Jhanak feels like a dishonest (with herself) to me in some moments. She knows that she loves Ani (मै जिससे प्यार करती हू उससे शादी करने का option नही है मेरे पास ). She wants him to think about her, care for her. She wanted to die just because Ani insulted her, did not care for her. She changed her mind when Ani cared for her. She even was upset about Ani not understanding her feelings. Bipasha, Arshi (unlike others) are reading these emotions and saying what they are saying. Yesterday, what I missed the most was a genuine empathy from Jhanak's side towards Arshi. Even if feeling what she is feeling is not wrong at all, Arshi is being wronged and needs sympathy and empathy both. When Bipasha said the 'Bahu' word, J looked at Ani, to watch his reaction. Felt like she wants to see 'yes' on his face. If it is true, she in that moment is not thinking about Arshi when on face she keeps on saying that she looks at Ani just as Arshi's to be husband.
Ani's side is completely different. He has not realized yet that he loves J. Hence, he is doing everything just out of concern for J. In his mind, he has no wrong intentions and people are getting him incorrectly. Hence, he feels like a person who is honest with himself.
Arshi is a self- centered woman who wants people around her as per her need. However, she is not narcicist like her mother. She as of yet does have emotions like empayhy even for J.
J, Ani, Arshi, all are characters with their own flaws where non one is villian per se. They are into a situation where they can not help behaving the way they are behaving. What makes J's love for Ani and vice versa better is that they are ready to sacrifice their own good for the other's happiness. Their love is about giving whereas Arshi's love is about possessing.
You can not possess love, you have to let it free for it to engulf you from all sides and that is what it will do for Ani and J.
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