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Posted: 4 months ago
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Ruhi truly needs psychological help. She had counselling sessions but it didn't change anything for her. The way she was pleading infront of Armaan, being in delusion or insisting him to get married to her even when he confessed his love for Abhira or even when he said he can't marry her. She continued with her delusional monologues "Even if you love Abhira let's get married" "You will be very happy with me" "My love will be enough for both of us". Equating Abhira's love with Ruhi's love isn't fair. Even saying "both girls are fool to love him" isn't accurate. Abhira was fool to love him and she still is but she didn't beg, forced, guilt tripped to be loved back despite having only Armaan as someone she could address family. Ruhi's foolishness and her being desperate can't be compared with anyone.

No normal person will impose himself/herself on someone unwilling or refusing. What she wanted to hear when she said "I've seen love for someone else in your eyes who is that person?" So she knew he loved someone else but wanted to get married to him. He already clarified he didn't love her. She deep down knew Armaan started falling for Abhira or will be attracted to Abhira as they are husband-wife that's why she created misunderstandings so Abhira couldn't confess her love seeing that side of Armaan (family's puppet with no sense of right and wrong).

Planning, plotting, manipulations, lies, pleading, pretense, begging for love. What's the end result? She is going to continue with her victim card as her family sided with her and put entire blame on Armaan despite knowing he did the right thing even if he did it at the wrong time.

Goenkas told Ruhi repeatedly "Ruhi even if you have 1% doubt you can back off don't get married to Armaan". They gave her choice even at last moment to back out, but couldn't fathom Armaan backing out at last moment, which was completely wrong but if Ruhi was given a choice to back out of marriage till the last moment why couldn't Armaan be given same choice?

MG didn't hold Ruhi accountable for not seeing anything beyond her delusion despite Goenkas repeatedly warning her "Armaan doesn't love you" or "You will never be happy with Armaan". He could've told Ruhi "Look we already warned you" but they were all sympathetic and enranged as if they never warned Ruhi and Ruhi is the only one being wronged or Armaan confessed his undying love for her and then ditched her. As if they were never doubtful about this marriage, they gave her more sympathy to stay delusional and play victim forever. Humari bachi key sath hi aisa kyun hota hai. Didn't they already know?

Would Manish slap Ruhi the same way if she cancelled marriage at last moment instead of Armaan? He would've patted her back and said "You made right decision Ruhi as you wouldn't be happy in loveless marriage" or "You made right decision Ruhi as we told you even if you have 1% doubt don't go with it (marriage)"

Armaan shouldn't have agreed to get married to Ruhi specifically when he divorced Abhira 2 days back. He was given so many chances to make it all right. Even cousins offered him help but he didn't elope that time. Manish's words to Armaan "Give unconditional love to Ruhi" triggered something in him and finally he realized he can never love Ruhi and it will be unfair to her to get married to her.

I liked the way he was reminded of shanti wala dialogue smiley36 but did Ruhi want his love? No. Otherwise she would never compelled him to get married even if he loved someone else. She was obsessed with the title of "Mrs. Armaan Poddar" her happiness. Even enemies shouldn't get family like Goenkas whose parvarish is so hollow and they actually make their children feed on insecurities, lies and delusion. I've seen Goenkas parvarish for generations.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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What annoys me is how MG and Goenkas dont hold her accountable at all.

She was warned repeatedly, she ignored it all ,over and over again!

Armaans behavior tbh is really not a shock to anyone.

MG only held Armaan responsible even when he first learned of Ruhis feelings for him. he knew she married Rohit despite supposedly loving Armaan. She lied that she tried to move on with Rohit but he left so now she loves Armaan and he bought it. He never should have let her stay in PH after knowing her immoral feelings for a married man. but he did!

Armaan definitely has erred- but he has been pressured too. MG knows what Kaveri is like. so slapping only Armaan and abusing him but giving free pass to Ruhi is not acceptable. I am not feeling bad for Armaan getting slapped. its the least he desreves for all the heartache he has put Abhira through. but Ruhi ko kaun bolega?!

She saw him refuse to say ILU to her, clearly tell her he is doing shaadi for family sake, she saw him get drunk the day before shaadi, her family has been begging her to open her eyes and STOP shaadi.

So making her bechaari and only Armaan villain is rubbish

Atleast he stopped short of actually ruining her life by marrying like Ruhi did with Rohit .

