Benefit of Doubt

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

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Originally posted by: rysohini

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

Originally posted by: rysohini

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

Will answer in detail later. Busy trying to satisdy tarki TMW in my FF currently.

Akhir aap bhi Ani ke side le hi liya?

You can love him, you can hate him but you just can't ignore him - blame it on the puppy eyes

Originally posted by: Anusha16

Will answer in detail later. Busy trying to satisdy tarki TMW in my FF currently.

Akhir aap bhi Ani ke side le hi liya?

Beautifully articulated! I to agree 💯. Especially reasons for Ani not declaring his love for J openly and why he doesn't call off his wedding with Arshi!!

It's time J wakes up and stands for Ani.

Originally posted by: rysohini

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

Such a big post!!! And I agree to it mostly!

When you say he believes in mutual consent for accepting his marriage with Jhanak, should he not also consult her before fixing her marriage with Rahul? I know Jhanak has given him wrong signals about Rahul which gives him that confidence but he has gone and discussed. A10 year plan with an almost stranger( Rahul) but not confided in jhanak even once!!😜
Maybe he was waiting for the exams to get over? It’s all messed up..

Hehehhehe, yes became a long post , padhai karni padegi, dekho J bhi padhai kar rahi hai

In his eyes, he is giving her the biggest surprise and gifting her , her biggest happiness ! He has not an ounce of doubt that this will make J happy !

Two episodes back, J dropped her guard and to it cover it up she mentioned "yes I love Rahul". Bbas aur kya, babu nikal pare hai , J ko uske khushiya dilwane. Aur J ke khushi mein khush hone! Plus Rahul is not a stranger to J, he is her best friend !

In Ani's eyes, he is doing punya of making two estranged lovers unite

What I am disappointed with Ani about is, he saw R shit his pants at the mere mention of Tejas ! Toh mujhe laga tha Ani ko #LadkaPasandNehiAyega.. But ab makers are hell-bent on proving Ani to be 'dense', toh we would have to digest this version of Ani and sameto all his raita with the hope ki babu ki dimaag ki batti kabhi toh jalegi

Originally posted by: Edkv74

Such a big post!!! And I agree to it mostly!

When you say he believes in mutual consent for accepting his marriage with Jhanak, should he not also consult her before fixing her marriage with Rahul? I know Jhanak has given him wrong signals about Rahul which gives him that confidence but he has gone and discussed. A10 year plan with an almost stranger( Rahul) but not confided in jhanak even once!!😜
Maybe he was waiting for the exams to get over? It’s all messed up..

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Originally posted by: rysohini

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

Wow what a post girl. Who are you btw? You touched my heart by talking about Ani’s selfless love. Felt some uneasy feeling in my stomach and got tears. Man! Our Runak needs happiness yaar, our Ani needs happiness in his life.

Thank you Goddyji, my name is Sohini

Pehle toh my post was so long and wordy, I didn't think anyone would have the patience to read through it , so thank you

#RuNak will get the happiness they so deserve, we would just have to be a little patient with the hurdles that are thrown their way ! A love this pure and selfless, will always triumph against all evils

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

Wow what a post girl. Who are you btw? You touched my heart by talking about Ani’s selfless love. Felt some uneasy feeling in my stomach and got tears. Man! Our Runak needs happiness yaar, our Ani needs happiness in his life.