Essentially, this is a wretched cycle.
Armaan craved attention.
Ruhi keeps Love Bombing Armaan. It is a form of psychological and emotional abuse that involves a person going above and beyond for you in an effort to manipulate you into a relationship with them. It looks different for every person, but it usually involves some form of: Excessive flattery and praise.
This is what Ruhi does to Armaan. Her repetitive mentions of her eternal love (a brilliant strategy cuz she knows he has lacked it all his life), her calling them soulmates, Calling their love her world, calling him perfect (as in today's interview); all these are brilliant strategies. The fact that Ruhi always supports him, goes beyond limits to help him does make an impact. In a way she is showing that she is perfect for him and makes him guilty for not accepting it. As in she is actively psychologically manipulating an already flawed psyche and in return Armaan is actively playing with Abhira's mind.
Armaan who craved attention gets it for the first time in his life through Abhira. He has a case of twisted MSBP syndrome where he is the caretaker and Abhira is the child. Abhira gave him that space to play that role. At first, the attention he got was positive with Abhira. He kinda thrived. But then, when equation changed and all went against her; he kind of distanced himself from her choosing to keep the attention by becoming the victim and let her take the fall.
But he failed to understand that the source of that attention was Abhira herself. The moment he left her side; he became a puppet. No more voice from his side.
So he got frustrated with Abhira not playing along with him & his family, making him confused & finally breaking that equation that he fed off on.
So he is now losing his mind and has no clue why.
So essentially we have two twisted people destroying a young girl's life.
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