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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: Divya294

So moved with your story. Kudos to you for brsaking the society barriers and fighting all the odds to win you love with the approval of family šŸ‘šŸ¼ šŸ‘šŸ¼

Lets see with how much sensitivity the show takes this topic ahead and if comes up with real life issues and problems of marriage in future or not.


Hahahaha. Thank you for your kind words but honestly, someoneā€™s gotta give in these situations. My parentsā€™ reasons were flimsy so it was easy to stand against it but when you love your parents, itā€™s hard to see their faults. I get Rahulā€™s disappointment with TanJay, having experienced it myself. Bagaawat bhi isliye samajh aati hai.


My parents were never confrontational or rude to even a fly so I donā€™t connect with the crap MWG family spews. My husband and I were together for more than a decade before we even told my family but we had had a conversation in our early days that neither of us would accept any disrespect. Which is why I donā€™t connect with Mauli. You have a loving partner who cannot stand your disrespect but tumhe poccha banne ki aadat hai.

Something I learnt is that in an Indian family with love marriage, damaad ki problem ends with the wedding and bahuā€™s problems start with a wedding. Toh, fingers crossed for Mauli because Tanvi is gonna get worse, now that sheā€™s up against the wall.

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: Divya294

Majanta had love marriage they already knew it. Rahul and Rati too were getting a love marriage only though equally supported by the families but all these hypocrites including the sade chachu were more than happier for it. Swara too mentioned in the initial episodes itself that Vaibhav had a love marriage with their consent. So how come he even dare to mention that love marriages are not being the practice of their house ?? You have got the best of the partner ever without making any efforts doesn't mean you will keep finding faults in other's freedom to chose their partners. Cutie chachi please keep him in check with your 2.0 versionšŸ˜“


These idiots keep changing their statements and prathas at their will and wish, however it's convenient for them.

Seriously, choosing a life partner is everyone's right.

Kahan Likha hai that arranged marriages never disintegrate...so many women silently suffer in arranged marriages... and nowadays many break it too...Ma baap are also humans.. har want woh sahi ko pehchan nahi sakte..

These idiots were arranging Mini's wedding and if not for RauLi's interference, Mini would be married to a monster.

Bhaad me jaye inke prathas..

And for Sadu chachi... I hope Mini and Golu both fall in love with someone smiley36 Bada Aaya pratha samjhanewala

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Posted: 3 months ago

Of course koi shak nhi šŸ˜„šŸ˜„

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Yes agreed credit to Raina for fighting for her love and staying strong but I feel ye har doosre ghar ki kahani hai humare society mein.But glad times are changing and I believe families will be a lot more open in the future regarding love marriages.

Raina is an inspiration. Yup it's good times r changing & families r becoming open minded.

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel


Hahahaha. Thank you for your kind words but honestly, someoneā€™s gotta give in these situations. My parentsā€™ reasons were flimsy so it was easy to stand against it but when you love your parents, itā€™s hard to see their faults. I get Rahulā€™s disappointment with TanJay, having experienced it myself. Bagaawat bhi isliye samajh aati hai.


My parents were never confrontational or rude to even a fly so I donā€™t connect with the crap MWG family spews. My husband and I were together for more than a decade before we even told my family but we had had a conversation in our early days that neither of us would accept any disrespect. Which is why I donā€™t connect with Mauli. You have a loving partner who cannot stand your disrespect but tumhe poccha banne ki aadat hai.

Something I learnt is that in an Indian family with love marriage, damaad ki problem ends with the wedding and bahuā€™s problems start with a wedding. Toh, fingers crossed for Mauli because Tanvi is gonna get worse, now that sheā€™s up against the wall.

Ur story is a true inspiration šŸ˜ šŸ˜. Rahul's disappointment & bagawat both makes sense. Mauli ki mahanta Rahul ko hi nhi samajh aati to hume kya hi samajh aegi let's just accept it that she's gonna be the same for this crap family.

This is very true again. I really hope Rahul does smthg regarding this cos Mauli isn't that's for sure. So it's all upto Rahul now to tackle his crap mother. I feel he'll definitely decide to leave the house let's see.

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: rekha_crm


These idiots keep changing their statements and prathas at their will and wish, however it's convenient for them.

Seriously, choosing a life partner is everyone's right.

Kahan Likha hai that arranged marriages never disintegrate...so many women silently suffer in arranged marriages... and nowadays many break it too...Ma baap are also humans.. har want woh sahi ko pehchan nahi sakte..

These idiots were arranging Mini's wedding and if not for RauLi's interference, Mini would be married to a monster.

Bhaad me jaye inke prathas..

And for Sadu chachi... I hope Mini and Golu both fall in love with someone smiley36 Bada Aaya pratha samjhanewala

Whi to these ppl & their convenience wali prathas šŸ˜£šŸ˜£

Thank God Rauli interfered & Mini is saved. Girl definitely deserves better.

Ye sadu chachu ka muh band krne ke liye hi I want Golu to fall seriously for that divorcee bhabhi maja aega uski shakal dekhne mešŸ¤£šŸ˜‚

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: rekha_crm


These idiots keep changing their statements and prathas at their will and wish, however it's convenient for them.

Seriously, choosing a life partner is everyone's right.

Kahan Likha hai that arranged marriages never disintegrate...so many women silently suffer in arranged marriages... and nowadays many break it too...Ma baap are also humans.. har want woh sahi ko pehchan nahi sakte..

These idiots were arranging Mini's wedding and if not for RauLi's interference, Mini would be married to a monster.

