Does Abir really deserve the hate that fandom is throwing on him

I am writing this post not to defend Abir and his mistakes but I'm writing it for myself..Abir 1.0 is the ly character in itv whom I love with my all heart without even a single blink of hatred..so I wanted to tell myself that Abir isn't wrong.he is right from his pov..I saw some of the post saying that nishmish Shaadi should happen as RV house is not suitable for her...my question to u all is does Abir actually deserve hatred..or anger..does Abir deserve sadness all his lyf..the path was surely chosen by him..and he is paying for his mistakes.🤗🤗

Anyone who sees the current episodes will feel for Mish more..she does deserve that..but through the light mish's pains r shown..anybody would hate Abir..there is a lack of understanding here...as an Abir lover or fan..I always had a soft corner for him although I'm a mishbir lover....

Everybody is saying that nishmish rishta should happen because Mish doesn't deserve to go to a hell like RV sadan..but my question does Abir himself deserve his house.his family.the family which had always let him down..the family where Kunal is given more love and care..he got a devil like mother who doesn't really care abt her son...a brother who has his own selfish deeds...but still he loves his family..because love for family is supposed to be unconditional..we shouldn't love our parents with any condition..that's what Abir did..and in my opinion that is the only mistake Abir did..loving his family which never let him be with mish🤗🤗

Makers want us to hate Abir so they have chosen very cliche track of misunderstandingyet I don't think Abir has done a big mistake..things r not shown from his pov.things r only shown from the pov of Mish...so how will understand that what's going on in his mind..😔😔

Mishti did one mistake of hiding things from Abir once..and surely whatever happening today is consequences of that.. Mish didn't want Abir to leave her so she hided .and what consequences were Abir being black mailed by bb and she asking him to break the rishta..after leap she fought but atleast she should have cleared to him that she and Nish r not in any relationship..did she do that.and she is expecting Abir to understand her.??is he some God to understand whatever other person feels...definitely not...Abir is also a human....she didn't understand his love..she didn't saw his pain..yet she want him to know her pain..now everything is really awesome..becoz both of them r suffering..

I clearly feel for Abir more..sorry to say but the day Mish entered his lyf..the rocket of problemz entered his lyf.he forgot to smile..he forgot to live.his lyf become a drama....🤗🤗

The real cause of problems in both of their lyf is bb,Mish knew it,yet she wanted to live in RV sadan..in coming days after they reunite then also Mish may want to stay with bb,so isn't she Clearly inviting problems...nannu ka mujhe kuch nahi batana..that guy is also hiding and who will suffer in the end Mish..both mishbir will suffer due to others..and blame will always go to Abir..sorry to say but this fandom don't deserve Abir...how can they turn blind towards his pain...

PS:haters plz stay away 🤗🤗

I might me in minority to say this.But here I won't say who deserves Mishti but rathee I would who desereve Abir and my answer is NONE.Right now everyone is feeling bad for Mishti bit sorry I am feeling bad for Abir.No one deserves Abir neither any member from MH nor RV(except jugnu).They all just shower their love or concern for him as per their convenience.

When Abir broke Rishta did anyone tried to listen to his side?Did BP come and had one on one talk with him?Did anyone try to understand him(Sorry Mishti didnt,She just wanted assurance that he still loves her.She wanted to save rishta.)

Everyone is saying Abir ne Mishti k saath galat kiya uski baat ni sunn rha blah blah...but sorry ye situation Mishti k khud k bachpane ko wajah se aayi hai.Na vo NishMish attack hota na Abir apna aapa khota...

Sbne Mishti k side ki story dekhi.CVs ne v ache se Mishti k monologues ko dikhaya lekin Abir?Uske ander k hulchal ko dikhana bhul gye aur sbke gusse ka paatra banaya.

I still have faith in Abir and would say Mishti k liye vo aaj v deserving hai........vo har lrki k layak hai...but sayad uske layak koi ni

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I am writing this post not to defend Abir and his mistakes but I'm writing it for myself..Abir 1.0 is the ly character in itv whom I love with my all heart without even a single blink of hatred..so I wanted to tell myself that Abir isn't wrong.he is right from his pov..I saw some of the post saying that nishmish Shaadi should happen as RV house is not suitable for her...my question to u all is does Abir actually deserve hatred..or anger..does Abir deserve sadness all his lyf..the path was surely chosen by him..and he is paying for his mistakes.🤗🤗

Anyone who sees the current episodes will feel for Mish more..she does deserve that..but through the light mish's pains r shown..anybody would hate Abir..there is a lack of understanding here...as an Abir lover or fan..I always had a soft corner for him although I'm a mishbir lover....

