Ani's challenge

Arshi: In last two episodes, Arshi has been raising the right questions. Would Basus hv accepted her as their daughter in law if she behaved exactly like Ani. For that question, even Chhoton had to accept the argument.

There are definitely certain things that I would hv loved to see. Arshi, inspite being so called famous artist, have never shown having male coleagues which looks unfathomable. In a very short career of J, she had major encounter with male coartists, but not Arshi. How is that posble? If it was comparison, like Ani not feeling jealous abt Arshi mingling with all genders, but does with J, then it indicates that he loves J. Also, possibly has taken platonic relationship with Arshi as love.

Does Arshi love Ani? I feel it was always a relationship of convenience for both, not love. Same class status etc. But with being together for so many years, Arshi is somewhat attached with Ani and more so with idea of marriage with him. However, with J entering the scene, for Arshi, it is more of a game of winning, just like she wanted to win the dance competition in Kashmir. It is the hope of winning game (of hving Ani) is what keeping her in relationship. With time, she may go nasty, to make J loose this game.

Ani: there was a post about who loves the other more? Ani or J? For me, it is Ani who loves J, a little more than J loves him. J, with time has become meaning of Ani's life. There are high chances that Ani will not survive separation from J.

J: J does love Ani, but she loves other things too. J immensely loves Appudi. J loves dance. J thinks about doing nothing wrong to thers. For J, 'sanman' also matters.

Ani's challenge: With so many other distractions, like not wanting to do wrong with Arshi, J will try to sacrifice her love. Also, thinking about her sister's husband as her own is morally wrong for her. Ani does not care about Arshi's feelings now and will not think of morality going forward. J cares about the family of Ani because she does not hv any of her own. If, she remaining out of equation, keeps Ani with his family, she will sacrifice her love. Hence, Ani's challenge will be to getting J to confess her true feelings. We might witness him wavering between aggresive beast mode to broken down mode in the process.

Arshi has strictly been a One Man Woman

It has explicitly been shown by makers that Anirudha has not just been Arshi's 1st choice but her Only choice

She hasn't paid even slightest of attention to any other guy expect Anirudha even after her being most eligible girl for many high profile boys

While it's obvious that she might have encountered men including co artists who would have shown interest In her but it's certain she would have rebuked all of them and that too strongly bcz she does has a strong personality/position specially in this regard

While we can call out Arshi for many things but she has been completely loyal to Anirudha in every manner

Now it's other thing that Ani isn't much emotionally attached to Arshi so he wouldn't be this affected/insecure in case he would have seen her with any co-star also he knows what place he exactly holds in Arshi's life and also knows that Arshi never paid attention to any other person except him which also increases his already high self esteem/confidence

Another thing is that he doesn't worries abt Arshi bcz he knows she is strong enough/comes from a strong background so nobody can even think of exploiting her

Things are totally different in case of Jhanak for Anirudha- he is most attached to her emotionally and everything about her affects him the most, in addition to that he is insecure abt Feelings Jhanak has for him/the place he holds in her life

He isn't sure whether she even likes him or wants to stay with him and has misconceptions regarding her having feelings for someone else and wanting to spend her life with that person

Ani has borderline male ego issues, he can't tolerate Arshi being so much loyal to him even after him not doing much for her, being a high profile girl whereas Him even risking his existence for Jhanak who is rejected by society in every manner is not enough for Jhanak

Of course the worry factor is also extremely important in this case

He ofcourse knows Jhanak isn't actually a characterless girl to do compromise/give favours for her career or keep multiple male partners at a time

What he fears is that may be People like Aditya kapoor would use her like her mother was used and spoil her life as he feels she is quite naive which she is plus she isn't that strong/doesn't has strong background unlike Arshi

Hence we see even though Jhanak was uncomfortable all along still she never rebuked Aditya and his advances kept increasing- touching her inappropriately, indirectly asking for One night stand, holding hand without consent, entering her room at late night, praising her beauty and saying he would spend his entire life with her, drinking in her room and offering her to drink as well and lastly intimidating her by getting close to her thereby making her shake in fear and had Anirudha not reached there on time he would have even molested her

