Slap Justified? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Krinya

Why adopt a dog agar alag rakhna hai toh?

So does the attachment of the dog or the owner goes away if they separate ? If vidya likes abhira she will continue to do so and abhira also won't stop caring for them if she's not living with them.

What's with the "heart break" ? Isn't vidya living without rohit ? right now she doesn't know ruhi & Arman are responsible for it . In normal circumstances also if the couple don't get along , they separate after months or few yrs toh kya mil and unki families depression ka shikar ho jaate hai? Ye sab chalta rehta hai shadi Mei so what ?

Abhira se shadi ka decision Arman ka tha.. Usko ghar laane ka decision Arman ka tha...apni family se sach chupane ka decision Arman ka tha..unhe dhokha Dena ka decision bhi Arman ka tha.. So Arman will tell the truth and anyways..why should he ? It's their personal matter. 1 saal rahe ya 6 months ya 6 saal ya kabhi alag na ho ..they can change their mind anytime

Who the hell is ruhi to decide divorce Kab hona chahiye?

Why can't Arman and ruhi tell the truth if it's so important ? apni family ki chinta arman se zyada abhira kyun kare ? Ye sab sach abhira hi kyu bole? Not just that , the truth about their so called soul love bec of which rohit left the house & presumed dead? There r many truths which ruhi only knows so why not start with that ?

i have adopted can also mean in my family someone else is taking care of it.

And coming to your point when adopting dog itself is wrong then how come contract marriage for 1 year is right.

Why will it not hurt ppl. Everyone do not change their bahu every year. It's not a coroprate job where ppl switch you get replacements.

That's the difference between a family and colleagues. If in a family i am permanent bahu they should tolerate me may be and invest time in teaching.

But if i am not even permanent bahu why should they get troubled for my mistakes. Why should they tolerate my tantrums. Why should they forgive me for mistakes like blaming head of the family.

Regarding ruhi and armaan i don't know what's stopping them but they anyways do not poke their nose in other's buisness like how abhira does. They do not act like i am self righteous, they do not act like ye meri family and outside they don't scream i am all alone. Iss duniya main koi nahi hai. Since abhira is doing all this my expectation are more from when she can blabber abt ruhi she can very well blabber abt her marriage.

Originally posted by: Krinya

All that is fine my dear but who knows what future holds for them ? Abhira & Arman may decide to take this marriage seriously , instead of 1 yr ..they got married legally in front of akshara , so they can't dissolve it ..the court also gives 1 yr time , divorces can't happen right away whatever the reason is..

My only question was why the onus of telling the truth is on abhira alone ? Arman being their son must be more concerned for his family's feelings than anyone else but he has been lying 🤥 since when , so is ruhi , they have commited far serious blunder but im sure when the truth is out , the blame will fall on abhira only.... I hope abhira realizes that the family might be hurt when they know the truth & she reveals it herself . Infact..expose the soul mates & leave with her head held high...

Yea anything can happen after one year.. they may a child also. Armaan is equally at fault. No doubt in it. The reason why Abhira is being questioned is because of her attitude and the way she speaks about people. She Now she has fallen for Armaan so her equation with other people is also changing. But few months back her behavior was totally different.. she was completely rude to people in that house especially the elders. So when she is a bhoj in that house according to her words, her words and behavior should not be loud right. I hope Abhira don’t fall into this family trap and comes out from the feelings she is developing on Armaan as I feel he is not a person who can go against his Dadi at any time.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Question is who is ruhi to get papers ? What right she has it's not about ab has courage or not or she has murder someone or not will she gets slap in future or not. I agree slap nhi karna chahiye tha.

I am not supporting ruhi getting divorce paper. But she asking armaan to divorce is not wrong vada kiya hai ladke ne. She has every right to know where his and her relation stands as her future is also dependent on this. If armaan constantly assures her it will be over and very next minute he caught touching abhira obviously a person who is waiting for him would definitely feel bad.

We all know rishta formats of kids of sisters are pitted against each other again next gen. So everyone knows at some point ruhi will marry armaan and their kid will be PL of next gen.

So ruhi asking clarity from armaan is not wrong. As it's not abhira's life she is spoiling she is saving her life from getting spoiled.

Yes she may seem wrong if we only look at the story from abhira's persepctive but over all her bringing divorce paper is not wrong as she needs clarity for her life. If armaan would have said no who knows she would have moved on and left PH. But armaan decided to two time instead of deciding what he wants.

Yes slapping is wrong.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Actors were keep on stressing on contract shadi in interviews. Respect the system of marriage first and next acceptance of relations. Whole family are accepting abhira happily. except dadi fufa are against her way Of dealing things not on abhira because when she is kept on threat they are praying for her they are not evil. Both ar and abhira are doing same contract shadi jaap. When he cant give her that status as wife he should just support her in studies and no need of leaning on her physically giving her butterflies. He should have kept that physical distance. Moreover he is aged man and abhira is young. Wont a man know how the girl is falling for him. He has mind on other things. For abhira if contract shadi no need to be a wife she could have stayed away from politics of house or giving warning to ruhi. Contract is a word to make ruhi have illusionary world and dreams more. Who is going to dump whom in this trikon dont know.

Yes true, and what if Ruhi today blurted out that their marriage is only for one year so I’ve given divorce papers to Armaan to make his life ahsaan and free from Abhira? Does Armaan have guts to confess why Ruhi has done that, no right.. Abhira doesn’t know about their relationship to bring out her truth.. the only reason she was silent and accepted her mistake is bcoz of trusting Armaan once again. I don’t know when she will come out of her illusions.

