Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
Actually Abir didnt share bcoz it was needed but bcoz parul maasi n kunal said it was mishti haq to know the truth... else he would've never said that also...
i agree abir would've done same as mishti in baba track he proved it in nish matter same way mish would do the same if she was in abir place during break up.. mish was not bashed but held responsible too... both knew truth but didnt share it with eo n that came to hit them not once but twice... break up n then the MU...
abir atleast share things anything but mish never shared anything not even a small detail,,... and that lands up her n even abir in problem... abir finds alternative but mish is impulsive n she doesnt even realize her mistake thats the problem...
abir is atleast learning something from past mistake he is not babysitting kunal, he is including mish in whatever decision he makes, he shares his confusion with mish n also now gets advice from bp, during nish track his entire family was by his side he actively involved everyone, he still doesnt trust meenu,... mish needs to take a step forward to atleast share her worries..
this is not only mish problem entire mah house has this... how much ever they show them as white they are not like that n how much ever black rjv is shown they are not... both family is grey but rjv is progressive every persons truth is bought out in front of family be it meenu, kunal or abir n family reprimand, support n guide n they improve themselves... mah family i cant say the same...
lol even in real life everyone hide things but there is way to handle things here their love for each other n abirs understanding n blind trust is the only thing holding their relationship.. 😆 and lack of trust n understand even with amazing communication can lead to break up... 😆 everything needs to be balanced...
That's the thing diyaaa.....if parul massi and kunal hadn't told him its her haq .....he wouldn't have told her and she wouldn't have come back to him easily.......
Their breakup was the most contrived drama in the show.I hated that track. I read many comments in twitter claiming she should apologize for lying ,she is responsible for the breakup, if she had communicated it wouldn't have happened etc etc. But its all just our assumptions on what would have happened. Ultimately Abir took the decision himself. But he learnt from his mistake and he includes her in decisions pertaining to each other. But he still doesn't share what needs to be shared.
Mishti's secreacy is more contrived drama ..for example she tries to share everything with Abir the moment she gets to know the truth, but her luck is bad......baba picks up the phone, likewise after that Meenu intercepts her and after that Kunal. But when things settle, her desire to share the truth takes a back seat and she doesn't want to take any credit,which is her main problem.
Even Abir also during Kuku marriage and Nishant track, he was shown wanting to share the truth. Exactly like Mishti when things settle his desire to share the truth become null and his need to protect takes over.
The thing is I dnt mind them not sharing things with anyone else....but they should with each other, even the small things...because they are supposed to be best friends and life partners.
Here Abir is mildly comfortable to share with Parul massi , Kunal and Naanu whoever is available. Mishti is shown to share somethings with BM. But my question is why them?? Why not with each other??
Their families are weirdly depicted. The Maheshwari's brush everything inder the carpet. You know Kuhu's dialogue preleap completely defines them.....A daughter will have freedom as long as it doesn't go against their family's welfare. Mishti and Kuhu are best examples regarding that. They like to pretend everything is perfect but it is not so. They fail to support their children when they need them the most and try to do so only when everything falls apart or their kids fall apart.
RJV's problems are mostly because they are not perceptive of what each of their family members need and wherein lies their true happiness. But when they realize they actually support each other.
@bold - Exactly Diyaa......their love and trust on each other and Abir's understanding of Mishti or more likely Meenu😆is holding them together. If they didn't have it they would have fell apart without any communication......as u said u need a balance. You can't take yout love and trust for granted which they did before. You need to work to make your relationship work.
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