Sadhna's biggest problem really is Mamaji, even though he doesn't realize it. I know he is just trying to help her, but her life is complicated as it is, and all he's doing is worsening her problems. She has a mentally challenged man as her husband, and enough villans in her house. He should think that his actions will have repurcussions... which Sadhna may have to bear the brunt of. Doesn't he realize that by behaving with this attitude to Sadhna's sasural, it could be detrimental to Sadhna herself? She's married to Alekh now, its all over, there's no turning back. But it doesn't look like Mamaji even realizes or bothered to think practically. He's just entangled in his baseless emotions.
I've always noticed that after Mama's visits to Sadhna, shes always left confused, complicated, hurt and upset. Sadhna loses focus when it comes to Mama, and it messes up her life and everything she's worked so hard for. Yes, its true she didnt get what she wanted... but atleast one positive thing that has come out of all this is that her life with Alekh is not all that bad. (I wud say its great!😉) Mamaji is so presumptious assuming that she must be so unhappy. But from what I've seen, Sadhna is always happy... except post Mama's visits.
And another thing that is boggling my mind is that, what is Mama trying to prove by selling his selfesteem to get money to repay Sadhna... who's purpose wasn't this, and Mama knows it. Yet he goes and does such an idiotic thing, which will only make Sadhna feel more indebted?! And on top of it, its not going to erase the bad rumour that he sold his daughter for money. People will still say the things they say. He's not going to go walking around door-to-door assuring everyone that he repaid Sadhna. No one cares. The damage is already done. He needs to learn to live with it and move on, instead of making his and everyone around him miserable. Esp poor Sadhna's
And last but not the least... I just love how Alekh is focused on Sadhna and only Sadhna. His mind is never diverted... i like it, i like it!😆 Sadhna needs to learn a thing or two from him!😉
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