Originally posted by: SAOkr
i have seen some saying that akshara manipulated neil , see manipulation is a a very strong and vile word for that situation . also akshara never intended to manipulate him. its just as she said those girls had called her and because of her their life was in danger , so if anything happened she will never be able to forgive herself. it was not pure selflessness, its somewhat of aksharas on desire to save those children so that she could be not guilt ridden if something were to happen to them because of her...
and its ok all of us do things in extremity if we see ourselves regretting something in future or to avoid that guilt. if it was selfless behaviour she would have thought of stopping neil and would have stopped herself inorder to save the babies , but fact is she never stopped neil.
and look at the second video as soon as she reached there after seeing the situation she was ready to jump out of car. It was neil who locked the doors otherwise ak would have gone there even before neil .without a care for her children.
All this ak is doing is not because of purely selfless behaviour but to avoid that guilt of not saving girls who were there because of her,
her childhood trauma, of trying to make everyone happy.
and in some extent her trust in abhi that if something were to happen to kids he will understand.
But at what cost.
this is extremely a foolish and hazardous decision she could have followed them. or could have tried to gather some people . atleast stopped neil.
its a fact that she never intended that babies or neil be in danger. but its also a fact that she never cared enough for the babies nor neil to stop herself or him . because when it comes to our family we think of thousand ways to atleast make them safe before jumping ourselves in any kind of risk.
an ex look at neil he made sure ak is safe before going to scene and also said to her not to come out of car even when he was on the verge of death.
i have seen people saying neil was the reason ak went out of car . then it can be equally be said ak was the reason neil went out of car to stop her from panicking or jumping out of car trying to save girls. But neil atleast tried to stop ak he too was in same situation . but did ak ever tried to stop him , she just gave him options and thats not what a concerned family member does.
also ak was so nonchalant about her safety and the kids safety because to some extent she had trust if something were to happen abhi would understand witnessed by her during picnic incident. but here she failed to understand it was not just her life she was responsible , but also the kids which were abhis too and too hope a father will be okay to put their childs life in danger , if you ask me its extremely a selfish hope, and desire .
and as a girl no matter how noble the cause is i could never understand how ak as a mother decided to put her and her babies life at risk so many times. sorry but mothers i know or heard of are not like that and though called selfish .
also i would like to ask what ak has asked if in place of neil or with neil if there was abhir too in that situation would she still risk his life ???
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