Is it true no love Exists

https://youtu.be/aXu9zdcg4Ps

Do we really fall in love because we are told about?

I also feel there is nothing like love it's just attraction, attachment n care towards someone.

Ah, the eternal conundrum of love! While it's true that attraction, attachment, and care play significant roles in our romantic relationships, love has a knack for defying simple explanations. It's like a mischievous Cupid, sprinkling a dash of magic and irrationality into the mix. So, while we may not fall in love solely because we're told about it, sometimes love sneaks up on us when we least expect it, leaving us smitten and wondering what hit us. It's a delightful puzzle, don't you think?

Did love leave you smitten? 

On several occasions, yes.

I'm a hopeless romantic!

How come you haven't built a wall around your heart ? Vetted everyone at least 10 layers away from your heart?? 

Love is serious business minty

I have not watched the video you posted. 

@bold

Love exists in the world and the only Love I believe in in the whole world is a mother's love for her children and A child's love for their mother. All other forms of Love as you say is just an attraction, attachment and care towards someone which fade away with time, can't withstand the hurdles of life. 

If I have ever loved anyone in my life, it has been only my Mom and she has been the only person who loved me and loved me even at my worst. 

Love is very deep, it is deeper emotion than attraction, attachment, care and any other emotions in the world. I felt that deepest emotion called Love only for my Mom. After 10 th class I was preparing for Medical entrance staying so far away from my family, This was the first time I was away from my mom for so long, I was not myself, I was not the same person anymore. I felt like I was pulled away from my life and felt like life sucked out of me when I was staying away from my mom. She raised me and looked after me like a small baby until my 10 th class. I had already lot of home sick. At that same time my mom got Diabetes. I never saw my mom ever having even Fever by then, After I came to know she had diagnosed with Diabetes I couldn't bear it and broke down for the first time in my life. Yes Diabetes mellitus is a very common life style disease but for me it was a very big thing at that my tender age at that time. I wanted to leave my preparation and begged my family and my mom to allow me to stay with my mom in my home town.But they didn't agree as they thought Medical entrance preparation was important. This was the first time my studies got affected, my mental health got hit. But I could understand where they were coming from. But I was lifeless through out my preparation, felt like something was killed inside me. This feeling was definitely my Love for my mom nothing else. 

I always had this fear and anxiety about my mom's health. Unfortunately in 2nd wave of covid when my mom got hit with covid, it became bit serious and her oxygen levels(spo2) dropped to 85..She was admitted in HDU, the fear of losing my Mom made me had the biggest break down in my life on that day, the way I was wailing alone in my room and had the biggest break down while I myself was covid +ve I felt like I have no meaning /reason to live anymore without my mom if something happen to her. I literally felt my life was sucking out of me and couldn't bear the pain. This was nothing but love.

Love is a very deep emotion which I felt only for my mom in the whole world. And she has been the only person who feels the same emotion for me. 

My brother has similar love for my mom and my mom has such love for all her children. Whole her life she sacrificed her life, her body for her children and her husband, So I believe Love exists in the world and IMO Love = My Mom. 

Whatever emotional blackmail my mom does for me, it has been out of Love. Her love for me causes an immense anxiety in her about my future. She believes I need care/love/protection after my parents leave the world but I believe I don't need any man's care/love/protection. I'm self sufficient, I believe in self love, self care, self protection than any man's love, care, protection. This is where our ideologies clash and makes me move out of the house for the better mental health of me and my mom both. I'm slowly making her believe that a girl, for that matter any human needs Mental peace/good mental health, freedom, good physical health than the marital status. My mom slowly started to believe in my ideology looking at the endless unhappy marriages/divorces happening everywhere. So right now after convincing she is not forcing me to jump into any random marriage and letting me to decide for myself but still she wants what she wants like any other mother wants for her children. 

@TM 

Sorry I carried away too much.. When a topic about "Love" comes, I can go on and on about my Mom. I hope I didn't derail your thread. 

Edited the post to remove the horrible typos. 

I may or may not agree with your ideology in this post but I must say you write so well minty!

What you called Love here in your post, I call it Attraction (if you are explaining about romantic love in your post). 

In urdu poetry Love is described in 4 forms some girl posted it in ishqbaaaz forum.i vaguely remember it. Those 4 forms of love :1)Ishq 2) Mohabbat etc., I don't remember what she wrote exactly after that 😆.. Those 4  different forms of love are based on love for parents, love for friends, romantic love, some other love I don't remember. If possible I will search that post in ishqbaaaz forum written years back and post here😆