What do you do, in this situation?

Just imagine your would be husband's dadi Bua made you almost go through something such as shuddi karan, indicating that she thinks you are unclean, just because this isn't your first marriage.

When she (the Dadi Bua) appears on the sangeet what do you do.

1. Apologize and say it is your fault, in a way kind of excepting that, the bus was right calling you unclean, after the person who has done the wrong says only one sorry.

2. Make sure they apologize properly, if it looks genuine, then smile and ask them to join the function.

3. Guilt trip the person and make them realize how you felt.

4. It wouldn't come to this point, the moment I would get to know that the puja am sitting in is Shuddi Karan one, I would get up the same instance from my place and strongly oppose it and give the Dadi Bua a piece of my mind. I she apologizes well and good otherwise I would make it clear to my fiance that I don't want his Dadi Bua to be in our wedding.

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Do comment and say what would you do.