there are people who are highly attached to the concept of "right and wrong" and there are people who are attached to the concept of "cause n effect" ....the former ones have a strong sense for justice and righteousness and are rigid with their approach , while the latter ones have strong sense of peace and harmony but they are flexible with their approach...mishti belongs to the former category and abir to the latter , hence the difference of opinions prevail , but in life it's necessary to analyse things from "right and wrong" and "cause and effect" both concepts and find a way out ...
That's why as individuals they might be flawed but as couple, they complete each other with their approach...only thing that is required is these 2 angry birds to calm down 
And listen to what the other one means to say and not what he or she says
These days I watch the episodes twice 😆 Makes me go to my childhood study days, jab koi concept samajh nahi aata toh baar baar padhte hai is hope ke saath ke samajh aa jaaye 😆 so many clashes of perspectives that it actually leaves you with "Arey bhai kehna kya chahte ho" 😆
The focal point in today's episode - RVs Mahs Abir and kunal aren't upset with the sisters fighting again , they are more upset because they feel dejected of the fact that they got a bunch of lies and hopeless hopes in the name of patch up, which was actually a sham planned by the sisters ... why did they choose the path of lies when all they were seeking for was the truth and some real progress in sisters relationships ...
Is having this kind of expectation wrong ? This is something we all should be thinking about
1. We always need a life partner who is true and honest with us , who dosent butter up things for us , who doesn't pretend to be someone else with us , who is just the real version of himself/ herself with us , I always say that the test of real relationships is honesty , be comfortable to your partner to an extent that you can exactly share your uncensored thoughts about what's going on in your conscious mind , and I am very happy to see mishbir going to that path, gone are the days when they preferred hiding stuff , lying to each other for their relationship to be saved , now sub consciously they are aware about the strength of their bond and that itself gives them the confidence and assurance to speak what they really feel !
He never asked mishti to apologise, he never asked to bow down, he never asked her to compromise, but he definitely asked her to think to sort out the issue with a mature mind, and fake patch up drama was not seriously where he was trying to get at ...like he said life is not a play , real issues can't be addressed with false patch ups and mishti has to now think over and above her age old drama tactics, patch up in front of family and tell kuhu in private that "wait let's do a drama cuz BP has been insulted and RV bros aren't coming back, we are just putting a temporary hold on out fight for a while "...yes abir going to mahs was a wrong move but that made him come a step closer to understand that these sisters do have such a tendency of patching up , something that he wouldn't have figured out in case RV bros were in their own residence 😆 He also highlighted how "act of pretending" becomes mishti's only way out cuz she still feels the sense of ehsaan by BM BP and abir leaving her in her weakest...did he just say about her worst fears and hurt her ? Yes he did ...cuz we can only overcome our fears if we address them at first place , sometimes we have to take injections and take the little pain in order to overcome and heal the biggest pain ...that's what exactly abir did with her, made her realise this temporary solution is not solving anything but making new paths for more issues, either come up with a permanent solution or stop pretending to be sane, mishti if you aren't able to handle anyone it's better to tell abir that lets live separately cuz I can't take the gun everytime
Did abir go over board with his words? Yes he did especially when he said mishti is bachchi and they should re think about the whole parent thing but abir's character has been this gone over board in confrontational scenes, right from calling his mom a monster to saying mishti is bachchi to saying nanko is not my brother anymore ...and every time his words have left a deep impact on others and has pushed them to think hard , the only person he couldn't push someone to think deeply was kuhu ...abir and kuhu shared a different bond of "keep it separate" , he never judged her but encouraged her to do better things, as times passed and abir tried to know more about kuhu , he chose to become her moral science teacher, things didn't work out and he had to go on scolding spree , he gave silent treatment too , he did see kuhu turn softer towards mishti but never changed her perception about mishti ..her thought process is still the same ...this gave a sense of realisation to abir that his bond with kuhu is really weak to create any kind of positive influence on her , that's why it's not him who is approaching her now , he only approaches mishti but has taken nanko into confidence to approach kuhu , who better than your own husband showing you the mirror, eh ?
