Does Abir really deserve the hate that fandom is throwing on him - Page 2

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Just re-posting my words from the AT here as well:

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With Abir's realisation, and turnover to fighter Abir upcoming...

I would like to kindly remind everyone of our beloved Abir's motto from the very first episode (can't remember the exact words but..

(abir and mishti's very first conversation on the bus rooftop):

"ek baar galti ki hai. Dobara kare toh iska matlab nahi hai ki no second chance"

=> It was a mistake for the first time. If it's repeated it's doesn't mean that there is no second chance.

Yes Come on guys! we all know Abir made a huge mistake in choosing to break mishibr rishta. He made a mistake in misunderstanding her and refusing to listen to her. But still...he DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!!

Both Mishti and Abir have made their fair share of mistakes (some on their own others due to external pressures). Now let them try to fix them. Let them learn and rise up to the occasion. GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE!

Humble request: Since many are still hung up on Abir's character butchering, then atleast listen to Abir 1.0! Listen to his advice and give Abir the SECOND CHANCE!

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Words nandu words 🤗🤗🤗

Bold - yes we can learn some lessons from our fav abir too 😉😉😎❤️

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Yup I totally understand you. Abir is equally right and wrong. Same with Mishti, she is equally right and wrong.

Ofcourse mishbir is the end game😃 Now that Abir will come back to form, as his weakness Kunal and his birth truth is no longer a secret. He can finally return to better space with strength and courage to fight!

We need Abir's intensity with Swetha, now with Meenu😎🤣 "Tumhe lagega ki Abir rajvansh dhamki nahi dehta, lekin isse dhamki hi samijle"

Arey shwet wali intensity I miss it 😆 I have some special connection there lol 🤣

Awesome post ammu🤗🤗 thank you for putting it out 👍🏼

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Originally posted by: The_incredible

I am writing this post not to defend Abir and his mistakes but I'm writing it for myself..Abir 1.0 is the ly character in itv whom I love with my all heart without even a single blink of hatred..so I wanted to tell myself that Abir isn't wrong.he is right from his pov..I saw some of the post saying that nishmish Shaadi should happen as RV house is not suitable for her...my question to u all is does Abir actually deserve hatred..or anger..does Abir deserve sadness all his lyf..the path was surely chosen by him..and he is paying for his mistakes.🤗🤗

My understanding of the entire track is that if mishti was blackmailed by meenu and double crossed , at that time mishti became the victim then when abir was blackmailed by meenu for break up and now she changed letter and drink fiasco this entire thing added to the misunderstandings...now my point is just like mishti was a victim, even abir is a victim here so blaming one to defend other makes no sense, neither mishti nor abir deserve hate , they were victims of various circumstances and their own vulnerabilities which they had no control on ...so if any deserves hate over here than that's meenu that's all

Anyone who sees the current episodes will feel for Mish more..she does deserve that..but through the light mish's pains r shown..anybody would hate Abir..there is a lack of understanding here...as an Abir lover or fan..I always had a soft corner for him although I'm a mishbir lover....

Not even as a abir lover or anything, as a neutral viewer also my stand remains the same that both are victims and both somewhere are at fault so blaming one to defend another Is pretty useless

Everybody is saying that nishmish rishta should happen because Mish doesn't deserve to go to a hell like RV sadan..but my question does Abir himself deserve his house.his family.the family which had always let him down..the family where Kunal is given more love and care..he got a devil like mother who doesn't really care abt her son...a brother who has his own selfish deeds...but still he loves his family..because love for family is supposed to be unconditional..we shouldn't love our parents with any condition..that's what Abir did..and in my opinion that is the only mistake Abir did..loving his family which never let him be with mish🤗🤗

Mishti deserves abir but not his family in background for sure and in the same way abir also dosent deserve his family until they truly understand him and help him ...regarding mishnish well let me tell that in life nothing is white or black , it's all grey , nish being right dosent make abir wrong choice or vice versa ... may be nish is preferred at the moment not because he is better than abir , but its because his background is more sorted than abir for time being

Makers want us to hate Abir so they have chosen very cliche track of misunderstandingyet I don't think Abir has done a big mistake..things r not shown from his pov.things r only shown from the pov of Mish...so how will understand that what's going on in his mind..😔😔

Since baba track his pov has been missing ( except him telling to parul that he was wrong to trust baba and resort monologue) and I think the main reason people are not able to connect with abir is because of his lack of povs, with story now taking a new turn and a change of screenplay where again we will be seeing narrative shifting to abir I am expecting his povs , fingers crossed 👍🏼

Mishti did one mistake of hiding things from Abir once..and surely whatever happening today is consequences of that.. Mish didn't want Abir to leave her so she hided .and what consequences were Abir being black mailed by bb and she asking him to break the rishta..after leap she fought but atleast she should have cleared to him that she and Nish r not in any relationship..did she do that.and she is expecting Abir to understand her.??is he some God to understand whatever other person feels...definitely not...Abir is also a human....she didn't understand his love..she didn't saw his pain..yet she want him to know her pain..now everything is really awesome..becoz both of them r suffering..