Originally posted by: Susi26

Yes true, and what if Ruhi today blurted out that their marriage is only for one year so I’ve given divorce papers to Armaan to make his life ahsaan and free from Abhira? Does Armaan have guts to confess why Ruhi has done that, no right.. Abhira doesn’t know about their relationship to bring out her truth.. the only reason she was silent and accepted her mistake is bcoz of trusting Armaan once again. I don’t know when she will come out of her illusions.

why she kept calm was ar promise on head. And she was prioritising ar promise to abhira make her independent. What if ar makes her pregnant,🤣🤣🤣 no deal no promises nothing ayyo he can royally say my wife my life and she goes away. I cant trust ar any day. He has nothing on anyone except dadi .

Originally posted by: Susi26

Yea anything can happen after one year.. they may a child also. Armaan is equally at fault. No doubt in it. The reason why Abhira is being questioned is because of her attitude and the way she speaks about people. She Now she has fallen for Armaan so her equation with other people is also changing. But few months back her behavior was totally different.. she was completely rude to people in that house especially the elders. So when she is a bhoj in that house according to her words, her words and behavior should not be loud right. I hope Abhira don’t fall into this family trap and comes out from the feelings she is developing on Armaan as I feel he is not a person who can go against his Dadi at any time.

@bold. This is what all of us want.

I agree to that..but they were not welcoming to her either ..in this scenario when Arman knew his family opposed his marriage , he shouldn't expose abhira to the daily taunts & fights , instead, just help her out finding a hostel or another house but then we wont have a show...the scenario is so messed up and they did it to drag for hundreds of episodes. As opposed to the opinions here , I don't see any glorification of the fl or abhira getting away with anything ..why we take this so seriously 🙄 whether she does this that a b c or x y z , there will always be ppl who will find fault in her ..for debate sake it's OK but faltu criticism just bec she is somebody's daughter is unfair.

We say telling the truth to not hurt feelings is the right way to go but it's not practical 99% of the times nor does it solve any problem . It leads to further complications who knows ? We will know only when we get there ..we judge characters for their intentions...that's why abhira or her truth won't hurt them as much as ruhi Arman affair truth and ruhi rohit marriage truth ..let's discuss when this actually happens

Originally posted by: Susi26

Yea anything can happen after one year.. they may a child also. Armaan is equally at fault. No doubt in it. The reason why Abhira is being questioned is because of her attitude and the way she speaks about people. She Now she has fallen for Armaan so her equation with other people is also changing. But few months back her behavior was totally different.. she was completely rude to people in that house especially the elders. So when she is a bhoj in that house according to her words, her words and behavior should not be loud right. I hope Abhira don’t fall into this family trap and comes out from the feelings she is developing on Armaan as I feel he is not a person who can go against his Dadi at any time.

ar could have got her home as wife but said i am taking care of her till she is independent. She could not have been taunted by dadi for being bahu nor blames. Instead she was kept as guest at home and slowly when they all accepted her they could have married them properly with their blessings. Same way abhira could have not given tests like bahu and observed everything staying as member in family. Instead of making her fall for him or that mental family who are controlled by dadi or fufa she could have thought her only dreams of career and helped others who are in need. This family is waste one day they flip taunt throw.Another day they hug her. Most important was she can't get ruhis equation. And abhira told them as dost not ar any day.

Omgggg Ruhi Birla has a RIGHT to ask a MARRIED man where their relationship will stand Ruhi Birla epitome of adultery and foolishness gets a freeloader pass in everything

See I am against domestic violence but there is a degree to which one can tolerate behudapan of a character. Ruhi crossed limit when she decided to be arbiter of divorce between AA which she has no business to do so. Further, she lied through her teeth to run behind AA and interfere in their relationship at a point when one of them was at their lowest.

But since I am against domestic violence, I will implore Ruhi to file case against all the poddars for torturing her and send some of them to jail. Then she can blackmail Arman further to do gulu gulu with her in lieu of dropping the case. The true feminist should reign over this family run by a matriarch.

All hail Ruhi the harbinger of divorce, the master manipulator, the gaslighter of Arman and the leader of true feminists!

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

See I am against domestic violence but there is a degree to which one can tolerate behudapan of a character. Ruhi crossed limit when she decided to arbiter of divorce between AA which she has no business to do so. Further, she lied through her teeth to run behind AA and interfere in the relationship at a point when one of them was at their lowest.

But since I am against domestic violence, I will implore Ruhi to file case against all the poddars for torturing her and send some of them to jail. Then she can blackmail Arman further to do gulu gulu with her in lieu of dropping the case. The true feminist should reign over this family run by a matriarch.

All hail Ruhi the harbinger of divorce, the master manipulator, the gaslighter of Arman and the leader of true feminists!

Before Ruhi files such cases, she should be aware that a lot of files will be cased AGAINST HER.

First: fraudulent marriage: Ruhi Birla only intended to stay married to be near to ex lover via ex-lovers brother.

Second: Mental harassment: Ruhi Birla harassing a MARRIED man despite being uncomfortable af, Ruhi Birla harassing his wife despite the wife repeatedly to stop interfering in their matters

Third: Vandalism: She broke Akshus portrait despite not being a Poddar family member. Her husband is dead so she doesn't have any right to break existing Poddar family and spouses objects.