hi can anyone give me some advice
i like this lad but i doesnt know if the lad likes me and his frnds annoy him by saying stuff about me and him and wot i want to do is ask him out but im scared that he mite say no so wot can i do to ask him out i dont know his feelings but im good friends with him i think he know how i feel about him but give me some advice to ask him out
please give me some advice
Edited by girlie18 - 18 years agoWell you can advise ur friend to take step one at a time. First make friends with him, if she already isnt and try to find his feelings towards her. If he is intersted in her or not.... things like that. If she knows his feelings i think there might b noe problem in asking him out. 😊 Hope this will help.
I suggest you be your usual self and be friendly with him. Ask him casually if he would like to join you for a movie and then a lunch. Or invite him over to your place for a snack if your parents are OK with it. But don't invite him in any secluded place or show any eagerness that you are overly interested. Keep calm.
If you have a common friend, then request him or her to gauge the situation and find out if he is interested in you in being more than a friend.
Girls going all out for a guy sometimes can be a major put off for guys. So take it easy and leave the chasing to him, unless you are sure of yourself.
And don't neglect your studies or whatever it is that you are doing. That is what is going to pay off finally. If you are good at what you do, guys fall over each other to please you.