Originally posted by: sweet_tania
Yes if someone talks nicely with naira, to b jal jati hai . She feels insecure with naira's presence in the house .May be she has no idea what history naira shares with this family but she has already seen how much kartik was missing her even after her dealth . She doesn't want to accept reality that kartik never loved her the way he loves naira and he will never going to love her in that way . Vedika knows very well her roots in the goenka mension is not as much strong as naira's so she feels insecure .
Chipkali thinks she can remove not only naira but also kairav from kartik's life. She is well aware how much kartik loves his son. She wants to live in bubble . I really dislike her with her disgusting thought of separating kartik-kairav.
Naira was wrong when she took call of hiding child's existence/separated him from his father for her self respect .There are so many ways to protect your self respect without hiding child's existence from father. Sad but reality is she took worst way for her self respect .Vedika is also wrong because of her dirty mind of separating kairav from his father for her selfish dream of happy marriage life by removing kairav from his life.
For me , both the women are wrong and taking decisions about marriage on kartik's behalf .
Naira took the decision to leave without facing situation . After vocalizing his doubt on naira's character , naira took the call about what their marriage deserves after his question and she left forever leaving that marriage behind. Kartik never got a chance to think about how to process further in that marriage. Before he thinks, reacts or come back in his senses , decision was taken by naira on their marriage. She left with their child forever. She took the call to never inform kartik about his fatherhood . Ek shaddi mai do log hote hai par shaddi ka anjam kya hona chahiye woh decide sirf naira ne kiya . Uss sawal ke baad uss shaddi ka kya anjam hona chahiye , divorce lena chahiye, separation way lena chahiye, naira se mafi mangni chahiye , shaddi ka kya anjaam hona chahiye woh decide karne ka haqq pati-patni dono ka hota hai. Domestic violence,dowry , infidelity in sab ke baad bhi couple sath court mai jate or decide karte hai ki unki shaddi ka kya anjaam hoga ab. Afsoos naira ne khud he anjaam bhi decide kar liya. Kartik never got a chance about what should be next for their marriage after his question. Itna haqq to admi ko bhi milna chahiye kyoki shaddi to usne bhi kiya tha.
Kartik lost everything because of his anger , insecurity and that question. He got severe punishment and he missed the rights to know that he is proud father of son ,he missed his childhood which is not at all small punishment. Anyways shaddi ka anjaam naira ne akele ne decide kar liya.
Vedika is also doing same. Again ek shaddi mai do log hote hai . Kartik apne bacche ke sath rehna chahta hai ya nai , yeh kartik se jane bina selfish ban kar apni happiness ke liye kairav ko kartik ke life se remove karne ka decision le liye. Kartik ko bina face kare ,unki shaddi ke sab decision or shaddi ka anjaam khud he decide kar rahi hai.
I don't get it, yeh log shaddi ka matlab bhi samajte hai kya??! Unmarried logo ko itna samaj nai hota ki ek shaddi mai do log hote hai or situation chahe kitna bhi worst ho jaye dono ke bich, shaddi ka anjaam do log mil kar decide karte hai. Yaha to kartik ko bina face kiye sab kuch ladies he decide kar rahi hai.
Pehli shaddi ka anjaam kya hona chahiye woh akele naira ne decide kar liya tha jo bahot zyada immature/galar tarika tha. Ab vedika apne bubble mai selfish ban kar ina kartik ko face kiye sab decide kar rahi hai or yeh bhi utni he galat hai.
Kartik ko pehli biwi bhi aisi he mili thi jisne kabhi baat-chit/discussion/face to face talk ka rasta lena zaruri nai samja or shaddi ka anjaam akele ne decide kiya.Kartik ko dusri biwi bhi aisi he mili jo uske sath bina baat-chit/discussion/face to face talk kiye shaddi ke decisions akele he le rahi hai.
Normally in marriages or in a relationships its rarely two people deciding everything together...one mostly tends to decide more than other one in few matters...though when mutual respect is there the decision by one is accepted by both...Divorce is not always mutual...same goes for abandonment....What if one of the spouse doesn't want to live in marriage or live with spouse?...he/she want to divorce his/her husband for whatever reasons....can the other one who doesn't want divorce compel his/her spouse not to take divorce?....according to law he/she can't...staying in a marriage or not, remarrying, divorcing is not always a couple's decision...it can be an individual's decision...Naira abandoned them all for her mental peace and for her child as she didn't want his paternity to be questioned by Kartik...her family abandoned her first....by not searching for any of traces of her death or her dead body before assuming her dead the verry next morning...According to my POV what Naira decided for Kartik and Kairav...as she thought Kairav's paternity will be questioned...Kairav won't be accepted by all...Kairav will have to undergo tests to prove he is Kartik Goenkas son....even to protect Kairav....the decision was wrong exceedingly wrong....something that lessened the impact of Kartik accusing her of infidelity....
On other side...c'mon....Naira can't be compared with Vedika...Naira has always forgiven Kartik without showering him with taunts....she tried to understand him...except obviously when he accused her of infidelity...as no woman who forgave the man after not being able to see her dead child one last time...who forgave the man when he forged her sign on abortion papers...who forgave the man when he had no direct conversation with her regarding his sister being the cause of her mother Akshara's death (infact she apologized)...whom she forgave even after being called his brother's murderer....that also repeatedly....she forgave him after him abandoning her for 2 years...and choosing his step mother whom he use to hate once upon a time over her...Naira loved him beyond herself as she always to tried to understand his reasons and his reactions also tried to calm him down most of the times...she had been his companion for more than 5 long years....she was an understanding and loving wife...Period...nothing can change that...not even abandonment for 5 years...after giving so much to her marriage...to her relationship....she didn't deserved to be questioned...that also she didn't deserve to be questioned regarding her chastity....but Kartik also didn't deserve to be separated from his child...that one decision actually made Naira the understanding one appear irrational and even more wrong than Kartik....
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