Acchhey aadmi ki achhayee

Self proclaimed achha aadmi aajkal apni achhayee kaafi dikha rahe hain or is it? Gaslighting is also a form of abuse just like divorcing and going crazy and throwing things around is. Emotional manipulation happens quietly…slowly…and steadily…n sometimes not overtly apparent…n yet still qualifies …reminding of how this so called relationship is namesake …cajoling the victim into giving in and never getting over the gratitude ….hence serving the ultimate goal …

This whole concept was so misogynistic …right from divorcing Akshara to hapless akshara to ultimate sacrifice to repay the gratitude of her savior…screams misogyny to me…I came across some tweets of aarif, the infamous creative/producer or was it posts on insta where he passive aggressively wishes women on women’s day by saying happy bitching etc …if it was just limited to personal social media post one would not pay attention as he is a nobody but when this is reflected in the whole script one can’t help but sit up n notice the pattern …n now I understand how the girl who lived by herself in the face of emotional abuse from Aarohi n zero supports from goenkas could only somehow now survive only by marrying a random stranger just coz he “saves” her …otherwise all goes kaput

if Abhimanyu’s character was butchered to pave way for this creative’s misogyny thrn so was Akshara character…she is unrecognizable…n before everyone brings in the real life gyaan …let ne clarify I’m talking about Akshara whose character as I explained above did not take manipulation from even khera a n at one point Aarohi n now she can’t recognize the kambal mein lapeta hua emotional gaslighting…I don’t know about others but if is crystal clear to me n that ends my rant

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

Self proclaimed achha aadmi aajkal apni achhayee kaafi dikha rahe hain or is it? Gaslighting is also a form of abuse just like divorcing and going crazy and throwing things around is. Emotional manipulation happens quietly…slowly…and steadily…n sometimes not overtly apparent…n yet still qualifies …reminding of how this so called relationship is namesake …cajoling the victim into giving in and never getting over the gratitude ….hence serving the ultimate goal …

This whole concept was so misogynistic …right from divorcing Akshara to hapless akshara to ultimate sacrifice to repay the gratitude of her savior…screams misogyny to me…I came across some tweets of aarif, the infamous creative/producer or was it posts on insta where he passive aggressively wishes women on women’s day by saying happy bitching etc …if it was just limited to personal social media post one would not pay attention as he is a nobody but when this is reflected in the whole script one can’t help but sit up n notice the pattern …n now I understand how the girl who lived by herself in the face of emotional abuse from Aarohi n zero supports from goenkas could only somehow now survive only by marrying a random stranger just coz he “saves” her …otherwise all goes kaput

if Abhimanyu’s character was butchered to pave way for this creative’s misogyny thrn so was Akshara character…she is unrecognizable…n before everyone brings in the real life gyaan …let ne clarify I’m talking about Akshara whose character as I explained above did not take manipulation from even khera a n at one point Aarohi n now she can’t recognize the kambal mein lapeta hua emotional gaslighting…I don’t know about others but if is crystal clear to me n that ends my rant

PS:I am not against women moving on in life after an abusive marriage.

First thing they did not showed how exactly akshu and nav decided to marry. Which actually shows a weak women needed a man to take care of her life. I do not like such concepts where they glorify man and say women needs a man.

If nav is some one whom akshu knew from her college days or a childhood friend whom she can trust or if he is some one whom kairav knows or her family knows..i can still see some sense in this marriage. But marrying an unknown/stranger a complete no from me which shows how much weak she was.

Akshu was talented she had her music and instead of using that to raise her kid she just started with something else. Irrespective of how a bad memories are associated to your talent when it comes to kid parents tend to forget everything and strive hard to give everything to them.

Akshu married abhinav but she never gave him the right of husband after marriage. They share a load and they are happy i agree. But how many husbands prefer a loveless marriage that too for such a long time. He just married to do charity. Marriage is not a joke.

Akshu never ever thought of giving nav his rights. But as soon as she heard abhi is moving on and abhinav also has a feeling she just went ahead with giving chance to nav. 6 saal kaafi hothe hai pyar hone ke liye agar 6 saal main nahi hua toh 2 hafthe main kya hi hoga 🙃 i feel she is just making her life more miserable so that even if she likes to go back to abhi something has to stop her and that's nothing but commitment that nav and they are in a relationship and she can't leave him.