Bhaad me jaye inke prathas..

And for Sadu chachi... I hope Mini and Golu both fall in love with someone smiley36 Bada Aaya pratha samjhanewala

These lot can't be trusted for fixing marriages ek toh Minni barbaad hone se bach gayi credit to Rauli,same case with Manisha with that JCB guy in the past and ab Rahul and DN wala case bhi ho inko sahi jagah pe galat insaan ke saath shaadi karane hi aata hai.Shaadi karana toh rehn do tumlog.Pratha nibhani hai toh sirf love marriages wale hi pratha nibhao arrange marriage tumhare bas ka nahi.

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Whi to these ppl & their convenience wali prathas šŸ˜£šŸ˜£

Thank God Rauli interfered & Mini is saved. Girl definitely deserves better.

Ye sadu chachu ka muh band krne ke liye hi I want Golu to fall seriously for that divorcee bhabhi maja aega uski shakal dekhne mešŸ¤£šŸ˜‚

Pratha kam andhvishwas jyaada hai inka

Agreed thanks to Mauli Rahul and Guddi trio Minnie was saved and also thanks to Manoj also he prevented his sister marriage from that JCB guy in the past.Inke arrange marriage ke chakkar mein puri life ki barbaadi arrange ho jati dono ki.

I want it too dekhne mein maza toh aaiga.

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Posted: 3 months ago

We're finally at the end of this track. Seems to be a bit more on Monday so I'll save my final thoughts until then. Rati's truth is finally out in the open and as expected she revealed Vaibhav's part in this. I'm extremely disappointed that it was only Ajay who scolded him for what he had done - he's definitely holding his son accountable while the rest just continue to yell at Rati. She rightfully reminded him that the whole wedding plan was his idea, not her's. She just ended up taking it forward. There was a slight shocked reaction from Rahul upon hearing this information and so I'd like to think he's hurt by this. We haven't seen his full reaction to this and I'm pinning my hopes that he doesn't let us down.

Now Vaibhav isn't the only one not taking accountability - Janki ma is at the top of this list. She pivoted so much during this episode that you have to now ask - what exactly was her problem with Rahul and Mauli. Look, she saw this happening before Jyoti and was immediately concerned that this would cause a fight between Manoj and Vijay. We kept on this reasoning for a long time but then we pivot to - Vijay and Tanvi will never accept the relationship. These are two different things. And to make matters worse, sitting on her high horse questions why Vijay and Tanvi have an issue with Mauli being a divorcee when she doesn't. Girl - you knew they lived each other before they even confessed and proudly said you were not going to step in. You let Rahul get engaged to Rati and not you want to have a voice?? She was part of the problem right from the beginning but is refusing to take any responsibility for it. We would not have been in this situation if she had just taken this stance earlier - and both Manoj and Jyoti reinforced it. The amount of flipping and pivoting she can do is just amazing and no offense, she is the master manipulator of the house.

As for Mauli, there was zero need for her to apologize. We need to stop this narrative of "women standing up for themselves" is equal to going against someone or causing them pain. Mauli isn't fighting for her happiness to be rude, she's doing it for her own self respect. If she can fight for everyone else's happiness, why can't she fight for her own - it's not being selfish. As much as I would like to see this change in her, I'm keeping my expectations low. FL on these shows are built to be people pleasing and self sacrificing- as to somewhat portray what the ideal women should be but it's out of touch with the real world. Maybe with Rahul's help she can find a way to balance this out but I'm not expecting much.

Now Rahul, thank goodness he's here. He rightfully calls out the whole house for still not accepting their relationship (I mean what more can they do) and at this point is no longer angry with his mother but more amused. I'm extremely glad that Rahul pointed out to Mauli that Tanvi still is not on board and if she was still adamant on getting everyone's blessing. It's a question that needs to be asked. Wedding preparations are underway and there is a huge chance of Tanvi never agreeing to this union. If we get to wedding day and she's still not on board, with Mauli bend on her hopes and still marry Rahul? Or will she cave to the pressure?

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Posted: 3 months ago

Originally posted by: rekha_crm


These idiots keep changing their statements and prathas at their will and wish, however it's convenient for them.

Seriously, choosing a life partner is everyone's right.

Kahan Likha hai that arranged marriages never disintegrate...so many women silently suffer in arranged marriages... and nowadays many break it too...Ma baap are also humans.. har want woh sahi ko pehchan nahi sakte..

These idiots were arranging Mini's wedding and if not for RauLi's interference, Mini would be married to a monster.

Bhaad me jaye inke prathas..

And for Sadu chachi... I hope Mini and Golu both fall in love with someone smiley36 Bada Aaya pratha samjhanewala


The Mini incident is what I still donā€™t understand. What if Vicky was a stand up guy but Mini just didnā€™t want to get married to him? Tab bhi zabardasti shaadi kara dete?!


There is a difference between arranged and forced marriage, no? More than half of us Indians come from austere families lekin aise toh shaadi nahi karaate! My sister/cousins rejected hundreds of guys on matrimonial sites, met a few of them and if they refused - for whatever reason - the parents accepted it. Arranged marriage means that parents figure out who you might like, not that pehle dikhe gadhe se shaadi kar lo. Chennai Express thodi na hai. And these people are educated, upper middle class-middle class people.

Uske upar se, why believe some new guy who you donā€™t even know instead of your own daughter?! Proof kyun chahiye tumhe? You are the court? There is literally just responsibility and familiarity between the parents and their children, not love.

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