Everybody is saying that nishmish rishta should happen because Mish doesn't deserve to go to a hell like RV sadan..but my question does Abir himself deserve his house.his family.the family which had always let him down..the family where Kunal is given more love and care..he got a devil like mother who doesn't really care abt her son...a brother who has his own selfish deeds...but still he loves his family..because love for family is supposed to be unconditional..we shouldn't love our parents with any condition..that's what Abir did..and in my opinion that is the only mistake Abir did..loving his family which never let him be with mish🤗🤗

Makers want us to hate Abir so they have chosen very cliche track of misunderstandingyet I don't think Abir has done a big mistake..things r not shown from his pov.things r only shown from the pov of Mish...so how will understand that what's going on in his mind..😔😔

I will complete the post later

Ammu mishti POV shown again and again..but makers completely ignored abir..they made him like a robo not a human..I feel for Abir..I really wanted to hug Him..My baby is going through so much he is in a complete mess, lost his sanity..he needs someone badly to hold on no one is there for him😭

Ammu, all I can say, both of them have equal share of mistakes, hence they are suffering.

Abir could not get over the fact that he almost lost Kunal since Mishti blurted our the truth. Mishti could not explain the reason without mentioning about Nannu.

Abir could not accept the fact that someone is caring for Mishti in his place and Mishti couldn’t accept the fact that Abir doesn’t care for her.

Abir could accept the fact that Mishti is going to be someone else’s. Mishti cannot believe that He doesn’t consider her as his.

He missed a golden opportunity to blast Mishti today outside RV sadan- had he expressed his jealousy over NishMish , Mishti would have blurted out that she loves him.

all in all, both are duffers

Was going to write something on similar lines...you saved my time abhi🤗 👍🏼👍🏼

I completely agree with your views , I have said this before also and i will repeat it again , as much as you all want to hate or love that the fact is that both mishti and abir have made their share of mistakes and have landed today where they are , they both are at fault , you can debate on who is more wrong who is less but defending or blaming one character will not negate the mistakes done by another

I don't know where the majority of fandom is standing today but for me both of them are at fault , anyone saying otherwise would surely say it because of more attachment they have with that character because of various reasons

Also we haven't seen abir's pov , we are expected to get it this week so keep calm and stop blaming anyone

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

Ammu, all I can say, both of them have equal share of mistakes, hence they are suffering.

Abir could not get over the fact that he almost lost Kunal since Mishti blurted our the truth. Mishti could not explain the reason without mentioning about Nannu.

Abir could not accept the fact that someone is caring for Mishti in his place and Mishti couldn’t accept the fact that Abir doesn’t care for her.

Abir could accept the fact that Mishti is going to be someone else’s. Mishti cannot believe that He doesn’t consider her as his.

He missed a golden opportunity to blast Mishti today outside RV sadan- had he expressed his jealousy over NishMish , Mishti would have blurted out that she loves him.

all in all, both are duffers

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I am writing this post not to defend Abir and his mistakes but I'm writing it for myself..Abir 1.0 is the ly character in itv whom I love with my all heart without even a single blink of hatred..so I wanted to tell myself that Abir isn't wrong.he is right from his pov..I saw some of the post saying that nishmish Shaadi should happen as RV house is not suitable for her...my question to u all is does Abir actually deserve hatred..or anger..does Abir deserve sadness all his lyf..the path was surely chosen by him..and he is paying for his mistakes.🤗🤗

Anyone who sees the current episodes will feel for Mish more..she does deserve that..but through the light mish's pains r shown..anybody would hate Abir..there is a lack of understanding here...as an Abir lover or fan..I always had a soft corner for him although I'm a mishbir lover....

Everybody is saying that nishmish rishta should happen because Mish doesn't deserve to go to a hell like RV sadan..but my question does Abir himself deserve his house.his family.the family which had always let him down..the family where Kunal is given more love and care..he got a devil like mother who doesn't really care abt her son...a brother who has his own selfish deeds...but still he loves his family..because love for family is supposed to be unconditional..we shouldn't love our parents with any condition..that's what Abir did..and in my opinion that is the only mistake Abir did..loving his family which never let him be with mish🤗🤗

Makers want us to hate Abir so they have chosen very cliche track of misunderstandingyet I don't think Abir has done a big mistake..things r not shown from his pov.things r only shown from the pov of Mish...so how will understand that what's going on in his mind..😔😔

Mishti did one mistake of hiding things from Abir once..and surely whatever happening today is consequences of that.. Mish didn't want Abir to leave her so she hided .and what consequences were Abir being black mailed by bb and she asking him to break the rishta..after leap she fought but atleast she should have cleared to him that she and Nish r not in any relationship..did she do that.and she is expecting Abir to understand her.??is he some God to understand whatever other person feels...definitely not...Abir is also a human....she didn't understand his love..she didn't saw his pain..yet she want him to know her pain..now everything is really awesome..becoz both of them r suffering..