Jhanak said that Ani wouldn't have reacted that way had he seen Arshi in that situation but the fact is that Arshi wouldn't have been in that situation in first place bcz of her nature and background

Ani wasn't just angry out of Jealousy but also concern for Jhanak

And he wasn't angry bcz he felt that she was having One night stand with Aditya Kapoor, he knew she was only talking with Aditya but the fact that she allowed A lusty molester like him inside her room at late night, shared most secret information about her life with him(he doesn't know the context), even allowed him to drink in her room instead of strongly rebuking him, somehow destroyed the image he had made for Jhanak in his heart, it also destroyed all the expectations he had that Aditya can never try to get close to Jhanak as she wont allow him to, hence his heart along with all the dreams he had seen with Jhanak was broken and He showed his worst side to Jhanak

Lastly I'm not saying that Jhanak is not a one man woman, she is true blue definition of one man woman as no person has ever touched her heart body mind and soul except Ani till date nor can anyone do so in future, she would die but not let anyone except her husband Ani who has been and will remain only love of her life to come close to her

What I'm saying is that she is naive and isn't as confident as Arshi/doesn't comes from a strong background unlike Arshi to fight against lusty creeps like Aditya Kapoor hence Anirudha behaves differently in her case apart from of course having much deeper feelings for Jhanak which he thinks is one sided

Originally posted by: Rancho12345

Arshi has strictly been a One Man Woman

It has explicitly been shown by makers that Anirudha has not just been Arshi's 1st choice but her Only choice

She hasn't paid even slightest of attention to any other guy expect Anirudha even after her being most eligible girl for many high profile boys

While it's obvious that she might have encountered men including co artists who would have shown interest In her but it's certain she would have rebuked all of them and that too strongly bcz she does has a strong personality/position specially in this regard

While we can call out Arshi for many things but she has been completely loyal to Anirudha in every manner

Now it's other thing that Ani isn't much emotionally attached to Arshi so he wouldn't be this affected/insecure in case he would have seen her with any co-star also he knows what place he exactly holds in Arshi's life and also knows that Arshi never paid attention to any other person except him which also increases his already high self esteem/confidence

Another thing is that he doesn't worries abt Arshi bcz he knows she is strong enough/comes from a strong background so nobody can even think of exploiting her

Things are totally different in case of Jhanak for Anirudha- he is most attached to her emotionally and everything about her affects him the most, in addition to that he is insecure abt Feelings Jhanak has for him/the place he holds in her life

He isn't sure whether she even likes him or wants to stay with him and has misconceptions regarding her having feelings for someone else and wanting to spend her life with that person

Ani has borderline male ego issues, he can't tolerate Arshi being so much loyal to him even after him not doing much for her, being a high profile girl whereas Him even risking his existence for Jhanak who is rejected by society in every manner is not enough for Jhanak

Of course the worry factor is also extremely important in this case

He ofcourse knows Jhanak isn't actually a characterless girl to do compromise/give favours for her career or keep multiple male partners at a time

What he fears is that may be People like Aditya kapoor would use her like her mother was used and spoil her life as he feels she is quite naive which she is plus she isn't that strong/doesn't has strong background unlike Arshi

Hence we see even though Jhanak was uncomfortable all along still she never rebuked Aditya and his advances kept increasing- touching her inappropriately, indirectly asking for One night stand, holding hand without consent, entering her room at late night, praising her beauty and saying he would spend his entire life with her, drinking in her room and offering her to drink as well and lastly intimidating her by getting close to her thereby making her shake in fear and had Anirudha not reached there on time he would have even molested her

Jhanak said that Ani wouldn't have reacted that way had he seen Arshi in that situation but the fact is that Arshi wouldn't have been in that situation in first place bcz of her nature and background

Ani wasn't just angry out of Jealousy but also concern for Jhanak

And he wasn't angry bcz he felt that she was having One night stand with Aditya Kapoor, he knew she was only talking with Aditya but the fact that she allowed A lusty molester like him inside her room at late night, shared most secret information about her life with him(he doesn't know the context), even allowed him to drink in her room instead of strongly rebuking him, somehow destroyed the image he had made for Jhanak in his heart, it also destroyed all the expectations he had that Aditya can never try to get close to Jhanak as she wont allow him to, hence his heart along with all the dreams he had seen with Jhanak was broken and He showed his worst side to Jhanak

