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Okay... so since yesterday, Aru is being bashed(by some) and then some people showed their disappointment with the turn of events.
I was not a part of the bashing team because I wanted to see how things unfold today.
I read all the posts yesterday and to some extent I did agree with the OTT childishness in Aru, but today's episode clarified everything for me.
See we all agree that Aru is a young and impulsive girl,who has fallen in love for the first time in her life and that explains her inhibitions about sex. She gets hyper because she reaches to conclusions without giving things much thought. THIS DOES NOT MAKE HER A HATEFUL PERSON! Instead I find her very relatable and very real! I agree that yesterday I did not like her constant blame game. But today, when she was teasing Mukhiji and he ended up re-confessing his love and all that was in his heart, Aru was all emotional and she said that from then on, she wont misjudge him.
In my opinion, this was a very important thing to happen because last time when Mukhji clarified and gave her this vacchan of staying in his limits, at that time staying with him and having him by her side was more important for Aru. She was touched by his sensitivity and that was all. She still needed more proof for building unshakable trust grounds. True that she had already been with him for the past 1 month since their marriage and he had not done anything wrong with her. But at that time they both had not confessed their love and they had not been sleeping together. Now the dynamics have changed a little. They are sleeping in the same bed and its very natural to feel a little discomfort at the thought of sleeping next to someone for whom you already have very strong feelings and you also have that sexual tug towards that person. If i say that Aru ke apne dil mien chor tha, i think i wont be wrong. 🤔 (Mukhiji ke sath tou mere apne dil mien bhi chor ajaye! 😆)
Now when she found herself entangled with him, she jumped to conclusions without thinking about anything else and started the blame game. I think that the Bhaang hangover made them groggy as hell and clouded their judgement also. Hence all the drama yesterday.
Today however, she not only "blessed"Mukhiji with all her trust, she also accepted that she will keep coming close to him because of her right on him! 😉 So our Aru bibi has finally accepted that they both have this right to be close to each other. This acceptance in my view is the 1st step towards their total surrender in the physical intimacy equation.
So all my dear friends, I request you to take a shaant breath and think over it a little positively. Phrases like,'Aru has lost her mind", "Mukhiji doesnt deserve Aru"..and many other weird phrases that i came across on the forum are pretty absurd and not at all tasteful. In the name of democracy, some people are losing their senses and thats so sad to see!
Anyway... if its MY post, how can I leave the topic WITHOUT ranting about my un-dying love for our Mukhiman!? 😆😆 He looked sooo divine in that Raj Kapoor attire! 😳😳 I wish i was there in that umbrella with him! We both would have sung, "Pyar hua iqrar hua hai, pyar se NAHI darrta hai mann! " ❤️
