Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl
For me it's difficult to talk about Vidya and madhav without understanding their history. When Vidya supposedly put in the efforts, madhav drowned himself in work. And when madhav tried to make it work, Vidya was too into kaveri. Their relationship is is doomed. But if you are married for 25 years, and do not want to essentially seperate, you gotta do something
It seems like both of them dont want to make it work but are forced by family to do so.
But they cant continue a farce forever.
Madhav is clearly at fault because he had one woman in his life and then married V clearly out of kaveri pressure.
Probably along the way he did come to respect and value her but their equation has never been warm and loving.
I understand Vidyas pain in that its not easy to accept a step child no matter what the circumstances. But she chose this life. She cant hold on to bitterness forever. She made a baby with Madhav too. So she cannot hold his past against him after choosing to be with him and have a child with him.
Theres no harm if she's choosing her self respect and has decided she no longer needs to be a wife to him and wear MS, sindur etc.
But she cant flip back and go all melodramatic saying only madhav can apply sindur etc. she learned he was missing and continued to dance and do shaadi prep and now she's acting as if she's bechaari .
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