Lastly I'm not saying that Jhanak is not a one man woman, she is true blue definition of one man woman as no person has ever touched her heart body mind and soul except Ani till date nor can anyone do so in future, she would die but not let anyone except her husband Ani who has been and will remain only love of her life to come close to her

What I'm saying is that she is naive and isn't as confident as Arshi/doesn't comes from a strong background unlike Arshi to fight against lusty creeps like Aditya Kapoor hence Anirudha behaves differently in her case apart from of course having much deeper feelings for Jhanak which he thinks is one sided

Words! ❤️🔥

I have written some of thoughts regarding Arshi too but unable to tag you. Do read that dear and let me know your response.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Arshi: In last two episodes, Arshi has been raising the right questions. Would Basus hv accepted her as their daughter in law if she behaved exactly like Ani. For that question, even Chhoton had to accept the argument.

There are definitely certain things that I would hv loved to see. Arshi, inspite being so called famous artist, have never shown having male coleagues which looks unfathomable. In a very short career of J, she had major encounter with male coartists, but not Arshi. How is that posble? If it was comparison, like Ani not feeling jealous abt Arshi mingling with all genders, but does with J, then it indicates that he loves J. Also, possibly has taken platonic relationship with Arshi as love.

Does Arshi love Ani? I feel it was always a relationship of convenience for both, not love. Same class status etc. But with being together for so many years, Arshi is somewhat attached with Ani and more so with idea of marriage with him. However, with J entering the scene, for Arshi, it is more of a game of winning, just like she wanted to win the dance competition in Kashmir. It is the hope of winning game (of hving Ani) is what keeping her in relationship. With time, she may go nasty, to make J loose this game.

Ani: there was a post about who loves the other more? Ani or J? For me, it is Ani who loves J, a little more than J loves him. J, with time has become meaning of Ani's life. There are high chances that Ani will not survive separation from J.

J: J does love Ani, but she loves other things too. J immensely loves Appudi. J loves dance. J thinks about doing nothing wrong to thers. For J, 'sanman' also matters.

Ani's challenge: With so many other distractions, like not wanting to do wrong with Arshi, J will try to sacrifice her love. Also, thinking about her sister's husband as her own is morally wrong for her. Ani does not care about Arshi's feelings now and will not think of morality going forward. J cares about the family of Ani because she does not hv any of her own. If, she remaining out of equation, keeps Ani with his family, she will sacrifice her love. Hence, Ani's challenge will be to getting J to confess her true feelings. We might witness him wavering between aggresive beast mode to broken down mode in the process.

That's my point which explained in my previous posts yesterday.

Originally posted by: xnbstar

Words! ❤️🔥

I have written some of thoughts regarding Arshi too but unable to tag you. Do read that dear and let me know your response.

Thanks dear, can you tell me where you have written I'm eager to read your thoughts, try tagging me again, if there is problem atleast give me link or screenshot if you don't mind or else there are so much posts in the forum (pages keeps running) I may not be able to find it.

Originally posted by: Rancho12345

Thanks dear, can you tell me where you have written I'm eager to read your thoughts, try tagging me again, if there is problem atleast give me link or screenshot if you don't mind or else there are so much posts in the forum (pages keeps running) I may not be able to find it.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5355108?pn=65

First one is on the last page and the second one on page no 34.

I can't tag anyone don't know why.

Originally posted by: Rancho12345

Arshi has strictly been a One Man Woman

It has explicitly been shown by makers that Anirudha has not just been Arshi's 1st choice but her Only choice

She hasn't paid even slightest of attention to any other guy expect Anirudha even after her being most eligible girl for many high profile boys

While it's obvious that she might have encountered men including co artists who would have shown interest In her but it's certain she would have rebuked all of them and that too strongly bcz she does has a strong personality/position specially in this regard

While we can call out Arshi for many things but she has been completely loyal to Anirudha in every manner

Now it's other thing that Ani isn't much emotionally attached to Arshi so he wouldn't be this affected/insecure in case he would have seen her with any co-star also he knows what place he exactly holds in Arshi's life and also knows that Arshi never paid attention to any other person except him which also increases his already high self esteem/confidence