100% Agreed

I clearly feel for Abir more..sorry to say but the day Mish entered his lyf..the rocket of problemz entered his lyf.he forgot to smile..he forgot to live.his lyf become a drama....🤗🤗

Ahhh that's not fair ammu 😆 I can say the same for mishti too ...that's okay

The real cause of problems in both of their lyf is bb,Mish knew it,yet she wanted to live in RV sadan..in coming days after they reunite then also Mish may want to stay with bb,so isn't she Clearly inviting problems...nannu ka mujhe kuch nahi batana..that guy is also hiding and who will suffer in the end Mish..both mishbir will suffer due to others..and blame will always go to Abir..sorry to say but this fandom don't deserve Abir...how can they turn blind towards his pain...

PS:haters plz stay away 🤗🤗

Exactly bb is the main culprit here that's all , nannu has been trying to tell his point too once on mishti's bday and second in mahs house also today he asked her very clearly that why did she say yes for the marriage where she replied thst its because she trusts BP and his decisions, anyways you can still disagree that's fine , and this post wasn't about nannu anyways so let's #KeepItSeperate

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Awesome post ammu🤗🤗 thank you for putting it out 👍🏼

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Thank u uru for commenting...it means a lot 👏👏read through ur comments..I do understand Mish pov but we need to know Abir's pov and his pain which is unseen and unheard is making me support him more....Mere liye Abir se zyada kuch bhi nahi hai....both of them r suffering and both of their pain r being unnoticed by their family...I do wanted to add more..but me being lazy didn't want to type much 😆😆everyfhing will get sorted out once Abir starts to fight back..I hope..

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

I might me in minority to say this.But here I won't say who deserves Mishti but rathee I would who desereve Abir and my answer is NONE.Right now everyone is feeling bad for Mishti bit sorry I am feeling bad for Abir.No one deserves Abir neither any member from MH nor RV(except jugnu).They all just shower their love or concern for him as per their convenience.

When Abir broke Rishta did anyone tried to listen to his side?Did BP come and had one on one talk with him?Did anyone try to understand him(Sorry Mishti didnt,She just wanted assurance that he still loves her.She wanted to save rishta.)

Everyone is saying Abir ne Mishti k saath galat kiya uski baat ni sunn rha blah blah...but sorry ye situation Mishti k khud k bachpane ko wajah se aayi hai.Na vo NishMish attack hota na Abir apna aapa khota...

Sbne Mishti k side ki story dekhi.CVs ne v ache se Mishti k monologues ko dikhaya lekin Abir?Uske ander k hulchal ko dikhana bhul gye aur sbke gusse ka paatra banaya.

I still have faith in Abir and would say Mishti k liye vo aaj v deserving hai........vo har lrki k layak hai...but sayad uske layak koi ni

Mishti didn't try to understand him coz she already knew that in sab ki karta dharta is meenu aunty and abir still loves her, NishMish attack abir ki zubaan khulwane k liye tha assured to wo phle hi thi even aaj bhi hai.

Abir ke aapa khone ka ek lauta reason hai Nanko ko zyada Nanha Samjhna not NishMish attack, Nanko ka sach(Jo kaise bahar aaye ye janne me abir isn't interested,he still blames mishti for that which is unfair,it was unintentional. But Abir Is hurting mishti intentionally and reason for same is, he has somehow lost the control over his emotions.) + NishMish = current situation.

Jab mishti revealed kunal's truth, tb na kuch sochne samajhne ki situation thi na hi itna time. Abir to ghar se aake usko sunata hai,letter padh ke pura time lekar bahar aata hai aur sunata hai, aur sbse buri baat ye hai ki bahut gande level pe sunata hai.

Originally posted by: paytonlee123

Both mishti and abir characters went downhill. Mishti is going overboard with her begging and clingy behavior towards abir and Abir is getting too controlled by his mom and doesn't seem to understand mishti. I do want them together but no one is going to stay happy if abir's mom is going to be plotting and is going to have the upper hand. At this point I don't see a bright future even if they get together. I think mishti needs to focus on some other hobby and not always think of marriage. She should have seriously gotten into that app thing but she was doing it for abir. Too desperate for me.