misthy and ruhaan 'reaction... - Page 6

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

It is wrong but can’t be retrospectively changed na. What has happened has happened- with all that in mind, I do believe Mishti is doing all she can to sort the situation now. She did lead Veer on, I don’t think thats debatable. But she didn’t do this to purposely hurt him, she just placed her own self-interest above his- which is flawed but human. I don’t agree with many of Mishti’s actions, but the intention beneath all of them has been self-interest and prioritizing own happiness, not to hurt Veer particularly (thats just the consequence of her actions).

I completely agree on this, Mishti did lead on Veer and I will not debate on that because we all agree on this. Mishti is wrong but mistake does happens, she didn't do it with the intention to hurt other. She had flaw concept of marriage and love. She thought that she can plan love. In her flawed concept she did hurt veer without his fault. But I think after realizing her mistake, she took the best decision of her life breaking up with veer. She said she can't keep him happy if she is not happy. She is indeed selfish to think about herself first (who won't?). She has flaws but she never make other unhappy knowingly. Veer ka I completely understand. No guy can take it if a girl reject him(that's also very human) but what he is doing is not correct also. He is hurting Mishti knowingly after planning and plotting just to insult her. Kidnapping abhi tak clear nahi hua so I won't comment on that but stalking, chalo stalking me she didn't harm her but party me jho hua woh sahi nahi hua. I would have respect him if he confront her about the reason. You know I am sucker for angst but he took another turn. He disrespect her, calls her names and even her company. He can sulk, he can be angry and never talk to her or taunt her here and their when ever he met her. Show her how well he is doing after she left him. I don't mind such things but sab ke aage yese insult karna is seriously not done.

When mishty herself agree to bua and dadi advice then why break engagement and if mishty want to break engagement in future then why agreeing bua and dadi advice

If mishty want to break engagement. She would have not agree to bua and mishty advice

And here mishty has not complete state her feeling to bua and dadi. It was half feeling share to bua and dadi

When u have agree to dadi and bua advice and no problem in sending printed card to temple then what is problem.

But jisse actually discuss karna chahiye mean veer se discuss karna chahiye. Woh to mishty nahi kiya

So what is use of discuss only with bua and dadi.if mishty would have discuss about this too veer it would have been better

May be this feeling is so personal one cannot discuss with their elder but this personal confusion can be discuss with veer before marriage preparation start

Originally posted by: kasaf

Hiii

Mishti breakup aesi karti real reason deke... Real reason ko sab se chupa ke nahi... Jab vo veer se breakup karne gai thi tab ye bolti ke 1 saal ke relation me pahele me samj time thi ke tum hi mera payaar ho me tumhare sath khush thi par bich me ruhaan ki entry hui and muje uske taraf fellings develope hone lagi aur ek point pe aake muje pata chala ke jisse me pyaar samaj rahi thi vo pyaar nahi tha par ruhaan ke taraf jo meri feelings hai vo pyaar hai.... So iss liye me break up kar rahi hu... So simple usse real reason hi dena tha... Veer ko bhi full closure mil jata and mishti apne gharwalo se bhi kuch nahi chhupati.... I don't no mishti and ruhaan apne relation ko kyu chupa rahe hai... Mishti ko apni goody goody image ki jayada parwaa hai apne aaspaas ke logo se bhi... Kaash aesa hi kunal karta to phir vo bhi aa shani se relationship mese bahar nikal jata

Did you see the confrontation scene ? where mishti wants to talk and told him everything and it's veer who said that he will do something wrong and left from there or after that when mishaan were trying again and again but it was veer who never listen to them. That party scene also, mishti went to talk to him about Ruhaan and her but sirji insult her. So woh kab Veer ko sab bata deti jab veer usko insult karne ke planning plotting kar raha tha, ya jab veer saraab me duba hua tha? Baat karne ke liye samne wala ko suna bhi chahiye na?

and If mishti wants to be two goody shoes tho sayad Veer se shaadi karke sab ke samne achi bani reheti. Veer usko itna kuch bol gya, uski mom ne itna insult kardiya, yeh sab nahi hota na?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

When mishty herself agree to bua and dadi advice then why break engagement and if mishty want to break engagement in future then why agreeing bua and dadi advice

If mishty want to break engagement. She would have not agree to bua and mishty advice

And here mishty has not complete state her feeling to bua and dadi. It was half feeling share to bua and dadi

When u have agree to dadi and bua advice and no problem in sending printed card to temple then what is problem.

