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Posted: 8 years ago
First of all this one was really very interesting,I like the concept of ALOL...😃

So here goes my views on it...
ATTRACTION IS TEMPORARY LOVE AND LOVE IS PERMANENT ATTRACTION...
OBSESSION IS EMOTIONAL LUST AND LUST IS PHYSICAL OBSESSION...

about possibilities and probabilities...
chances of Attraction turning into love is less than 50% as attraction is mainly base upon physical appearances whereas love is possible without even seeing...but chances of Attraction turning into lust is more than 50% as if the attraction becomes more stronger then lust is likely to become its resultant...😳

Chances of obsession turning into lust is less than 50% as somewhere obsession is also somewhat emotional,while chances of obsession turning into love are higher as obsession sometimes tends to make us slave of our weaknesses and love is surely on the cards,if the obsession is harboured😳

Chances of lust turning attraction is only possible...as I dont feel that either obsession or love is possible when it starts with lust.😳

Chances of love turning into obsession is possible when love is not reciprocated in the way we want it to...😳


I think,I am confusing you...🤪

But I feel,,,that there is no feeling in this world as soothing as lusting behind the one you love,or loving the one you were attracted,or being obsessed with the one you love,or falling in love with someone you were obsessed...
Yeah ALOL is interconnected,,,,and if all four comes in together for a single person,then truly speaking LIFE IS BLISS...😳


About the show...
Chakor for Suraj-only love❤️
Suraj for Chakor-attraction to love with high chances of being obsession with some healthy lust thrown in some parts...❤️

that is why I love Suraj for the way he loves her...😳
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Khushi_Dillse

As buddha said :-

When you like(attraction) a flower you just pluck it .

But when you love a flower you watered it daily to keep alive.

When you like (attract) someone you want them to be with you because of your happiness

When you truly love someone,you will care for their happiness even if they are not with you..


Attraction is physical, its a sexual craving to someone.
Love is deeper than looks and sex , you crave someone's soul and mind.

Attraction is hot and rough.
Love is warm and gentle.

Attraction is Rapid and Suspenseful.
Love is Patient and Secure.

Attraction is wanting someone HOT.
Love is knowing your partner is a complete mess and still love them.

Attraction is, when he/she doesn't look good anymore.
Love is watching someone grow old/change still love them.


Obsession is when you are too interested in something/someone and not able to think about anything else except for themself. Which is good if it is at a particular level. If that threshold is crossed then it is not good for both.

And Lust means any addiction, whether it be sex, po*nography, drugs, alcohol, and even food. Lust affects the mind and causes the body to crave things which are bad for us.


Sorry I'm not good in mathematics...

Thanks for sharing your views dear!
Got to see another perspective of ALOL.
Interesting!
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: meshmesh

Great analysis.

-Attraction: attraction is superficial and can be temporary.
-Love: is a deep feeling that doesn't go away easily.
-Obsession: is an unhealthy, it implies lack of control on one's actions. Obsession can go on for a long time.
-Lust : is purely physical and in many cases is not accompanied by love. Lust is fleeting, it soon dies away after getting what you'r after.

Many times obsession and lust show a lack of inhibition and breaking moral codes.

attraction to love: 40%
attraction to obsession: 10%
attraction to lust: 10%

love to attraction: if it was true love, then no way.
love to obsession: 20%
love to lust: rare, I agree disgusting.

lust to love: 20%
lust to obsession: only if you don't get what you want.


In the show
Suraj: attraction with a little bit of lust that turned to love.
Chakor: love

Thanks a lot for being here buddy!
Happy to see what you thought about ALOL and the transformations.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sumsukor

Very much second it

Suraj.. Attraction, respect (a bit out of portion context) love now possessiveness due to obsession.

Chakor love with a bit of attraction(especially after the chain break and not slapping her)

Kudos for coming up with such a novel idea...