I see no difference between abhi and akshu now.

1. Abhi decided to move on with arohi after seeing akshu is married. Akshu decided to consummate her marriage after seeing abhi has decided to marry arohi.😆

2. Abhi and akshu were in respectless marriage. And akshu and nav were in loveless marriage.

And abhi and arohi will also be in loveless marriage.

PS: this is completely my pov. You are free to disagree. These are my observations. I will not speak much about nav as i hardly have any expectation from him as akshu might know him from 6 years but he is a complete stranger for me.neither i know who he nor they showed his back ground for me to know. I can't rely on akshu as her track record is bit ulta pulta 😂 my major concerns are from leads.😂

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

so true. Abhi ka toh sathyanash kar hi diya inlogone. Akshu is worse for me.

PS:I am not against women moving on in life after an abusive marriage.

First thing they did not showed how exactly akshu and nav decided to marry. Which actually shows a weak women needed a man to take care of her life. I do not like such concepts where they glorify man and say women needs a man.

If nav is some one whom akshu knew from her college days or a childhood friend whom she can trust or if he is some one whom kairav knows or her family knows..i can still see some sense in this marriage. But marrying an unknown/stranger a complete no from me which shows how much weak she was.

Akshu was talented she had her music and instead of using that to raise her kid she just started with something else. Irrespective of how a bad memories are associated to your talent when it comes to kid parents tend to forget everything and strive hard to give everything to them.

Akshu married abhinav but she never gave him the right of husband after marriage. They share a load and they are happy i agree. But how many husbands prefer a loveless marriage that too for such a long time. He just married to do charity. Marriage is not a joke.

Akshu never ever thought of giving nav his rights. But as soon as she heard abhi is moving on and abhinav also has a feeling she just went ahead with giving chance to nav. 6 saal kaafi hothe hai pyar hone ke liye agar 6 saal main nahi hua toh 2 hafthe main kya hi hoga 🙃 i feel she is just making her life more miserable so that even if she likes to go back to abhi something has to stop her and that's nothing but commitment that nav and they are in a relationship and she can't leave him.

I see no difference between abhi and akshu now.

1. Abhi decided to move on with arohi after seeing akshu is married. Akshu decided to consummate her marriage after seeing abhi has decided to marry arohi.😆

2. Abhi and akshu were in respectless marriage. And akshu and nav were in loveless marriage.

And abhi and arohi will also be in loveless marriage.

PS: this is completely my pov. You are free to disagree. These are my observations. I will not speak much about nav as i hardly have any expectation from him 😂 my major concerns are from leads.😂

I agree with you

Whatever is being shown for last few months is utter BS and nothing else…no sugar coating it

the issue here is the person writing such nonsense about the leads is to bring in n justify the cameo of achha aadmi who is anything but that …my issue is the butchering of akshara’s character here and in the process reflecting the deep rooted misogyny and a complete ignoring of the emotional manipulation …abhi n akshu are in their delusional bubble each and when those bubbles burst I want the writer yo reflect on the emotional manipulation of not just achha aadmi but also reflect on the utter ludicrousness of Aarohi calling Parth’s emotional manipulation…like pot calling kettle black

Someone needs to show that mirror to this creative or his team …

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

I agree with you

Whatever is being shown for last few months is utter BS and nothing else…no sugar coating it

the issue here is the person writing such nonsense about the leads is to bring in n justify the cameo of achha aadmi who is anything but that …my issue is the butchering of akshara’s character here and in the process reflecting the deep rooted misogyny and a complete ignoring of the emotional manipulation …abhi n akshu are in their delusional bubble each and when those bubbles burst I want the writer yo reflect on the emotional manipulation of not just achha aadmi but also reflect on the utter ludicrousness of Aarohi calling Parth’s emotional manipulation…like pot calling kettle black

Someone needs to show that mirror to this creative or his team …

Rs is so focused in maa. They are unable to see what's going on in yrkkh.