Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful
After what happened in today's episode I kinda felt disappointed with Abhi too. I know his anger was justified but the way he behaved with Akshu too was not good imo. This man will give Akshara respect which the other Birla men fail to give their respective wives but when he will get angry he will behave rashly with her, yell at her and won't let her say her side of the story. Today Akshara tolerated his shit because she was shocked and panicked but I am sure after marriage she won't tolerate his anger issues.
Yes. Abhi's impulsivity and his anger are his biggest downfalls. He did give her an opportunity to speak, but he didn't hear a single word she said. He was too clouded in his own emotions. Some of the things he said to her were absolutely unacceptable. He was shook by the entire situation, so I did feel his pain. His feelings and sentiments were not entirely wrong, but the way he put them across was. He is going to regret the things he said, and especially calling her a liar over and over again. Once he calms down and gets back into his senses, he will start putting things together.
Overall, this entire situation has arisen due to a severe lack of communication on both ends. Communication is key to any relationship, and Abhira have to work on it together!
Abhi cannot be compared with the other Birla men at all though in my opinion. The reason the elders get so annoyed and pissed is because they cannot fathom that Abhi has so much love and respect for his (soon to be) wife. He knows how to respect women, something that the other men (besides Neil) are incapable of.
Edited by tptwi - 3 years ago
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