Another thing is that he doesn't worries abt Arshi bcz he knows she is strong enough/comes from a strong background so nobody can even think of exploiting her

Things are totally different in case of Jhanak for Anirudha- he is most attached to her emotionally and everything about her affects him the most, in addition to that he is insecure abt Feelings Jhanak has for him/the place he holds in her life

He isn't sure whether she even likes him or wants to stay with him and has misconceptions regarding her having feelings for someone else and wanting to spend her life with that person

Ani has borderline male ego issues, he can't tolerate Arshi being so much loyal to him even after him not doing much for her, being a high profile girl whereas Him even risking his existence for Jhanak who is rejected by society in every manner is not enough for Jhanak

Of course the worry factor is also extremely important in this case

He ofcourse knows Jhanak isn't actually a characterless girl to do compromise/give favours for her career or keep multiple male partners at a time

What he fears is that may be People like Aditya kapoor would use her like her mother was used and spoil her life as he feels she is quite naive which she is plus she isn't that strong/doesn't has strong background unlike Arshi

Hence we see even though Jhanak was uncomfortable all along still she never rebuked Aditya and his advances kept increasing- touching her inappropriately, indirectly asking for One night stand, holding hand without consent, entering her room at late night, praising her beauty and saying he would spend his entire life with her, drinking in her room and offering her to drink as well and lastly intimidating her by getting close to her thereby making her shake in fear and had Anirudha not reached there on time he would have even molested her

Jhanak said that Ani wouldn't have reacted that way had he seen Arshi in that situation but the fact is that Arshi wouldn't have been in that situation in first place bcz of her nature and background

Ani wasn't just angry out of Jealousy but also concern for Jhanak

And he wasn't angry bcz he felt that she was having One night stand with Aditya Kapoor, he knew she was only talking with Aditya but the fact that she allowed A lusty molester like him inside her room at late night, shared most secret information about her life with him(he doesn't know the context), even allowed him to drink in her room instead of strongly rebuking him, somehow destroyed the image he had made for Jhanak in his heart, it also destroyed all the expectations he had that Aditya can never try to get close to Jhanak as she wont allow him to, hence his heart along with all the dreams he had seen with Jhanak was broken and He showed his worst side to Jhanak

Lastly I'm not saying that Jhanak is not a one man woman, she is true blue definition of one man woman as no person has ever touched her heart body mind and soul except Ani till date nor can anyone do so in future, she would die but not let anyone except her husband Ani who has been and will remain only love of her life to come close to her

What I'm saying is that she is naive and isn't as confident as Arshi/doesn't comes from a strong background unlike Arshi to fight against lusty creeps like Aditya Kapoor hence Anirudha behaves differently in her case apart from of course having much deeper feelings for Jhanak which he thinks is one sided

Very aptly put! To be honest, I sometimes feel bad for Arshi and at the same time get annoyed at the fact that such a strong outspoken and independent woman still is trying to salvage a relationship which is grossly one sided. Even though it may have started out of convenience, Ani should have still broken it up if he starts to feel anything for J by coming clean to Arshi. I feel thats what Arshi feels hurt about and second is this competition that Srishti has brainwashed her into. Its now about winning Ani from J. What a downfall it has been for her!

Jhanak on the other hand is naive and strong when she feels the support and care Ani, Chhoton or bodoma have for her. Its only when she is with them she is fearless in standing up for herself. Else becomes scared and too timid.
I feel she needs to truly feel she has someone for her or to realise she needs to stand up for herself regardless of others when she will be truly empowered.

Ani’s gradual process of falling in love with Jhanak is always tinged with the fact that he is deceiving Arshi. Even though Arshi has fallen drastically as a person, Ani still wronged her. Waiting for the day Ani would break it off with Arshi then only Jhanak might be truly able to look at Ani as any other than her sister’s fiance. Ani needs to understand that. He can’t have best of both.

Just passing by from fourm and read your post.

Well I am not viewer of J bu see some clips on insta..

I have seen one clip sometime ago that Arshi tried to break relationship but Ani resist her and J also there. So if this is the exact scenario I am sorry but Ani and J are wrong here..

