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After Raghu Bhai's track, I didn't expect anything deep and intelligent to come out of BI tracks, but today's track actually had something deep . VOILA!!
A friend of mine once told me that there is a difference between loving and having . You could sorta see that with Nafisa and Shazia. Neither of them really loves Fahad enough to want to save him from trouble. Shazia didn't stop her father from misguiding Fahad and Nafisa knew everything but focussed more on getting Shazia in trouble. They are more concerned about who gets to HAVE him.
Nafisa could've easily rescued her husband by using the brain that she uses for plotting and scheming instead. It would've prevented my eyes from seeing ZaYa acting like mentally unstable and the whole Raghu Bhai's party fiasco. But, ofcourse Nafisa was more interested in proving Shazia wrong and making sure that she gets to HAVE Fahad all to herself.
That taught me a great live lesson that loving doesn't mean having. You can only claim to love someone when you truly care for their well-being without demanding their 100 % attention. This is not a typical scenario where 1 wife is really good and 1 is really bad and the good one always cries but gets the man at the end. They are trying to show that neither TRULY deserves him because they don't put him above their insecurities and personal wishes. In a situation where he needs them the most, they put themselves above his safety and happiness.
I think the same concept of loving vs. having will go for Aaliya and Zain. They never really tried to WOO each other and win each other over. All throughout they have harmed each others feelings but have also treated each other as human beings with feelings which should be the basis of any relationship.So, there will be instances when they don't exactly " have" each other, but they will have respect, concern and love for each other.Love is difficult and the reason is because it is not about gaining or loosing and benefits which we as human beings are so used to. Instead, it is all about loving. It's all about loving your family ( K3G) đ
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