Isnt it matter of sacrifice for family?

First of all m not at all in favour of this baby donation thing but just a thought! Our mahaan gopi bahu who can die n do everything fr her family. Isnt baby giving save nayya from torture (Vidya's family member) so isnt it fr welfare of family thn y mahaan gopi is against it?
i agree giving baby z tough bt there z no one above family as per great mom!
special mention to meera : Man! m irritated with her over screaming now. Why they are showing vidhya weak who cnt fight fr her right?