Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #24| Keep This Love In A Photograph - Page 103

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

What is happening in that tag, everyone is acting super woke.😆

Raghav makes mistakes- blame the writers for not showing his growth. 

Pallavi makes mistakes- she's dumb and hypocritical

Originally posted by: drnidsur

People flirting with you even when they know you are with someone else drive me mad like nothing else. My mind automatically take an offence of it. Like what do you expect of me, what even made you think I am going to cheat on my partner? 😡

Definitely been there Nidhi! Many such instances but I have one whole incident to narrate which made me learn so much. My friend and her boyfriend (both my classmates) had a bad breakup. Few days later I came in contact with this guy for work purposes, where he told me how he’s undergoing severe depression because of it. Given the fact that my friend had kind of cheated on him, I was sympathetic to this person. Plus I am someone who is very sensitive towards mental health issues and would listen to anyone for as long as they need me to, if I can be of help. So I listened to him. Later over texts he would tell me how he is suicidal. 4-5 such long conversations were exchanged where I repeatedly told him that it’s going to be alright, also tried to motivate him the best I knew. I didn’t open up easily to any guys in my class because whi, I knew people assume I am giving hints. But this guy had me in confidence telling me that I am like a sister to him, and would usually call me ‘bro’. It sounded cheesy but I was like okay, koi na and I was more comfortable myself thereafter. Ek din even brought me chocolates, tb bhi I thought he’s just being nice and grateful. This must have went on for 15 days maybe. Something was making me uncomfortable but I couldn’t put a finger on it, I thought I am just overthinking. Then this one day he told me to handover some notes outside the hostel, I did, sat with him in the cafeteria to explain the important topics for the upcoming final exam, I was literally worried that he would fail. Then he made one of his friend call his ex-girlfriend (my friend) delibaerately telling her that he’s hanging out with me. And this person is telling all this to me himself as if I am going to be super happy about it! I started feeling something’s fishy with his behaviour- I left to my hostel, still didn’t say anything because I was giving him a benefit of doubt. What him I was overreacting? Like why would he do that? I had doubts. I confided in to my boyfriend (I hadn’t mentioned it to him yet because I thought it’s nothing unusual, I am just talking to a classmate, who doesn’t). He straight away told me that this guy was bluffing and trying to gain my sympathy, a classic move. And even if he was not, I should not make him depend on me for moving on- psychiatric patients have this tendency). I was still doubtful but took his words for it and told that guy off, telling him politely that I can’t help him anymore. He tried to argue, fight with me as if  I was obliged to help him. Another weird thing. I stood my ground and blocked him even. He was being a weirdo.

A month or two later I found out from a friend that he was going around telling everyone in the class that I am his next girlfriend (inspired by “Mai uski best friend ko pataunga”) 😡 itna gussa aaya na mujhe! How can people even think!

I learned my lesson so well. One more example why I can relate to Pallavi in the ongoing track! She’s being played pretty well. When you are a kind person, you literally invite trouble sometimes. World is cruel. And boys do know boys better!

And you might not be able to speak up until you are 💯 percent sure because of the fear of being rude to someone who’s already suffering. Which is happening with Pallavi right now. In retrospect I know there were so many things weird about this guy, maybe there were signs, but I realise it now. Uss wqt everything seemed coming from a neutral place only. Though I was uncomfortable all the time, I thought it’s only because I am shy or I don’t usually talk to boys from my class.

Originally posted by: TheRoadNotTaken

alag type ka romance hoga🤣

Raghav be like: 

Bin tere sanam is jahan mein, Beqkaar hum dum da dum da dum

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Waise all this talk on harassment and entitlement...this is exactly where this Mandaar and Pallavi track should have gone. She's just being nice. He's reading potential and affection into it. He's getting obsessed, he's seeing it as a challenge. He's forgetting about consent. 

I wish they were using this track to have these conversations.

I so agree! 💯

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Raghav makes mistakes- blame the writers for not showing his growth. 

Pallavi makes mistakes- she's dumb and hypocritical

How funny. They're mostly offended because some people are calling them out. Now people are writing essay, see criticizing fl doesn't make any one misogynist blah blah.

That's why trp aunties are any day better that these farzi woke janta.

