Aditya Bhalla - A problem 12 years in the making - Page 7

Originally posted by: suresh555

Loved the original post and all the comments. My humble solution to the Adi virus is:

I would buy Raman a CD that rants "Ishita ke liye" which might eventually replace his brain engraved rant "Adi ke liye"

I would have Ishita hypnotized and have the words "Adi" and "Shagun" removed from her memory

I would buy a huge lantern for Toshi that says Ghar ka Chiraag

I would have the same psychiatrist hypnotize Shagun into believing Raman is her baby brother

I would send Adi for a vigorous cleansing under the Niagara Falls using Ruhi brand soap

Originally posted by: RisingAsh

Brilliant post Lucky !

Seeing Aditya, I never felt it was HIM because a child IS a child anyways who needs attention of his father AND mother BOTH. If one lacks, there are always negative consequences of it to bear with n that is what we are seeing nowadays in form of Aditya, initially a child of a self-centered woman and a lost father BUT who got influenced by various transitions in the environment around.

PS was a must :)

Originally posted by: mayu1982

😆Res

P.s My pc is not working today.. And difficult to write EW in mobile..😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Characters seem to have memory loss and don't recall serious incidents of the past. Raman is a weak parent, Adi knows Raman's desperation to have a relationship with him and that gives him that much power over his father.

Good parenting sometimes requires a parent to step up and give strong boundaries to the child. The child may not like it in the moment but in the long run they will appreciate that the parent cared enough to guide them by giving them boundaries that taught them to walk down the right path in life. The recent incident of Adi fighting with Ruhi at school (the time Mihir hurt Suraj) didn't ring warning bells in Raman's mind about Adi's volatile temper getting out of hand. Parenting is not about all hugs and smiles, it's a lot of work like a gardener tending to a garden. It takes commitment and patience. If Raman wants Adi to turn a new leaf he has to model his behavior for his son to learn from, that means reigning in his own temper tantrums and taking responsibility in ways that matter.

Originally posted by: shalz_123

Great post lucky.. my like button doesn't seem to work.. so imagine I 👏

I agree with all ur points. I just wanna say few thing which I feel. I m not going to comment on the OTT drama..However in real many times in real life what I have noticed is two kids being brought up in the same environment n with same genes react or behave in completely different ways. Do u think ruhi if given the same situation as aditya wud have behaved in the same way.. everyone, even kids have some sense of their own..

Ooh dont think I m saying aditya shaping up like this is his own fault. But he has always been very gullible. He doesn't think..he leaves it completely to her mother's brain.. Imagine Adi as a grown up who has to get his mother to tell him what to do and sign off on all his decisions even when he is married. Shagun gave her son a lot of material benefits but forgot the basics of proper parenting...first teach any child to think for themselves and answer their questions appropriately then they figure out how to cope in life.

Take shagun mihir..born n brought up by yet another selfish woman. But do we see mihir being selfish. ? He is very self righteous..l

I have seen so many siblings like that in real life..

PS: typing from tab in a moving cab.dont know how much sense is my rant making. ? Sorry for typos

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

What did I ever do to you? 😡 Thank the Lord you are on phone, PC pe hoti, toh aur hazaar words likh deti 😆

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Originally posted by: shalz_123

Great post lucky.. my like button doesn't seem to work.. so imagine I 👏

I agree with all ur points. I just wanna say few thing which I feel. I m not going to comment on the OTT drama..However in real many times in real life what I have noticed is two kids being brought up in the same environment n with same genes react or behave in completely different ways. Do u think ruhi if given the same situation as aditya wud have behaved in the same way.. everyone, even kids have some sense of their own..

Ooh dont think I m saying aditya shaping up like this is his own fault. But he has always been very gullible. He doesn't think..he leaves it completely to her mother's brain..

Take shagun mihir..born n brought up by yet another selfish woman. But do we see mihir being selfish. ? He is very self righteous..l

I have seen so many siblings like that in real life..

PS: typing from tab in a moving cab.dont know how much sense is my rant making. ? Sorry for typos

Originally posted by: NocturnalBeing

I actually second you on this thought. Children become what they see around themselves, and what they are encouraged to do directly and indirectly. Aditya's uncalled for actions have been reinforced by the adults around him, and there is a lack of discipline around him. Instead of attacking the roots of the problems, the Raman and Ishita are trying to tape the outer layers. This might work as a quick fix, but in the long run, it won't serve the cause.

He might become respecting and a good boy, but in future, if he is instigated / provoked by anybody, he will go back to being the vilian.

A weed in the garden does not need to be cut, but has to be uprooted.

I hope Ekta tries to look into this perspective, until and unless she has villainous prospectives for Aditya as a grown up or something.