But jisse actually discuss karna chahiye mean veer se discuss karna chahiye. Woh to mishty nahi kiya

So what is use of discuss only with bua and dadi.if mishty would have discuss about this too veer it would have been better

May be this feeling is so personal one cannot discuss with their elder but this personal confusion can be discuss with veer before marriage preparation start

Arey yaar. Har kisi ka dimag alag chalta hai na..

Har koi instant decision nahi le paata..ap ye toh samjho..

Wo bahot confused thi..isilie, ahista ahista, wo uncomfortable feel hone lagi veer se. Doubt karne lagi. Usne pehle question kiya apne ap se ke wo veer ko pasand b karti hai ya nahi. Islie Su bua se pucha. Then dadi se bola ke cards ka jaldi ho raha hai. Jab apki beti ye Puch rahi hai toh, dadi ko b thoda sa doubt hona tha na..

Aur rahi baat veer ko pehle batane ki, jaise hi usko confirm hogaya ke wo nahi pyar karti & veer ko khush nahi rakh payegi, she broke up.

Utne mistakes toh kisi se bhi hote hai na..har koi perfect toh nahi hota.

Kasaf I know that mishty try to tell veer reason for breaking engagement and veer did not tell listen and walk away

But point is that who will like to know reason when somebody is in state of shock

First gave veer shock by saying I can't marry and then veer should have listen calmly all reason

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kasaf I know that mishty try to tell veer reason for breaking engagement and veer did not tell listen and walk away

But point is that who will like to know reason when somebody is in state of shock

First gave veer shock by saying I can't marry and then veer should have listen calmly all reason

I agree on this, Veer has every reason to walk away and not to listen to Mishti. If i can understand mishti reason than I can understand veer's too. It just that it's not mishti who doesn't want to say everything to veer, it was veer who didn't listen and I will not blame him for that but we can't blame mishti either

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kasaf I know that mishty try to tell veer reason for breaking engagement and veer did not tell listen and walk away

But point is that who will like to know reason when somebody is in state of shock

First gave veer shock by saying I can't marry and then veer should have listen calmly all reason

When veer itself dont want to listen reason why to worry about that?

She tried to tell the reason,its upto veer whether to listen or not..he chosed not to listen and stalk her

If she can't take proper decision due to confusion then it is not veer problem

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

I completely agree on this, Mishti did lead on Veer and I will not debate on that because we all agree on this. Mishti is wrong but mistake does happens, she didn't do it with the intention to hurt other. She had flaw concept of marriage and love. She thought that she can plan love. In her flawed concept she did hurt veer without his fault. But I think after realizing her mistake, she took the best decision of her life breaking up with veer. She said she can't keep him happy if she is not happy. She is indeed selfish to think about herself first (who won't?). She has flaws but she never make other unhappy knowingly. Veer ka I completely understand. No guy can take it if a girl reject him(that's also very human) but what he is doing is not correct also. He is hurting Mishti knowingly after planning and plotting just to insult her. Kidnapping abhi tak clear nahi hua so I won't comment on that but stalking, chalo stalking me she didn't harm her but party me jho hua woh sahi nahi hua. I would have respect him if he confront her about the reason. You know I am sucker for angst but he took another turn. He disrespect her, calls her names and even her company. He can sulk, he can be angry and never talk to her or taunt her here and their when ever he met her. Show her how well he is doing after she left him. I don't mind such things but sab ke aage yese insult karna is seriously not done.

Ditto, I completely agree with you as well. Veer is no where justified to intentionally attempt to publicly humiliate her by putting false allegations. She should just sue him for wrongful defamation 🙄