Originally posted by: sumz_d
Sahi main lekin agar Pari hosh main rehti aur boundaries rakhti Rajeev se toh woh sab hota hi nahi na.
Rajeev is a idiot who is not realizing ki what damage he is doing with his relationship with Neeti. And jaise ki maine pehle bhi kaha tha Rajeev always felt guilty seeing Pari around and Pari always gave that bechari look and made him feel that she is Damsel in distress and only he can help.
See psychologically men love to play Hero. And this Pari gave him this chance. Once a men plays a hero role for any woman then naturally they will be attracted and hence form an affair. And almost majority of time in extra marital affairs this is what happens.
If a woman displays helpless, weakness and docile kind of behaviors infront of a man then that man is bound to jump up and help her and become the "HERO"
It's called ego boost.
Isiliye I blame Pari more than anyone. Pari jaisi ladkiyaan bahot hi dangerous hoti hai agar unko boundaries ka concept nahi Pata. But in real life also men like and choose confident woman and fall in love with confident woman like Neeti instantly.
This also happend in Silsila... when Nandani kept on playing the Damsel in distress character Kunal kept on playing her hero and eventually because Nandani didn't keep boundaries it ensued an affair and heartbreaks.
See men and women think differently and it's up to women who should keep boundaries if you are playing Damsel in distress.
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