Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 23rd May 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 35

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Originally posted by: Susi26

True, as long as she was with poddars she kept doing manmarzi and they all kicked her out and accepted Ruhi for Armaan. Today Armaan’s words about Ruhi while talking to madhav are very true. She tried to handle things calmly from her side and hence no one noticed it unlike Abhira who only spoke loud and her actions were seen by everyone. Manish accepted to their rishta after hearing Armaan’s opinion on Ruhi. While his dyaan was on Abhira he got stumbled by hitting his foot (any significance 🤔) I can understand Abhira’s pain, it’s not easy that everything is happening right in front of her.. but Ruhi too suffered all these months. Now people bring legal marriage vs Ema into discussion.. whether it’s 2 days love or 10 months relationship, both the ladies have been affected the same way. If Abhira crying for loosing Armaan is because she loves him, then Ruhi’s tears for all these months by seeing both of them together is also because of her love for Armaan.. I don’t understand what’s so great about this man that both have fallen for him.

ruhi lost him for family and now family is giving her back. Ar went against family married abhira gave time to adjust by her and acceptance by them. Blackmail or manipulation by dadi abhira cant be accepted by dadi so he took dadis decision to marry ruhi now going with flow of peace. When both abhira ar have spoken about deal number of times and has nothing much to discuss on it both were Clear on it. Did ar give her hopes any day you will be my permanent wife or I will love you forever . Hd warned her not to intrude much that's all because of these situations only she didn't listen then in her zidd and ego. Now she is crying seeing all together. Did ruhi fight with dadi or go against them. Even when Vidya slapped she Kept calm. Ruhi silently accepted his family. Is this not what ar told ruhi initially that I didn't tell I am from poddars as I wanted to know and understand my family so that we can marry. Love is told by ruhi always. Ar wanted her as wife so what he promised is ijjat sath understanding trust and togetherness for themselves and for family. Is this not a shadi proposal for a man in joint family to a girl. As a woman we feel for abhira as she is in pain and lonely. Manish listened everything and came to an opinion. He is scared of ruhi left by ar but dadi already gave assurance next ar has to clear it. Abhira is in same place where ruhi was left initially. Manish hit a bench or flowerpot unknowingly and obstacle in between again which he will come over might be fufa ka kuch nonsense or dadis ego tashan . Abhira held him but he handled himself. I loved how ruhi told dadi that shd can't talk to Manish that way and very politely she said sorry too. Instead of aap mere b.nanu pe aise nahi kar sakte in high tone. There is way to convey or convince people. How she said i won't marry until you accept. This is regular thing shown in previous couples vs Manish. And none told Manish to accept that rista itx his own insecurity vs love on ruhi. Whole khaandan was gone and these oldies raised that left over orphaned kid as their own so his fear is natural. If something happens to ruhi he can't answer himself so he is scared of her future .

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

ITV is so predictable ..the FL will always have the last laugh ..no matter the miseries they heap on her ..but the larger issue is whether this track is just about who gets Armaan ..it should rather lead to a larger conflict that will open up more tracks ..either the truth about DS coercing Abhira for the divorce should come out and shake Armaan’s blind faith ..or Rohit has to return and that will change the family dynamics altogether ..at this point, even if DS learns that Armaan and Ruhi had a past, she won’t really care ..her life’s mission is now about breaking Abhira’s spirit ..gotta see which card the writers open up ..I am curious to see that ..!

For this track to be centred around breaking Armaan's faith on his family.......I wonder if Armaan is even important enough for the writers to weave this track around him.

Dunno...but this track might have some other purpose..... that's what I feel as days go by because let's not forget Armaan is replaceable; Abhira isn't.

And the writers are doing no favours by rendering him mute. Whatever solo stans he has is because the actor is an eye-candy and emotes with hsi eyes that makes us desperately interpret him. Rest toh he is mute.

Originally posted by: India_TV

i m so happy everything is happening ek saath...hopefully abhira knows about ruhi armaan ka rishta too....there r so many thing going on in her life...she all alone in this world....how can makers b so cruel....even sai had usha masi with her...abhira has no one.....and the envy she is facing from poddars...she will come out strong....

I just dont want this amaan with abhira.....but makers r going to give this thok peet kat seedha wala armaan to us.....

aaj bhi he did not seem happy with engagement...he was hopeful ki manish will not agree...he does not want to speak up....and amkers will make him speak up loud and clear.....dadi ruhi ke saamne.......that he wants to stay with abhira.....IMO..

Even I feel this is coming sooner or later but still I want Abhira to reject this man.

I feel Armaan will have a really bad breakdown . look at him his expressions clearly says he is holding his feelings his pain , he doesn’t want to marry Ruhi but still ready to keep his family happy and he thinks Abhira doesn’t want to stay with him ..he feels so indebted to his useless family and don’t want to become like his papa. ..once he realises and finds out the truth about divorce and Dadi’s deal ,the way he and his family treated Abhira all these days he will shatter and brk into pieces ,he will speak up loud and clear and go against his Dadi too for Abhira , he has done this before too for her but this time for himself. This is the only way they can make Armaan acceptable for Abhira I guess:

I guess Jholmates ka sach won’t come out now ,there will be another separation when it comes out ,may be when finally Armaan convinces Abhira or when he thinks to propose her it might come and may not propose out just like how Abhira couldn’t. The way they r stretching this 3rd wheel and leads confession makes me feel there won’t be any divorce this season.. as expected it didn’t happen now too.

