Anupama putting her sins on others head

Anupama initially was looking like an innocent human

But as show went on she started turning manipulative and machiveelian and narcissit

Her narcissist methods started during Malvika time only- she knew vanraj trying to steal kapadiya empire by making love affair with depressed Malvika who was that time so mentally weak that she never understood vanraj manipulations. Depressed people are like Mlavika only if someone sweet talks shows some care they think its real so cannot expect Malvika to understand vanraj a new man in her life. But anupama knew that man for 26 years.

But she never informed anuj and GK kaka what vanraj doing with Malvika for many months till it was too late. Why because kapadiya wealth through vanraj will eventually go to shahs and her 3 kapoot kids? Is it not why she kept quiet? Also when anupama know why vanraj doing all this she could tell anuj stay with malvika do not come with me? But no she purposely made him wak off handing kapaditya empire to vanrj hand because Malvika is just not capable of handling such big empire so shes dummy leader anyways. All control with vanraj only

Next she gaslighted both Mlavika and Kavya. How she made Malvika to stay in Shah house when she knew vanraj has wrong intentions on anuj sister. When Kavya is married to vanraj who is Anupam ato decide Malvika a woman vanraj has set his eyes on should stay in his home. Who was she to decide when even Baaa did not like it nor Kavya?

Third gaslighting was that shahs are her mayka and baa her mother and hasmukh her father? So is vanraj her elder brother? When you have own mother kanta how can ex mom in law ex father in law be made mom dad and your ex hubby house become your mayka? This she did so that she can stay close to vanraj shah. Its all lies that she went to Shah house to meet her 3 kids no no. She was still busy serving vanraj, Baa and hasmukh only than her 3 kids after divorce.

Also after divorce is she wants to meet her 3 kids let her call them on sunday full day to kapadiya house and spend time with them and send them back no. Thats what divorced mothers all over world do they spend few days a week with their kids although custody may be with father vanraj. First i do not understand how all 3 kids stayed with vanraj why? Cannot atleast one or two go stay with anupama in her bachelor apartment than at kapadiyas? OK they are adults so stayed back in shah house is argument? And hence custody not given to anupama by court

So if they are so adult and do not really require spood and milk bottle feeding why was anupama going every day to shah house after marrying anuj? that too from 8am to night 10pm almost everyday instead of staying in kapadiya mansion? Anyways from 9am to 6pm both her sons were working and pakhi in college? So why was anupama going everyday from 9am to 10pm to shah house? to do what to meet her kids who were at work and college? Another gaslighting and lies from anupama

Fourth gaslighting by anupama is anupama lying to all in USA that she left anuj and adhya for their happiness. All pure lies. She could not answer anuj why she is always in shah house from 8am to 10pm and never there to take care of anuj and CA. So she ran off as her lies caught by anuj and pointed out openly. She had no answer so tried to blackmail him emotionally by saying shes leaving him and CA. She must have thought puppy and slave will ran and fall at her feet saying i am sorry i will never ask you even if you stay at shahs for full life day and night. But anuj never did that so anupama drama became ulta and she had to leave his house unwittingly. Now shes lying to yashdeep, beeji and everyone in spice and chutney that anuj left her CA abandoned her what a cunning woman and these fools believe her what a joke?

Fifth gaslighting was when anuj gave his marriage news. I am used to dhukh pain in life bt you be happy adhya be happy. Really woman you gave them immense pain all 3 years anuj and CA were with you never listened to one word of pati paremeshwar anuj ohhh i forgot for you only vanraj is God never cared for CA one day only your shah kapoots. Left them and ran off 5 years and you are lying to everyone you left them for their happiness lies you are saying all. Now you blackmail anuj saying i and my dhukh are constant etc emotionally blackmailing him so he leaves shruti and falls at your feet with his daughter and wealth to serve shahs and you all life.

There are many instances shes gaslighted anuj or CA and kapadiyas but lets leave it at that.

Anupama will easily defeat all polticians world over and business men in tricks. Baaaaaaa and vanraj too fail in front of her dhongi behaviour.

Atleast vanraj you know is vile and will do anything for money and power in life, Baaa too is vile spilling venom from mouth always all know, hasmukh is the smooth criminal in their family actually all think hes good but hes like anupama smooth operator

Anupama did not become her mother and brothers ever all life where she will be loyal to anuj or CA or kapadiyas ever or yashdeep and beeji

If anuj marries her again which is definite he and CA will remain slaves of shahs all life and will serve them all life monetarily or otherwise while anupama will spend full day at shahs

I would not be suprised if shahs try to kill adhya for getting kapadiya wealth in future and anupama saying they are innocent and did not do anything like when vanraj pushed anuj off cliff leaving him paralyzed

Hope adhik protects her from shahs as hes only kapadiya left on show

I believe something will happen to Anuj .. probably he will get into accident or maybe memory loss coming in the track.. not sure

This woman has been sitting around with evidence of her son's crime for days.