I clearly feel for Abir more..sorry to say but the day Mish entered his lyf..the rocket of problemz entered his lyf.he forgot to smile..he forgot to live.his lyf become a drama....🤗🤗

The real cause of problems in both of their lyf is bb,Mish knew it,yet she wanted to live in RV sadan..in coming days after they reunite then also Mish may want to stay with bb,so isn't she Clearly inviting problems...nannu ka mujhe kuch nahi batana..that guy is also hiding and who will suffer in the end Mish..both mishbir will suffer due to others..and blame will always go to Abir..sorry to say but this fandom don't deserve Abir...how can they turn blind towards his pain...

PS:haters plz stay away 🤗🤗

Need of the hour post yaar! 🤗👏 Thankyou for expressing this side too.

Too many people are hell-bent on bashing each character, and dividing the fandom Abir vs Mishti

@bold: Absolutely right👍🏼 Couldn't agree more! Abir simply wants to be loved and cared for, but his entire RV family only deals with him and cares for his emotions, when it crescendos to climax. They are not unconditional (hopefully with Kunal's redemption and realisation soon, Nanko will be the pillar of strength rather than Abir's weakness) Abir doesn't deserve such a bi-polar family (his idolistic father broke his childhood memories and dreams, his mother has always pulled him in directions by manipulating him his love for his bhai Nanko, Naanu had lied to him and proceeded to disappear during one of the most crucially life-changing and devastating moments of his life (Baba's truth and then mishbir break-up). Argh, Abir has always been inspirational, he IS and WILL always be.

Both Mishti and Abir have made their fair share of mistakes. Full stop. end of debate. They are human! Let them begin from scratch if needed, mishbir's relationship had to hit an obstacle in order for their relationship to further bloom.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Need of the hour post yaar! 🤗👏 Thankyou for expressing this side too.

Too many people are hell-bent on bashing each character, and dividing the fandom Abir vs Mishti

@bold: Absolutely right👍🏼 Couldn't agree more! Abir simply wants to be loved and cared for, but his entire RV family only deals with him and cares for his emotions, when it crescendos to climax. They are not unconditional (hopefully with Kunal's redemption and realisation soon, Nanko will be the pillar of strength rather than Abir's weakness) Abir doesn't deserve such a bi-polar family (his idolistic father broke his childhood memories and dreams, his mother has always pulled him in directions by manipulating him his love for his bhai Nanko, Naanu had lied to him and proceeded to disappear during one of the most crucially life-changing and devastating moments of his life (Baba's truth and then mishbir break-up). Argh, Abir has always been inspirational, he IS and WILL always be.

Both Mishti and Abir have made their fair share of mistakes. Full stop. end of debate. They are human! Let them begin from scratch if needed, mishbir's relationship had to hit an obstacle in order for their relationship to further bloom.

I agree with u Nandu..Abir and Mish had done their share of mistakes and I just wanted to reflect that Abir isn't wrong .atleast from his side..both of them will emerge more powerful than before..and when Abir is taking the lead,surely destination is success...🤗🤗becoz once abir is back no body can stop him😎😎

Just re-posting my words from the AT here as well:

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With Abir's realisation, and turnover to fighter Abir upcoming...

I would like to kindly remind everyone of our beloved Abir's motto from the very first episode (can't remember the exact words but..

(abir and mishti's very first conversation on the bus rooftop):

"ek baar galti ki hai. Dobara kare toh iska matlab nahi hai ki no second chance"

=> It was a mistake for the first time. If it's repeated it's doesn't mean that there is no second chance.

Yes Come on guys! we all know Abir made a huge mistake in choosing to break mishibr rishta. He made a mistake in misunderstanding her and refusing to listen to her. But still...he DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!!

Both Mishti and Abir have made their fair share of mistakes (some on their own others due to external pressures). Now let them try to fix them. Let them learn and rise up to the occasion. GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE!

Humble request: Since many are still hung up on Abir's character butchering, then atleast listen to Abir 1.0! Listen to his advice and give Abir the SECOND CHANCE!

xx

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I agree with u Nandu..Abir and Mish had done their share of mistakes and I just wanted to reflect that Abir isn't wrong .atleast from his side..both of them will emerge more powerful than before..and when Abir is taking the lead,surely destination is success...🤗🤗becoz once abir is back no body can stop him😎😎

Yup I totally understand you. Abir is equally right and wrong. Same with Mishti, she is equally right and wrong.

Ofcourse mishbir is the end game😃 Now that Abir will come back to form, as his weakness Kunal and his birth truth is no longer a secret. He can finally return to better space with strength and courage to fight!

We need Abir's intensity with Swetha, now with Meenu😎🤣 "Tumhe lagega ki Abir rajvansh dhamki nahi dehta, lekin isse dhamki hi samijle"

Both mishti and abir characters went downhill. Mishti is going overboard with her begging and clingy behavior towards abir and Abir is getting too controlled by his mom and doesn't seem to understand mishti. I do want them together but no one is going to stay happy if abir's mom is going to be plotting and is going to have the upper hand. At this point I don't see a bright future even if they get together. I think mishti needs to focus on some other hobby and not always think of marriage. She should have seriously gotten into that app thing but she was doing it for abir. Too desperate for me.