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

What are the things that Ruhi did calmly for family that was not in her self interest and had positive outcome... Other than the conversation couple of days before with Charu for which she is also partly responsible for the situation... Not taking a stand all what ever ill happens in the family is not what a family person is abt... She had a good position in family.. She could have helped in matters like charu job etc

Ruhi's lack of calmness and more impulsiveness lead to all the mess in Rohit's, Armaan's and her own life.

In 2 minutes she decided Ar was her soulmate, then in another 2 minutes she decided he was lying and agreed to another rishta that day only.

She did so much for family...... No she only did to live close to Armaan, to impress him and maintain her image infront of family but on the other side fooled them.

She revealed Charu's secret impulsively so that no one will find about Ab's feelings towards Ar.

People don't like Ab because she shows how she is whereas Ruhi pretends in a certain way to impress everyone.

I am not denying Ab is not impulsive, she is but I cannot when some people and Armaan try to portray Ru as someone mature, samajhdar when she is not 1 % of it.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

But sudden change of heart wouldn’t it look so very random?

Shahi changed the whole Armaan character with what it started.

It was shown as a soft, empathetic character initially but they destroyed it completely.

I beg to differ here. Armaan was always shown as a moron, irrespective of who plays it.

Remove "em" and he is what we all know - a "pathetic" character.

He was responsible for Rohit's misery, for Akshara's death, and now he is also responsible for Abhira's misery.

He can be a dog for his family and lie at their feet, but he has no right to coerce anyone to act like him.

He likes Rooh-i because he manipulated her into marrying Rohit for his family. And Rooh-i being another buffoon, accepted it. She accepted his T&C and his narrative.

But then, their cringe-corner conversations did not stop. At least stay within your limits when you are pushing the person to move on.

Being the coward Poddar, Rohit, instead of confronting his brother and wife, threw a tantrum and disappeared for good.

Abhira wasn't imposed on Armaan, but he cleverly projected a narrative of being "Majboor" and coerced into being a caregiver for Abhira. Sorry, didn't Abhira give him the option of moving out of the marriage?? Did he take it??

He is angry for Charu, but Charu is as much an adult as Abhira. He is angry that she said, "Zabardasti" ki shaadi, so what is wrong? Circumstances coerced them into this marriage. He is angry that she left. She was supposed to leave anyway.

His issue is why Abhira isn't sticking to his T&C and narrative. Why isn't she doing what he has done and has been doing for his entire life?

There still was a minuscule chance that he would draw boundaries with Rooh-i and give his 100% to the legally binding marriage. But he chose to pet Rooh-i and her insecurities, leading her to this point.

No, Armaan has always been this way. Some kind of a sick, patronizing, selfish, manipulative toad who is not the prince Abhira deserves.

Vidya should take some styling lessons from cruel swarna.Vidya kaise boring shakal leke khadi rehti hai,unse 2 generation piche hokar bhi swarna unse zyada young dekhti hai.

Originally posted by: Natasha0404

Vidya should take some styling lessons from cruel swarna.Vidya kaise boring shakal leke khadi rehti hai,unse 2 generation piche hokar bhi swarna unse zyada young dekhti hai.

Styling tips se zyada pati controlling tips deni chahiye........

Sahi kaha hai apne,pati ko kaise apne baash me rakhna chahiye iss matter mein humare swarna ji is expert.

In fact AA’s marriage is not a deal , Akshara got them married with all the rituals it’s Abhira ego made it a deal not Armaan , she wants to leave him then and there but it’s Armaan who forced her to go with him to his house, so the deal happened as she thought he is the reason why her mamma died and this girl never ever used this to manipulate or guilt trip him like babhi who keeeps manipulating and guilt tripping him agate she got engaged to Rohit and married him wife her choice . Armaan always accepted their marriage from the start but Abhria kept reminding him about the deal. Even in the court he wants Abhira to lie that their marriage is not forced. He clearly said he doesn’t love Ruhi but marrying to keep his family happy.
Biggest qualification one need to be Armaan’s wife and poddar’s Bahu is being a doormat and babhi being the stinkiest doormat fits well there along with her jholmate. Abhira will not take slaps as she doesn’t do stupid things like home wrecking. Abhira kaise fit hogi waha because she speaks truth , she can’t let the beti’s in the house suffer, she stood for Charu’s studies and everyone accepted the change , she n Armaan stood for krish’a career n his dreams. Made Vidya realise how stupid and selfish she is for treating Armaan as sauthela all these years , now for keeping Armaan happy she sacrificed all her happiness . She genuinely cared and accepted V and M as maa and papa .

But yeah right still Ruhi is the one who did everything in that house
Vidya and Dadi would have slapped her again and kicked her out of the house if she knows why Rohit left. Best Bahu doormat award goes to Ruhi Birla the manipulative lusty Queen. 🥇