Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 20th Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 6

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Armaan it was a very simple question that Abhira

ask about being just a responsibility you worry about

It only require Haan aur Nah, what was so hard

about answering that question

Armaan don't worry, all Abhira fans dua hai, that she gets a nice jeevan sathi

Based on Pinecone’s update, things are becoming clearer with re to Armaan …he is clearly consumed by guilt, his lifelong partner, and is unable to move on with Abhira as a result ..what is repeatedly taking him back to Ruhi and getting him close to sacrilege even is the guilt that he has ruined Ruhi’s life somehow ..and Swarna adds ghee to the fire just before the murti scene..sensing that he is in a hopeless situation and cannot offer Abhira anything, he is telling her that he will pray for her to find him a good partner ….i don’t think he needed a therapist to tell him Ruhi is unhinged ./he sees it himself and I think that’s what the Mussoorie track has underlined ..he recognises that he is well and truly trapped in a situation partly of his own making and so he keeps submitting to her ..in a weird way, while the love no longer holds him to the past the guilt does …he is unable to keep himself from soaking up the love and affection Abhira offers him ..but he also sees that things are so messed up that he is not sure if there is any hope for them and for a way out for him ..this does not make for a strong man but this is who Armaan is and that is what his childhood has made him ..sad but true ..he is torn between love and guilt ..on why he feels a greater sense of guilt towards Ruhi and not as much for breaking his promise to Akshara, the answer is out there already ..he sees Abhira is a sorted and stable girl who can deal with life even if it has to be without him..but Ruhi’s increasingly crazy behaviour is showing him that she might just topple into an abyss from where there is no return if he dumps her ..so when he said that destiny might be giving signals at the temple, that was his hope and desperation talking ..wondering if there was a way out after all ..so only when Ruhi is taken off his head, will Armaan be able to freely move on ..he needs to liberate himself from his guilt of the past before he can embrace his future

If Ruhi, who grew up soaking in the love of her grandparents, can be given a free pass in the name of childhood trauma, I don’t see why a boy, who practically grew up thinking he was an outsider in his own home and needed to feel obligated for every scrap thrown his way, should be judged so harshly and ridiculed by the very same people who can empathize with Ruhi ....

But maybe confiding in Abhira can help him break free from this. She is smart, has her own take on things. Is broadminded too. But somehow he never confides in her or even thinks about it.

I think abhira will solve this she is the jugad queen today I think they gave hint .. she may be solve ar and ru matter and support ar in this

His own mothers back story can break the shackles to poddars esp dadi and ruhi. If her story is like dadi manipulated like ruhi doing now in similar parallels that way total existence of arman is kicked away. The family who gave him name and love he will throw he will just become a normal man to build a start again. In this abhira can help him. But that family pulls him again 🤣🤣

One thing is that he's not even allowing himself to feel like he could ever have a future with Abhira or might enjoy that if only he wasn't tied down by everything else. He does not even think of "what if" I had Abhira in my life in different circumstances etc. He seems to do certain things that are very domestic, Intimate without even realizing for Abhira and then he makes them seem really platonic and casual and other times he looks so hesitant to do simple things like puja rasam, or chunri etc. he's not even acknowledging Abhira as a woman. She's still only zimmedari . He sees himself as her caretaker but does not let her be his friend, confidant even though she keeps trying . She forced him to grieve Rohit for example - twice over. But most times he does not ket her in.

Agree!!!

Today's episode cleared armaan's pov & his dilemma. Swarna is selfish, not at all matured. To give ruhi happiness, she never thought about rohit earlier n now not thinking about armaan's life after he reveals his past to dadisa.

Waise armaan said he will pray for abhira to get a partner who loves her. But banda bhool gaya abhira already has one in her life, one who truly, madly, crazily, loves her. jisse bachane ke liye armaan ne abhira se shaadi ki thi. Is he manifesting yuvraaj back.

N armaan needs to take help from someone. Him being a loner has landed him in trouble, he needs a friend or a confidant who can guide him. He is lost at the moment.

For once, Armaan seemed to be fed with his situation with Ruhi. He can't even be happy completely because of the sword hanging over his head in the form of his bhabhi. Ab toh sirf shuruwat hai Armaan sa.. all your vaadas are going to come bite you soon. At least, for a change, Armaan looked affected with the closeness with Abhira.

So for all the bade bade dialogues, wigwali could not even take a stand for her dear granddaughter. What a . This woman is simply a waste of oxygen.. she can neither become Ruhi's nor will she let Abhira be happy.

See Armaan doesn't know what abira thinking or she is in love .. for him its a deal marriage in which abira herself did this deal as usual he is dumb and occupied with the space of cling past he cant think of abira right now and it feels cheated too

But may be viday gives and put some sense into Arman and tells what she is going through that may change Arman perspective

Lol ruhi is mg death on mg birthday she going to revel the identity of Arman so bring it on so much drama loaded and how they fit in Rohit in this

But one thing is sure Arman bad days on the way neither family nor abhira he will be treated very badly

Na izzat nahi pyar

And he deserves it