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Mine was a ragging free campus, that helped a lot. Plus I am such a reserved person, zero interaction with seniors. There is only one senior I ever talked to in my college and he was enough for all the help I could need academically 😆

It weirded me out to say sir or ma’am. Aap khna bhi I used to find difficult, to seniors who were guys😆 so I would shift to English and use you instead, sabke liye!

my brother, who’s interning right now, they address their seniors as Doxab (doc sahab) , I love it! So much better than sir or ma’am. 

Originally posted by: -abz-

You are me, I am you, we are like the sky in blue.🤣

Abi! Really! Mujhe mere jaisa namoona mila koi 🤗🤗

Also what’s with all the rhyming 🤣love it 🤩

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Main tumhari team mein hoon. The lyrics are fine...but yikes at the singer. I hate the singer for the alt female tracks too..as well as the sound production. They only spent money on the original title song, pata chalta hai. 

I agree.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

People flirting with you even when they know you are with someone else drive me mad like nothing else. My mind automatically take an offence of it. Like what do you expect of me, what even made you think I am going to cheat on my partner? 😡

Definitely been there Nidhi! Many such instances but I have one whole incident to narrate which made me learn so much. My friend and her boyfriend (both my classmates) had a bad breakup. Few days later I came in contact with this guy for work purposes, where he told me how he’s undergoing severe depression because of it. Given the fact that my friend had kind of cheated on him, I was sympathetic to this person. Plus I am someone who is very sensitive towards mental health issues and would listen to anyone for as long as they need me to, if I can be of help. So I listened to him. Later over texts he would tell me how he is suicidal. 4-5 such long conversations were exchanged where I repeatedly told him that it’s going to be alright, also tried to motivate him the best I knew. I didn’t open up easily to any guys in my class because whi, I knew people assume I am giving hints. But this guy had me in confidence telling me that I am like a sister to him, and would usually call me ‘bro’. It sounded cheesy but I was like okay, koi na and I was more comfortable myself thereafter. Ek din even brought me chocolates, tb bhi I thought he’s just being nice and grateful. This must have went on for 15 days maybe. Something was making me uncomfortable but I couldn’t put a finger on it, I thought I am just overthinking. Then this one day he told me to handover some notes outside the hostel, I did, sat with him in the cafeteria to explain the important topics for the upcoming final exam, I was literally worried that he would fail. Then he made one of his friend call his ex-girlfriend (my friend) delibaerately telling her that he’s hanging out with me. And this person is telling all this to me himself as if I am going to be super happy about it! I started feeling something’s fishy with his behaviour- I left to my hostel, still didn’t say anything because I was giving him a benefit of doubt. What him I was overreacting? Like why would he do that? I had doubts. I confided in to my boyfriend (I hadn’t mentioned it to him yet because I thought it’s nothing unusual, I am just talking to a classmate, who doesn’t). He straight away told me that this guy was bluffing and trying to gain my sympathy, a classic move. And even if he was not, I should not make him depend on me for moving on- psychiatric patients have this tendency). I was still doubtful but took his words for it and told that guy off, telling him politely that I can’t help him anymore. He tried to argue, fight with me as if  I was obliged to help him. Another weird thing. I stood my ground and blocked him even. He was being a weirdo.

A month or two later I found out from a friend that he was going around telling everyone in the class that I am his next girlfriend (inspired by “Mai uski best friend ko pataunga”) 😡 itna gussa aaya na mujhe! How can people even think!

I learned my lesson so well. One more example why I can relate to Pallavi in the ongoing track! She’s being played pretty well. When you are a kind person, you literally invite trouble sometimes. World is cruel. And boys do know boys better!

And you might not be able to speak up until you are 💯 percent sure because of the fear of being rude to someone who’s already suffering. Which is happening with Pallavi right now. In retrospect I know there were so many things weird about this guy, maybe there were signs, but I realise it now. Uss wqt everything seemed coming from a neutral place only. Though I was uncomfortable all the time, I thought it’s only because I am shy or I don’t usually talk to boys from my class.

This is infuriating, but unfortunately- no surprising? Aise log har jagah milte hain. That's why Pallavi is so relatable right now. That pressure to not be rude, the fear that you'll be called oversensitive or overreacting- it forces way too many of us to stay quiet till too many lines have been crossed. 

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Two of the four core members were called out during #MeToo. Good they dissolved- it would have been hard to take their progressive messages after that. 

Raanjhana..I couldn't get through it. It was upsetting :(

Oh, didn’t know about the me too thing! Kuch nhi pta mujhe, I have been living under a rock 🤦🏻‍♀️

thought so, reviews read krke.