If you feel for each other why doing sacrifice drama.. Just acept it and don't make others life confusing. Just let that lady move on ..

Scrafice use kehte hai ki uske baad kuch bhi ho jaye aap limit me raho and Ani and J keep crossing limits and all blaming Arshi is wrong.

Arshi was bad so many times in past but come on now leads are doing wrong.

Some are leads but it doesn't means they are always right

Originally posted by: Rancho12345

Arshi has strictly been a One Man Woman

It has explicitly been shown by makers that Anirudha has not just been Arshi's 1st choice but her Only choice

She hasn't paid even slightest of attention to any other guy expect Anirudha even after her being most eligible girl for many high profile boys

While it's obvious that she might have encountered men including co artists who would have shown interest In her but it's certain she would have rebuked all of them and that too strongly bcz she does has a strong personality/position specially in this regard

While we can call out Arshi for many things but she has been completely loyal to Anirudha in every manner

Now it's other thing that Ani isn't much emotionally attached to Arshi so he wouldn't be this affected/insecure in case he would have seen her with any co-star also he knows what place he exactly holds in Arshi's life and also knows that Arshi never paid attention to any other person except him which also increases his already high self esteem/confidence

Another thing is that he doesn't worries abt Arshi bcz he knows she is strong enough/comes from a strong background so nobody can even think of exploiting her

Things are totally different in case of Jhanak for Anirudha- he is most attached to her emotionally and everything about her affects him the most, in addition to that he is insecure abt Feelings Jhanak has for him/the place he holds in her life

He isn't sure whether she even likes him or wants to stay with him and has misconceptions regarding her having feelings for someone else and wanting to spend her life with that person

Ani has borderline male ego issues, he can't tolerate Arshi being so much loyal to him even after him not doing much for her, being a high profile girl whereas Him even risking his existence for Jhanak who is rejected by society in every manner is not enough for Jhanak

Of course the worry factor is also extremely important in this case

He ofcourse knows Jhanak isn't actually a characterless girl to do compromise/give favours for her career or keep multiple male partners at a time

What he fears is that may be People like Aditya kapoor would use her like her mother was used and spoil her life as he feels she is quite naive which she is plus she isn't that strong/doesn't has strong background unlike Arshi

Hence we see even though Jhanak was uncomfortable all along still she never rebuked Aditya and his advances kept increasing- touching her inappropriately, indirectly asking for One night stand, holding hand without consent, entering her room at late night, praising her beauty and saying he would spend his entire life with her, drinking in her room and offering her to drink as well and lastly intimidating her by getting close to her thereby making her shake in fear and had Anirudha not reached there on time he would have even molested her

Jhanak said that Ani wouldn't have reacted that way had he seen Arshi in that situation but the fact is that Arshi wouldn't have been in that situation in first place bcz of her nature and background

Ani wasn't just angry out of Jealousy but also concern for Jhanak

And he wasn't angry bcz he felt that she was having One night stand with Aditya Kapoor, he knew she was only talking with Aditya but the fact that she allowed A lusty molester like him inside her room at late night, shared most secret information about her life with him(he doesn't know the context), even allowed him to drink in her room instead of strongly rebuking him, somehow destroyed the image he had made for Jhanak in his heart, it also destroyed all the expectations he had that Aditya can never try to get close to Jhanak as she wont allow him to, hence his heart along with all the dreams he had seen with Jhanak was broken and He showed his worst side to Jhanak

Lastly I'm not saying that Jhanak is not a one man woman, she is true blue definition of one man woman as no person has ever touched her heart body mind and soul except Ani till date nor can anyone do so in future, she would die but not let anyone except her husband Ani who has been and will remain only love of her life to come close to her

What I'm saying is that she is naive and isn't as confident as Arshi/doesn't comes from a strong background unlike Arshi to fight against lusty creeps like Aditya Kapoor hence Anirudha behaves differently in her case apart from of course having much deeper feelings for Jhanak which he thinks is one sided

♥️ loved everything you said about Arshi. There used to be a girl beautiful and from a good background, guys used to be scared to even wish her happy birthday 😂 Arshi reminds me of her…..she is the himalaya for guys, they can only like her from far but will be very scared to go near her 😂