Originally posted by: Mehersudha
there is no need to compromise and stay where we can't adjust or they can't give us respect. My point is always same. Any day it's adjustment and acceptance in shadi .egos attitude will rile more and self respect should be maintained. There is no need to go back and taunt or humiliate or get humiliated. If a relationship is not working leave it easily without thinking of baap maa or chachi. They didn't arrange that shadi it's the couple relationship first to be worked out. When there is no pati patni rista or wanting to have it there is no bahu too. It's just a guest relationship. Then stay as guest and get out of toxic bond easily out enjoy freedom. If she taunts of gives them back will they understand it as their mistakes and keep her on head. Na. She will be made more badtameez only as per them.
What you are saying is logically right. Giving back when needed (which Abhira did) and walking out when you can't any longer take the shit (which again Abhira did) is the right thing to do but the point is it's fiction and they want Abhira back to PH for TRP. For whatever reasons she came back her being back in PH was needed for yrkkh. Otherwise, they might have proceeded with Dadisa proposing Ruhi-Armaan's marriage alliance forgetting Abhira completely and letting go of her son.
In the same way, CVs can end the never-ending love triangle or jeth-bhabhi romance and stop showing Ruhi so vile and desperate for Armaan as if her life's only purpose is to marry Armaan but they won't as they need a grey-shaded third-angle who will be redeemed and then disappear later on.
@red who cares? Poddars addressing Abhira batameez makes them saints? If they can be vocal she can also be vocal. FL doesn't always have to be righteous, meek, mahan and ignorant towards those who disrespected her. Getting back even after seeing Dadisa keeping her ego aside or Madhav leaving his family isn't an ideal situation but after becoming a lawyer she has to see or deal with Poddars like coincidently her examiner was Sanjay and if they again tried to crush her the way Sanjay tried to do so should she take it all? Yeah she could have filed a complaint but be it real world/fiction power rules. Armaan's mother might have distanced herself from Poddars but what was the use? She is still remembered as a homewrecker by Dadisa, she is still between them even after dying/living. Her son Armaan is made a spineless puppet of dadisa without any personality of his own now. Letting it go, and distancing from the toxic environment is most suitable but sometimes closure is needed which Armaan's mother didn't get but Abhira will get writers will now show real progress in equations as deal marriage truth is out now. Abhira has nothing to lose now but Armaan and Ruhi have everything to lose now as per the storyline.
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