Another highlight on abir's part was his reasoning of going away from the house as an attempt to make sisters feel abinal absence and explaining it to meenu , meenu says she also went away for a brief time but sisters chose to fight behind her back, nothing changed , abir gives a good counter attack that with meenu , the motivation to patch up will be of fear cuz they know sisters will be shouted at or get scolded , with abinal the motivation to patch up will be love , love that abinal share with each other, love that mishti shares with abir and love that kuhu shares with kunal, what seems to be a "rush " for of patch up for mishti and kuhu has now become the need of the hour for abir and kunal ...the issues relate to childhood and with time it has got messier with so many misunderstandings...aaj solve nahi hoga toh phir kab hoga ? The thing is RV bros have reached their limits
Mishti - she made bold genuine points from her side , she can't be expected to have over night patch up with kuhu especially where there are no efforts from kuhu's side and kuhu seems to be the one more at fault , she made it pretty clear to him that she went for a fake patch up drama cuz that's the only way out she understands as the best way out ,, the situation has taken a toll on her, she wants to approach but she has no idea how to approach, how can she approach kuhu who even blames mishti's existence , I had expected her to say not only she feels pressurised from abir's side , she feels burdened with his father keeping guroor ki talwar on her head 😆 And abir's maa wearing kajal and gurooing her all day all night 😆 I could see how agitated and irritated mishti got 😆 When she realizes her husband has x- ray vision and could easily catch her goofy act 😛 mishti should ask , priye abir , ab itna bata diya hai toh tum hi batao, kuhu se kya baat karun ? 😆 aapke pass kòi uchit upay hai mere pyaare angry swami?
2. Kuhu's insecurities are on its verge, paani pehle naak tak tha , ab sar ke upar se chala gaya hai ...it takes just 2 sentences by abir to get kuhu into her "mishti ki wajah se" zone again , makers should really work hard on giving us a strong childhood back story to sisters relationships than just one doll house incident , is it just about mishti given more importance than her by BM BP or something that started , the roots of which lie in singhania house too where kuhu and mishti lived for a brief period ..? Is there more to what just meets the eye at the moment , only writers and only mishku will be able to answer if they really wish to 🤣 Varna track mein gol gol ghumne ka koi matlab nahi hai 😆
Its hard to relate to kuhu without having a clear understanding of what has landed up to where she has today
3. Kunal's presence through out the episode makes us all realise how amazingly he has learnt of balancing 😆 All thanks to his years of experience dealing with abir and meenu 😆 Loved when jas appreciated kuhu , he made sure mishti gets a share of her praise too , loved how he directly asked mishti if they are doing some drama kya but smart mishti ne baat ghuma di 😆 Loved how he said hum dono bhai ke beech mein mat aana 🤪🤪 yahan kunal intention samaj gaya aur vahan abir ne kuhu ke muh se sach bulva diya 🤣🤣 Well done Bros 👏👏
5. Mahs ke baare mein jitna bhi bole utna kam hai 😆 Ab victim card play kiya BP ne but this time on both the daughters 😆 Chalo at least thodi equality toh hai, iske liye brownie points 😆 Lekin yeh acha hai , pehle mahs band aid lagate hai aur jab pata chala ke unki betis ne bhi band aid lagaya toh naraaz ho Gaye 😆 Aur ghar se nikal diya ...lol .that's the saving grace for abinal in the track..only these two are the ones not interested in band aids anymore 😆
Baaki sab toh khush the with
Shakar paare, pyaar se rehte hai na pyaare nonsense 😆
These days when they play the title song , mujhe hasi aati hai 😆 Its like makers are trolling themselves only ....
6. "Bacha godh mein aane se koi ladki maa nahi banti , banti tab hai jab uske andar mamta ho "
Aww such a deep noble thought BM The sense of motherhood always comes from within and the sense of love and warmth comes naturally to those who wish to care !
On a not so serious note 😆 Kisi ko convince karne ke liye kitni achi line hai yeh 🤣 also yes abir BM are deadly combo 😆 I have never seen a son in law being so comfortable taking with his mother in law in my life 😆 From helping her in household chores to doing pooja to sharing the baby wish 😳😆 Adbhut, asambhav, avishvasniya lagta hai mujhe 😆
7. Meenu 😆 Kal ab apna ultimate card khel degi ...Aaj kya expression diya tha " together" 🤣
Bohot Hua ab sabko rona dhona faltu ka drama ..now sasuma is ready to take the matters in hand 😆 Vaise girls ka fool n final patch up Hua toh sabse zyada dukh aur dukh dono ek saath meenu ko hoga 😆
Sukh for getting her sons back
Dukh for getting her bahus back too 😆
Ab kya road pe hoga accident
Abinal bonding pe lagega dent
Kuhu ko milegi koi punishment
Mess ka niklega kya solution permanent?
It was such an interesting episode , jitna socho utna dimag ki dahi hoti hai 😆
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