Thanks for appreciating!
Chakor's attraction towards Suraj is something less treated than Suraj's obsession.
As I said, want possessiveness to overtake and rule for few days.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: KUTUR

First of all this one was really very interesting,I like the concept of ALOL...😃

So here goes my views on it...
ATTRACTION IS TEMPORARY LOVE AND LOVE IS PERMANENT ATTRACTION...
OBSESSION IS EMOTIONAL LUST AND LUST IS PHYSICAL OBSESSION...

about possibilities and probabilities...
chances of Attraction turning into love is less than 50% as attraction is mainly base upon physical appearances whereas love is possible without even seeing...but chances of Attraction turning into lust is more than 50% as if the attraction becomes more stronger then lust is likely to become its resultant...😳

Chances of obsession turning into lust is less than 50% as somewhere obsession is also somewhat emotional,while chances of obsession turning into love are higher as obsession sometimes tends to make us slave of our weaknesses and love is surely on the cards,if the obsession is harboured😳

Chances of lust turning attraction is only possible...as I dont feel that either obsession or love is possible when it starts with lust.😳

Chances of love turning into obsession is possible when love is not reciprocated in the way we want it to...😳


I think,I am confusing you...🤪

But I feel,,,that there is no feeling in this world as soothing as lusting behind the one you love,or loving the one you were attracted,or being obsessed with the one you love,or falling in love with someone you were obsessed...
Yeah ALOL is interconnected,,,,and if all four comes in together for a single person,then truly speaking LIFE IS BLISS...😳


About the show...
Chakor for Suraj-only love❤️
Suraj for Chakor-attraction to love with high chances of being obsession with some healthy lust thrown in some parts...❤️

that is why I love Suraj for the way he loves her...😳


Thanks so much dear for taking time and sharing all your views.

Nice explanation and use of words.
Yahoo! I understood everything or I will say I think I got what you wanted to say.

Agree with everything you said.
Interesting to read!
Thanks once again!
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hey!

Thanks a lot for everyone for participating!
Love you all!
Next WE, it's a special day for our friends, so we will just do something simple.
So no Chat with Characters!
Sorry!

See you guys, next week with something that I wish to be interesting.

Bye guys!
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello people!


How are you all?
Thanks is not enough for all your support.

Few friends of us will be busy in festival preparation, so sorry for not doing Chat with our favorites!

This session may look a bit professional. LOL
I mean why not do a interaction between the story author as author and reader as readers.
You will ask me question and I will answer.

You can ask any question related to finished stories.
Like Why? How? What?...
And if you have questions on ongoing ones, don't ask question that I can't answer. Please!

And if you have any remarks, tell me!
You can even throw me all the negative comments you want.

And also I want to know if you have ideas for what we can do here?
Like new concepts!

Finally!
Advance Eid Mubarak Friends!
Enjoy well!
(PS: My mouth is watering just imagining all the sweets! LOL)

So people!
Waiting for your questions / remarks / ideas!
Thank you!


- Maithili


(Please don't quote! Just reply!)
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hi sis..
I m fine..
How r u?
I m having many qs in my mind..bt now i will ask some qs..
1. In cup of coffee..u have written only suraj's views abt chakor..
Y not abt chakor's?
2. In POD..we don't no wat happened btw ragini and suraj like chakor..Actually wat happend btw them?
3. In kiss..we don't know wat suraj thinks abt chakor from the first..will u write it further or not?
These r my 1st set qs sis..
Edited by Sania_suraj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Sania_suraj


Hey dear!
I'm good!
Ask all the questions you want to ask, I will try to answer.

Interesting 1st set of questions.

>> 1. In cup of coffee..u have written only suraj's views what abt chakor?
>> 3. In kiss..we don't know wat suraj thinks abt chakor from the first..will u write it further or not?

Concerning your question 1 and 3, I will say it's a game POV.
So one answer for both.
In our day to day life, we don't put other's shoes to think what they will say or they can think or they may feel.
We will see them smile and we think they are happy but we don't know if it's the real case.
Same applies of any kind of emotions when it's not openly expressed.

That's what I tried to experiment there.
Just to put in one's body and see the world around them from their POV.
In COC, Suraj's POV is more interesting than Chakor's while KISS, Chakor's more emotional than Suraj.
May be in future, there can be a story where we can find both POV.

Hope this answer was appropriate for your 1st and 3rd questions.

PS: KISS is finished! So no epilogue!
It's better that ends here than prolonge it.


>> 2. In POD..we don't no wat happened btw ragini and Suraj like Chakor..Actually wat happend btw them?

As Adi said, Rajini tried to be clingy towards Suraj.
Suraj being being, fully available only for Chakor didn't take anything from that.
So kept his distance with her and his friendship with Adi just took another step ahead.

May be I wasn't that clear, but this is what I wanted to show by the play the characters!

Thanks dear for participating!

If there are any other questions, I'm ready!
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Getting bored at work.
System isn't working!
Want to sleep!
Week end is not coming quickly.
And my brain is shutting down!

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