DAYS

At this point she has become an accomplice herself by hiding the evidence from the authorities.

How is this any different from Vanraj not coming out and openly giving up Toshu for his crime? I don't see any difference in so called acche mata pita's behaviour.

Why? Because it was Anuj's company that was ultimately responsible for the event? Because it would be his neck, his reputation that would get ruined? Because it would be him who would bear the loss?

If this had been Baa or Bapuji or even Vanraj's event, she would have caught Toshu by his throat and dragged him to court herself.

But just because it is Anuj, just because she knows he would never make the move to hand Toshu over until she says so, just because none of the Shahs are directly in line of fire, in danger of bearing the loss, she is keeping the evidence and 'waiting' for Toshu to 'repent'.

How stans justify this behaviour and call it love/innocence/maa ka pyaar I'll never understand.

Do kodi ki nikammi dhokebaaz joothi aurat hai Anupama like the rest of the Shahs.

So all fault in anupama no fault in anuj

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Js malvika small child that she need some one tell what is right or wrong

Why don't malvika herself what kind of person vanraj us

Malvka knew that vanraj cheated anupama so why did not malvika herself back out

Which husband talk about child just after marriage

Even if anupama sat yes to adoption but can't anuj understand by himself that adoption kr baat marriage ke agle din nahi Karni hai

No matter what relationship mother has with children but np one has right to tell a mother whether and when she should give priority to children

No mother will like it

Bache chahe jaise ho but koi bhi maa apni bachon ki buraai kabhi bhi doosre se nahi sunegi and that is reality

Any mother will say ki mere bache chahe .jaise ho tum Kaun hote ho mere bacho ko buraai karne wale

Maa apne bachon ko maar legi dant legi but koi bhi maa Bahar walo ko haq nahi deti ki kub use bachon milna chahiye ki nahi

Anuj going to maaya and saying ki main ab kabhi nahi aaonga anupama ke saamne maaya ke haath mehdi lagana use dawai Dena,

Going to meet vanraj secretly without informing anupama

Himself involving in Shah matter

Himself sending anupama to shah house and then blaming anupama for not giving priority to choti

Making anupama in guilt trip that Maine tum pe choti force kiya tumhe maa banna nahi tha

Giving false hope to Shruti

And moreover itne year se anuj ki choti ki misunderstanding door nahi ki instead of clearing misunderstanding of choti he too started blaming anupama without second thought.

He was not clear in. Her approach

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

Do kodi ki nikammi dhokebaaz joothi aurat hai Anupama like the rest of the Shahs.

I take my words back. Do kodi ki bhi value hoti hai. Ye uss layak bhi nahi hai. Itni bhi aukat nahi hai iski

Not telling anupama that what maaya Try to do with anuj

Going for .night walk with maaya

I am sure anuj already wanted a daughter but he could not adopt daughter as single male is not allowed to adopt female child

So he thought anupama se bhadiya nanny kaha milega thst is why he marry anupama so that he can adopt female child

Fact Is that anuj ne anupama ki weakness ka fayda uthaya

Anuj bolta to hai ko shah mut jaao but no difference between vanraj and anuj

Ek ko maid chahiye ek ko nanny

Both. Vanraj and anuj two timer .

Both speak harsh words to anupama and just blame .

Both cannot tolerate freedom of anupama

Both just want anupama should act according to their order

What wrong Anupama say that I go for ur happiness yes anuj is not happy with anupama he said ki shaadi mein jaldi kar dita. The way he is blaming anupama amd saying to anupama ki Dum ghuta hai yes ur not happy with anupama.

Even choti js not happy staying with anupama so what ever anupama is saying is true

Agar aise nahi hai them why don't anuj tell to anupama that u r thinking wrong we are not happy without u but he did not say such thing till now

So Anuj was wrong in talking about a kid so early after getting married to upma but upma wasn't wrong in talking about her ex family with Anuj during their 1st night after marriage ? Which woman does that ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What wrong Anupama say that I go for ur happiness yes anuj is not happy with anupama he said ki shaadi mein jaldi kar dita. The way he is blaming anupama amd saying to anupama ki Dum ghuta hai yes ur not happy with anupama.

Even choti js not happy staying with anupama so what ever anupama is saying is true

Agar aise nahi hai them why don't anuj tell to anupama that u r thinking wrong we are not happy without u but he did not say such thing till now

Because adoption is Not a transaction that can be instantly reversed if not happy. It is a relationship that both chose.

Even in a divorce, they give a cooling period to make things work, even in a custody case, they don't instantly break away, there is a process so that the change can be seamlessly accepted especially when children are involved.

Yeh nahin ki "aap khush nahin hain na, Chalo chod ke Chale jate hain".