Q1. What sort of genuine efforts? Beg and beg a mother to give up her biological daughter? Or let that very mother share house with her where she can easily hit on her husband?
To begin with -
Not allowing ppl like Baa and Pakhi to taunt or bully the child
Making time for the child when the child had panic attacks.
Yes I know Toshu went through crisis and she had to be there. So I’m not debating that at all.
When aware of a biological mother, be sure with a DNA test, consult a lawyer on way forward. (The same Anupama bravely went through court proceedings when Dimpy’s ex husband felt name will be ruined..,but now when it came to choti Anu, court proceedings felt like a horrible procedure. Double standards right?)
She should have conveyed to the child she isn’t the reason for fights between her and Anuj
Obviously she shouldn’t have let Maya stay with her…who does that ya…that’s why it doesn’t feel genuine. You let a Kavya stay with you…didn’t you learn your lesson? How long are they going to show Anupama as naive yet Mahaan…
Instead of crying that mere Anuj depression mein chale jayenge, she should have consulted a councillor or therapist (there are grief counsellors who help people deal with PTSD and grief of losing loved ones)
Did she do any of the above? That’s why I feel it isn’t genuine.
Q2. What genuine efforts did i-m-neck-deep-in-sorrow Anuj put besides throwing his ego here and there?
He told her to draw boundaries for so months now
Her stood by her, used his contacts, his money and gave his time when she resolved
- the affair issue of Toshu
- Pari kidnapping
- Pakhi eloping
- Pakhis responsibility after marriage
- Toshus health issue
- Baapuji’s missing track
- Baa’s late night visits and dramas
And so many more times
He was character assassinated by the people he stood for when Maya’s feelings for him came up
He wasn’t consulted before allowing Maaya in the house
He was locked in a room when he wanted to have the last conversation with choti
He went for Holi so that she doesn’t feel alone..but his grief got judged
His mistake- didn’t proceed legally despite Anupama….he should have locked her back in the room and gone ahead and done what was right for him. That he didnt.
I can’t understand what more he can do
Again that’s my opinion…happy to know yours too! I’m sure the serial will switch sides in no time …so all these scenarios too will change and we’ll be back at supporting the character we now hate
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