Ruhi needs to pay and not get clean chit and bechaari tag. she is not mature. she is not dignified, she has no self respect and she is stupid

no one can feel sympathy for such a person so showing the characters always feeling bad for her is exhausting to watch.

we as audience know that she is reaping what she sowed but narrative is always that she is so bechaari.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Goenkas are to be blamed for the way Roohi is now.. They ditched their other daughter only for Roohi so they should have brought her up in a better way and instilled some moral values in her. Childhood trauma and abandonment issues she has doesn’t give her license to spoil someone else’s life.. Just because she felt insecure with Abhira’s relationship with Armaan she plotted, manipulated and put Abhira through a lot of trouble.. she should not have spoiled her love confession.. she constantly imposed herself on Armaan and manipulated him to get him to do things she wants.. he constantly said there can be nothing between them and she is his brother’s wife in the initial stage.. but when they decided Rohit won’t return, his guilt took over and Roohi used it to her advantage.. From the beginning, becoming Mrs. Armaan Poddar is her dream and obsession.. she doesn’t really love him or care for his happiness.. she wants to own him and control him and also has lot of lust.. that’s why this constant touching and hugging even if he is uncomfortable.:

It is ok to pursue your love provided that man is not committed.. but here he is her brother in law.. though he said he is in deal marriage, he was legally married.. which woman from good family would pursue such a man?? She went and filled Vidya’s ears with her Amar prem katha and got her to suggest the wedding.. Armaan had still not recovered from divorce or processed his feelings.. they didn’t give him time to think and decide.. Vidya with her honey sweet words made him say yes.. he did say he doesn’t love her and things have changed in 10 months.. he did give Shanti se Pooja speech but still.. he was not at all happy throughout the marriage preparations.. she even forced him to say I love you but instead he got drunk.. does it not tell her enough to back off.. even Diya in front of her parents’ picture went off ..she ignored everything and was hell bent on marrying him..

When Armaan finally got the guts to speak up, he did.. better late than never.. it’s much better than being in a loveless marriage which will be a hell, life long.. Armaan as an individual has right to accept or reject whom he wants to marry.: just because she loves him, he shouldn’t pity her and marry unless he wants to.. the highlight was her trying to convince him that he is confused and he doesn’t love Abhira and after marriage, they will be happy.. her love will be enough for both of them.. manipulation is mixed in her blood.. “delulu is the only solulu” seems to be her motto..

At least after this, she can focus on her mental health.. but no.. seeing bts, seems like she will still try to guilt trip Armaan and will never back down on her goal of becoming Mrs. Armaan Poddar.. even if she spoils many lives she doesn’t/wouldn’t care and her grandparents don’t hold her accountable for her actions too.. she puts blame on everyone else and claims that she is victim.. I don’t feel any sympathy for this character! All I feel is disgust.. she is an example of how a girl shouldn’t be.. I am waiting for the day Roohi will learn her lesson ..

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Posted: 4 months ago
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MG said today that he already warned both of them earlier not to go ahead with this shadi.. In this he is clean, The reason why only Armaan is accountable is because of the timing he chose to confess his love on Abhira. No parent or family will tolerate to see their daughter getting ditched at the mandap. It’s purely a father’s anger and hatred towards the person who refused to accept their daughter in front of everyone. He behaved the same way in the case of her mom too.

Ruhi needs this reality check to come out of her delusions. I hope she learns about how her mom handled herself in such situation.

I liked the scene where they showed two girls at the end.. one fainted down due to continuous stress for last few days and the other sobbing her heart out for being left alone at the mandap.. and reason for both of their situation is Armaan for doing wrong things in the wrong timings.


P.S : Mods I referred S3 character as today’s scene is very similar to the previous season. Moreover the characters were already shown in previous episode. Today’s episode is the continuation of it.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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My ques is why was suvarna so shocked when she was the one always telling ruhi that Arman will ditch her smiley5 Just before coming down they are doubtful that marriage will happen. The whole scene was like "chalo let's go ahead with it , when she comes face to face with reality , she will come out of her delusion " . Hell Manish g is telling Arman "mujhe pata hai ye rishta zyada nai chalega " , next min Arman rejects and he slaps Arman smiley39 bhai tumko pata hai zyada nai chalega then why let this happen ?


Kaveri knew everything, Arman confessed to her yet she's telling them "do din baad Arman pyar bhool jayega" smiley37 Isko koi kuch kyun nai bolta..


Lastly, Arman has had his share of slaps , humiliations , family narazgi, ma fainting n doing drama etc etc , what about ruhi ? Goenkas knew she's in for heartbreak yet they let her go ahead & ruhi herself knew she lost the battle ..it's Def not armans fault alone


Ps Arman is not being white washed bec of abhira. Nobody wants him with abhira and we know , like Manish g that he is a useless fellow

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Susi26

MG said today that he already warned both of them earlier not to go ahead with this shadi.. In this he is clean, The reason why only Armaan is accountable is because of the timing he chose to confess his love on Abhira. No parent or family will tolerate to see their daughter getting ditched at the mandap. It’s purely a father’s anger and hatred towards the person who refused to accept their daughter in front of everyone. He behaved the same way in the case of her mom too.

