What an episode!! - Page 5

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Originally posted by: aquaHP

As much as I hate the words coming out of her mouth, I'm actually really liking this Kuhu because she is finally seeing everything crystal clear. All of that baby jaap and surrogacy drama made her realise that she is all alone and she has stopped nibhao-ing rishtey with people who didn't try to put even one ounce of effort to understand her even though she was there for them whenever they needed her. I mean, she is still pretending but pehle, she really put in all her effort to nibhao those relationships and now, she doesn't care one bit. Everyone can go eat dust. She just cares about getting Kunal away from this family. After watching today's episode and remembering the maa-beta-bahu hug scene, I think she is also trying to get Parul but I am just speculating at this point about that.

Kuhu happily became a true part of that family- forming individual relationships with everyone. Even post lockdown during Ketki's wedding prep, she was wholeheartedly taking charge and handling everything despite of being away from Kunal for so long.

I want to think that she is getting more and more detached from the family but I feel like she is still clinging on to the hope. Kunal's there for her now (but his support to his spouse is not as strong as Abir's is) so she more or less alone (though it's changing). Yet she has genuine feelings and attachments to everyone.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

BM grinds on my nerves whenever she says "humaari betiyaan"..... Just because Kuhu is going to be birthing the baby for MA, she is showing care

TBH I've never liked BM's character since the parent show. I have watched that on and off for a long time and her annoying traits have been amplified here. Even in today's ep with the baby shower, BM hasn't even smiled properly while greeting Kuhu, even for a second before she starts giving those worrying and apologetic and this-is-not-right looks. Takes me back to Kuhu-Kunal 2nd wedding when she and BP were doing the same. Can she be happy, truly happy for Kuhu for at least 1 full minute?

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Ooops! Saari bhadaas nikaal di rather than replying to you. Sorry!

Dont be! I am glad a few of us can freely discuss our povs here. :)

Originally posted by: riya1605

Sometimes I kind a dont like parul even after witnessing all the insult kunal and kuhu has suffered she is still focused on making mishti happy . She always have a inclination towards mishti as compared to kuhu.

True. That's probably coz Parul has internalized this "servant" feeling and she feels more obliged towards her "owners" (Meenu and her "asli" beta and bahu). Maybe that's why she is extra sweet to misthi.

(Although she is nice to everyone in general)

Originally posted by: aquaHP

M: they could easily do the GB the next day. But as always, they have to do everything the same effing day

P: And at the same effing time

M: EXACTLY

This! They could've have done it separately but no! let's (intentionally and unintentionally) take away all the guests from the baby shower and rain on one daughter's parade, a daughter who is heavily pregnant mind you. Haven't they learned anything from their past mistakes?

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Kuhu kept saying no matter how much we give, they'll ask for more and Kunal didn't believe her. He liked to believe it was as simple as people treating her like a kid because she acted like one but now he's actually seeing it play out in real time. Kuhu has made the ultimate sacrifice for MA and they are still not treating her with the respect she deserves

I think this is why Kunal has become so pro-Kuhu, coz as per him, Kuhu is doing this surrogacy yet she gets no respect that she deserves.

Also did you notice the dialogues right after the car gift scene, when Mis and Kuhu are arguing in K's room? M when alone with K says (paraphrashing here) - "Tujhse ummeed karna hi bekar tu. Tu kuch nahi samajhti" VS dialogue of M to K in front of everyone, "I am sorry. Hum toh friends hai." 😕

Kuhu was sulking in her room alone, people come, agitate her, Kuhu walks away but people hound her down the stairs elongating the confrontation and she sprains her leg. And yet Kuhu is immature?

Its the format of itv . Only FL is allowed to feel bad . When she feels bad it is genuine and emotional but if anyone else feels bad they are overreacting, immature, childish .

Even if someone is sulking over something (right or wrong) you don't have right to tell them its wrong . That topic/thing might not be important to you but it might be to others . If you can't validate others feeling then you can't discard them.

Originally posted by: riya1605

Its the format of itv . Only FL is allowed to feel bad . When she feels bad it is genuine and emotional but if anyone else feels bad they are overreacting, immature, childish .

Even if someone is sulking over something (right or wrong) you don't have right to tell them its wrong . That topic/thing might not be important to you but it might be to others . If you can't validate others feeling then you can't discard them.

oh it’s okay to sulk but not okay to be rant and spoil other people’s mood.. and function.. it was mishti’s day as much as it was kuhu’s

She had her party.. the way she wanted

Why berate mishti n spoil her function.. then it’s justified if people make her face reality

Originally posted by: Appu1981

oh it’s okay to sulk but not okay to be rant and spoil other people’s mood.. and function.. it was mishti’s day as much as it was kuhu’s

She had her party.. the way she wanted

Why berate mishti n spoil her function.. then it’s justified if people make her face reality

I have not even mentioned mishti's name . I said as in normal itv concept.

Originally posted by: riya1605

I have not even mentioned mishti's name . I said as in normal itv concept.

this is yrhpk forum.. and currently the episodes under discussion has 2 things.. kuhu’s rants and outbursts and her obsession to ruin mishti’s happiness

so it doesn’t take en eureka moment like Einstein to figure out who is sulking and who according to you should have let her sulk

Originally posted by: Sense9

Kuhu happily became a true part of that family- forming individual relationships with everyone. Even post lockdown during Ketki's wedding prep, she was wholeheartedly taking charge and handling everything despite of being away from Kunal for so long.

I want to think that she is getting more and more detached from the family but I feel like she is still clinging on to the hope. Kunal's there for her now (but his support to his spouse is not as strong as Abir's is) so she more or less alone (though it's changing). Yet she has genuine feelings and attachments to everyone.

Just caught aaj ke episode ka precap and all my hopes of seeing a detached Kuhu are ruined. The writers seem to have given into the audiences perception of wanting to see Kuhu as a vamp and Mishti as the quintessential bechaari heroine. Ugghhh! Kabhi khush nahi rehne denge ye hume. Female solidarity maangi thi mahino pehle inse aur inhone kya hi de diya.

Sach keh rahi hoon, iss show se bada disaster maine nahi dekha hai life mein. I could see why they wanted to shut shop but ye nahi laga tha ki aise band karenge iss show ko. Ek bhi fandom ko khush nahi rehne diya inn logon ne toh. Mujhe ye samajh nahi aa raha ki humne kya bigaada tha. Hum toh full support mein the iss show ke band hone ke, toh fir ye torture kyun. I think I'll go back to considering Kuhu leaving the house as the end of this show.

Can't wait for this show to end so that I can see Kaveri in some other project where she doesn't get so much hate.

Originally posted by: NamrataRa

Babaji ka thullu milega.Crying misti during PTSD did'nt get them TRP nor now.Let them do what they want.Unko bhadaas nikalne do.

Ritvik's curse.He was the trp giver.A slap on DKP.

I don't think he was the trp giver. Yes, his performance in the show was great but the only reason for the trp fall is the story. This show would have done great if they had made it an ensemble cast show like how the PS was in the old days. Their biggest mistake was to not utilise their whole cast and the different characters' backstories.