or his groin; or why didn't he throw himself from 50 storeys building. Do something that will ensure that he will die and spare himself the hurt of self-inflicting harms.

If I'm being honest I don't think Raghbir Malhotra really wants to kill himself. I think he is doing all this because he is in a limbo between wanting to be alive and move on with his sufferings and wanting to go where Bani is. He wants to live on, yet at the same time he also wants his family members to care for him. He wants someone to actually do something effectively to bring him from the darkness that is swallowing him inside.

Which brings me to why I think Raghbir should live by himself in his own home rather than living with the family members that do not care about him. They only care about the marriage and the parties; and getting rich in laws so that they can get the benefits and perks being related to someone richer than they are. What's the purpose of living in a joint family if they cannot give you the family and emotional support system that a joint family supposed to be. When we all know that living in a joint family is messy with full of nosey relatives.

As for the rest of the Malhotra family members; they are true freeloaders; who wants to have a luxurious life and the perks of having a lot of money brings, however they do not want to work for it. Raghbir's dad and Raghbir should cut their income and force them to work instead of living off of their largess; and maybe, just maybe, they should get a court order to make them contribute to at least pay the rent, electricity, waters, and other bills. Otherwise, they should have evicted them or establish them to live in different premises.

@Urmi I agree they are using RM and as long as he worked for them and generate generous income for them, he is an asset to them. When he no longer serves his purpose; then they throw him away like yesterday's garbage. Just show how fickle family members can be.

sorry double post

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Indeed hence the question why did he choose the methods of where he could still be saved. If he had slit his throats or he had slit his groin; then mostly likely it will be almost impossible to save and he will get what he wants. Most suicidal are attempting to suicide because they want to attentions and help that they are not getting; that they do not how to ask help for. I think there might be a chance, no matter how low it is, that Raghbir Malhotra wants a second chance in his life; a better life that he could be better and happier.

do you think RM is harming himself to get the attention of his heartless family??????here i am particularly talking about RM not oher suciders.....

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Okay guys, one thing I don't understand is why does Raghbir Malhotra attempts to commit suicide multiple times. Attempt being the operative word here. I mean if he really wants to do why didn't he slit his throat or his groin; or why didn't he throw himself from 50 storeys building. Do something that will ensure that he will die and spare himself the hurt of self-inflicting harms.

If I'm being honest I don't think Raghbir Malhotra really wants to kill himself. I think he is doing all this because he is in a limbo between wanting to be alive and move on with his sufferings and wanting to go where Bani is. He wants to live on, yet at the same time he also wants his family members to care for him. He wants someone to actually do something effectively to bring him from the darkness that is swallowing him inside.

Which brings me to why I think Raghbir should live by himself in his own home rather than living with the family members that do not care about him. They only care about the marriage and the parties; and getting rich in laws so that they can get the benefits and perks being related to someone richer than they are. What's the purpose of living in a joint family if they cannot give you the family and emotional support system that a joint family supposed to be. When we all know that living in a joint family is messy with full of nosey relatives.

As for the rest of the Malhotra family members; they are true freeloaders; who wants to have a luxurious life and the perks of having a lot of money brings, however they do not want to work for it. Raghbir's dad and Raghbir should cut their income and force them to work instead of living off of their largess; and maybe, just maybe, they should get a court order to make them contribute to at least pay the rent, electricity, waters, and other bills. Otherwise, they should have evicted them or establish them to live in different premises.

@Urmi I agree they are using RM and as long as he worked for them and generate generous income for them, he is an asset to them. When he no longer serves his purpose; then they throw him away like yesterday's garbage. Just show how fickle family members can be.

Slit groin? Did u really have to give me that idea?😱🤣🤣he has so much money, I bet he could buy some very effective poison like potassium cinide though.... I agree with u about RM though.... suicide is not this hard....and family, I m telling they must not be his real family...how can these vultures be his family....

Originally posted by: daud95

do you think RM is harming himself to get the attention of his heartless family??????here i am particularly talking about RM not oher suciders.....

Well, he was complaining that they did not even care that they were throwing party on the death anniversary of Bani's death. So, yes, to an extent albeit very vaguely I do think of it as he wants them to give more sympathy and care for him.

Originally posted by: daud95

do you think RM is harming himself to get the attention of his heartless family??????here i am particularly talking about RM not oher suciders.....

Well he thinks and believes he wants to die...but all his methods are lousy.....humans have extremely well self preservation instinct...who knows what is going on in his subconscious mind....RM definitely doesn't know...

Originally posted by: urmita

Slit groin? Did u really have to give me that idea?😱🤣🤣he has so much money, I bet he could buy some very effective poison like potassium cinide though.... I agree with u about RM though.... suicide is not this hard....and family, I m telling they must not be his real family...how can these vultures be his family....

Well, I am not sure about the effectiveness of potassium cynide so I didn't mention it. Oh dude I think you have yet to see how vultures can a vulture family be; that it's mind boggling to see the least.

Originally posted by: urmita

Slit groin? Did u really have to give me that idea?😱🤣🤣he has so much money, I bet he could buy some very effective poison like potassium cinide though.... I agree with u about RM though.... suicide is not this hard....and family, I m telling they must not be his real family...how can these vultures be his family....

vultures😆🤣??????wah did you notice not one person in the family is emotionally attached to RM and vice versa..how can it be?????family main koi aik to hota hai naa who gets tears in his/her eyes watching you cry.....but in RM family????kya boloon ab....