Ruhi needs this reality check to come out of her delusions. I hope she learns about how her mom handled herself in such situation.

I liked the scene where they showed two girls at the end.. one fainted down due to continuous stress for last few days and the other sobbing her heart out for being left alone at the mandap.. and reason for both of their situation is Armaan for doing wrong things in the wrong timings.


P.S : Mods I referred S3 character as today’s scene is very similar to the previous season. Moreover the characters were already shown in previous episode. Today’s episode is the continuation of it.

when arman agreed for shadi abhira went from home. He accepted in front of her that too for his so called family jaap. I am fed of that jaap because he won't do anything for them he will just say my family and do what he wants to do .He acted as if he listened to anyone till now .A promise if we say to anyone we will never forget it nor scrap it .He did all promises till now and what all he said words can be written on water. Wo sorting their issues or accepting mistakes they confessed so it's a pileup from next day.

Manish blessed bhagwan tum donom ko sadbuddhi de. Arman got buddhi first next ruhi will be kept aside till they show consummation and next level drama. Because of ruhi separation started so they kept her aside now.Let's see who will make them apart. We know once leads United means next day se separation starts.

Ruhi got clarity of what arman is now at last though she got a public humiliation.Ar needed this till stretch to leave ruhi as he is her partner. He flipped easily no doubt but he is never trustable.

Goenkas gave their kids freedom much to dance on our heads.Not to forget that all khaands started from the time goenkas entered in show.Their kids are right or bad or wrong or criminals or molesters they support their kids in love that's their family.Naira showed that right or wrong things but she was never supported for that. What to talk about abhiras mom and ruhis mom khaands both did a lot lot and pampered by goenkas. Ruhi is warned by three oldies she was in her own world. So got her prasad today through arman. This is needed to kick back again. None will change in story easily all are humans and have their own selfishness.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Susi26

MG said today that he already warned both of them earlier not to go ahead with this shadi.. In this he is clean, The reason why only Armaan is accountable is because of the timing he chose to confess his love on Abhira. No parent or family will tolerate to see their daughter getting ditched at the mandap. It’s purely a father’s anger and hatred towards the person who refused to accept their daughter in front of everyone. He behaved the same way in the case of her mom too.

Ruhi needs this reality check to come out of her delusions. I hope she learns about how her mom handled herself in such situation.

I liked the scene where they showed two girls at the end.. one fainted down due to continuous stress for last few days and the other sobbing her heart out for being left alone at the mandap.. and reason for both of their situation is Armaan for doing wrong things in the wrong timings.


P.S : Mods I referred S3 character as today’s scene is very similar to the previous season. Moreover the characters were already shown in previous episode. Today’s episode is the continuation of it.


He is a unhappy person himself...He can't make others happy....hope both the girls realize this and ditch him

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

My ques is why was suvarna so shocked when she was the one always telling ruhi that Arman will ditch her smiley5 Just before coming down they are doubtful that marriage will happen. The whole scene was like "chalo let's go ahead with it , when she comes face to face with reality , she will come out of her delusion " . Hell Manish g is telling Arman "mujhe pata hai ye rishta zyada nai chalega " , next min Arman rejects and he slaps Arman smiley39 bhai tumko pata hai zyada nai chalega then why let this happen ?


Kaveri knew everything, Arman confessed to her yet she's telling them "do din baad Arman pyar bhool jayega" smiley37 Isko koi kuch kyun nai bolta..


Lastly, Arman has had his share of slaps , humiliations , family narazgi, ma fainting n doing drama etc etc , what about ruhi ? Goenkas knew she's in for heartbreak yet they let her go ahead & ruhi herself knew she lost the battle ..it's Def not armans fault alone


Ps Arman is not being white washed bec of abhira. Nobody wants him with abhira and we know , like Manish g that he is a useless fellow


She was ditched by her soon to be husband...what more she should get?


She deserve everything for what she did to Rohit,Charu and Abhira but Armaan? What about Armaan?

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Sushma_00


She was ditched by her soon to be husband...what more she should get?


She deserve everything for what she did to Rohit,Charu and Abhira but Armaan? What about Armaan?

What about Arman? They will be the same in 2 days ..ruhi will be in ph trying to break the couples marriage & dream of her wedding again with Arman...

Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Sushma_00


She was ditched by her soon to be husband...what more she should get?


She deserve everything for what she did to Rohit,Charu and Abhira but Armaan? What about Armaan?

Armaan's days are counting.. He is in kaveri poddar checklist now..She will be trying ways to send him out of the house and punish him, crush him.. Gammandi will be behind his happiness now.. She won't accept Ab also.. Not going to be easy for armaan

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