Ruhi truly needs psychological help. She had counselling sessions but it didn't change anything for her. The way she was pleading infront of Armaan, being in delusion or insisting him to get married to her even when he confessed his love for Abhira or even when he said he can't marry her. She continued with her delusional monologues "Even if you love Abhira let's get married" "You will be very happy with me" "My love will be enough for both of us". Equating Abhira's love with Ruhi's love isn't fair. Even saying "both girls are fool to love him" isn't accurate. Abhira was fool to love him and she still is but she didn't beg, forced, guilt tripped to be loved back despite having only Armaan as someone she could address family. Ruhi's foolishness and her being desperate can't be compared with anyone.
No normal person will impose himself/herself on someone unwilling or refusing. What she wanted to hear when she said "I've seen love for someone else in your eyes who is that person?" So she knew he loved someone else but wanted to get married to him. He already clarified he didn't love her. She deep down knew Armaan started falling for Abhira or will be attracted to Abhira as they are husband-wife that's why she created misunderstandings so Abhira couldn't confess her love seeing that side of Armaan (family's puppet with no sense of right and wrong).
Planning, plotting, manipulations, lies, pleading, pretense, begging for love. What's the end result? She is going to continue with her victim card as her family sided with her and put entire blame on Armaan despite knowing he did the right thing even if he did it at the wrong time.
Goenkas told Ruhi repeatedly "Ruhi even if you have 1% doubt you can back off don't get married to Armaan". They gave her choice even at last moment to back out, but couldn't fathom Armaan backing out at last moment, which was completely wrong but if Ruhi was given a choice to back out of marriage till the last moment why couldn't Armaan be given same choice?
MG didn't hold Ruhi accountable for not seeing anything beyond her delusion despite Goenkas repeatedly warning her "Armaan doesn't love you" or "You will never be happy with Armaan". He could've told Ruhi "Look we already warned you" but they were all sympathetic and enranged as if they never warned Ruhi and Ruhi is the only one being wronged or Armaan confessed his undying love for her and then ditched her. As if they were never doubtful about this marriage, they gave her more sympathy to stay delusional and play victim forever. Humari bachi key sath hi aisa kyun hota hai. Didn't they already know?
Would Manish slap Ruhi the same way if she cancelled marriage at last moment instead of Armaan? He would've patted her back and said "You made right decision Ruhi as you wouldn't be happy in loveless marriage" or "You made right decision Ruhi as we told you even if you have 1% doubt don't go with it (marriage)"
Armaan shouldn't have agreed to get married to Ruhi specifically when he divorced Abhira 2 days back. He was given so many chances to make it all right. Even cousins offered him help but he didn't elope that time. Manish's words to Armaan "Give unconditional love to Ruhi" triggered something in him and finally he realized he can never love Ruhi and it will be unfair to her to get married to her.
I liked the way he was reminded of shanti wala dialogue but did Ruhi want his love? No. Otherwise she would never compelled him to get married even if he loved someone else. She was obsessed with the title of "Mrs. Armaan Poddar" her happiness. Even enemies shouldn't get family like Goenkas whose parvarish is so hollow and they actually make their children feed on insecurities, lies and delusion. I've seen Goenkas parvarish for generations.
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