Aaaannnndddd I'm back!!
Read part two at a stretch(I think!)
The chapter about Urmila stood out for me. Honestly, I feel there's only so much one can blame on circumstances. The rest is up to us. There are no excuses for making decisions based upon one's own greed and other desires. Urmila/Ahilya isn't going to win any awards for being a good mother or daughter-in-law or even a good person but she is what she is. I am glad she isn't putting on a show for other's benefits. Kirti and Biplap may not realize, but they got lucky when she decided to give them up and run away. Often the parents are the ones that screw up their children's lives royally. I love the way you have written her character.
Nishit is in mourning...the death of something that never was or maybe it was but was never given a chance to grow. Whoever said miscarriages and abortions don't cause any grief?!! I am glad Ragini came to give him some company and pull him out of the slump he was in. Their relationship(Ragini-Nishit) is one of the cutest I have ever read!
I am having mixed feelings about Kirti's situation. Don't know whether to feel sorry for her(Can't feel it yet, actually) or whether to be angry with her for continuing the farce(which I am sure she feels compelled to) and pulling herself more and more into the quagmire. And more importantly, how can she decide what she wants to do with the marriage by herself?? Mayank who didn't want any of this in the first place is also stuck!! Why isn't she thinking about what he may or may not want? I cannot imagine being forced to do something for no other reason except that you are forced. At least, she can tell herself that her dadi got some happiness from seeing her married and that is definitely something that would give her some respite but Mayank? I remember him not wanting to get fake engaged or married to her at all. The only reason he felt he had to marry her was that he felt compelled to(by his folks and her tears, no doubt). A little selfish, no? She didn't spare one thought to him. Sad!!
Really, is it any wonder Ammaji's first daughter-in-law ran away? Too bad she didn't think of taking her daughter with her when running away!! This just goes to show the kind of mother she is!! Really, I wonder why these women(Radha's mother and Urmila) ever had kids!!
I don't get mothers-in-law who think daughters-in-law are automatically for doing household work and bossing over. So weird!! I've personally known of a few who are like that. Her character is not surprising to me at all.
The updates were wonderful, GN. I enjoyed them to bits.
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