Not watched epis but………. DT Reminder Pg 2

My post only based on what i have seen and read on social media. I have personally not watched epi. Forgive me if i assumed something incorrectly. 

Anuj behaviour towards anupama if he is angry on her is justified as she literally challenged maya for 15 days give enough opportunity to maya so that maya can ghul mil with anu instead of thinking about anuj. 

For anuj he wants him to be priority for anu but anu priortizes everyone else except the one whom she should. 

I will not say helping toshu is wrong but she would have kept a condition that i will take care of toshu only in km and only kinjal and samar is allowed to stay with me. Rather than she going to shah mansion. 

She just left CA with maya which will definitely help maya to manipulate ca as ca will believe if maya tells her that anu and anuj's marriage has a problem because of you. 

I read some posts on sm where ppl says anuj is over reacting. Emotions are emotions. Attachments are attachments. If we can cry for a emotional movie which we just watched and knows its character only for 3 hrs  if we can get depressed for lost pet which we just lost within 6 months due to an illness don't anuj has rights to get depressed for loosing a daughter who was his only means on surviving as anu is busy in doing charity. 

She did not even let him try atleast. They could have filed it in court. Jo hotha dekha jaatha. Atleast he will have a satisfaction he tried his best. Will maya just leave because of anu's challenge if ca would have picked anu. I don't think so. She would have gone to court as for her survival she needs CA. 

But anupama just let CA go even after knowing she was manipulated by maya. What else anuj can do ? 

I really wish anuj files a custody case and fights for it and proves that he is better parent than maya without even consulting anu. 

Loose or win he will hsve some satisfaction he tried his best. 

He should ensure to tell Anu that she has to help him if she really considered CA as her daughter. Else he will get to know that she never treated ca as her own.  

What you said is true. That is what we all were shouting from long time 

Ideally just  after  marriage  husband  ki priority   sabse pehle  wife hoti Hai 

But anuj  ne aisa Kiya kya ? He was just marred to anupama  and In  Mumbai  instead  of .giving  priority  to anupama  on first  day marriage  itself in first day marriage  only  he start  talking  about  adopting child

Who does that Kaun  sa husband  shaadi hote hue bache ki bache ki baat  karne lagta,

Instead  of shouting  at anupama  

Anuj  should  ask himself  tumne Kitna  anupama  ko priority  pe rakha tumhare  liye to right from first day  of marriage  sabse pehle choti  priority  pe rahi 

And if it so  that Anuj has no time to wait  to adopt   child  that is why usne  jald se jald adoption  ki baat  ki 

If anuj  felt  that adoption  ke liye  late ho raha hai then 

Why he waited for anupama  for so long 

He  could have marry another  girl long  ago and can have children  

Agree, husband’s priority should be wife. It is viceversa right? Did she ever did that? 
coming to your other points, they are not in 20s to just enjoy the time, they are becoming old. He just want to complete his family. Agree he should give sometime for her that he has hurried is wrong. Everyone does mistakes, but she should accept it and be fair. 

I.have already  told  if he think.he is getting  in late in adoption  then he should  have married earlier and too with another  girl 

 

Anuj keep blaming anupama  for not  giving  priority  to his and his choti   jub  ki khud anuj ne woh  kaam nahi Kiya   anupama  ke saath  

Wohi to main keh rahi hoon anuj   ko priority  sabse pehle apni family   compete karna tha woh bhi shaadi  ke pehle din

That is why I am asking  shaadi  ke pehle  din se hi Kaun husband  wife family  complete  karna ki baat  karta hai

Thst means  anuj  ke kiye  anupama  kabhi  priority  pe thi nahi   anuj  ke liye family  complete  karna jyaada priority pe tha    tha  islye shaadi  hote hi family  complete  karne ki baat  kar diya anuj ne  anupama  se 

 

absolutely

Anuj ne aisa kya kiya

business, property anpad hote hue bhi iske naam transfer kar di

shah house se thak kar aati to uske haath par, sar dabata

Shah house ki problems se penick attack aate toh isko roz sulata

shah house se lad kar, rooth kar, koi bhi aa jata, toh khushi2 KM mei usko respect deta

isko jaane ke liye keh kar khud akele khichdi khata

apne bhai bhabhi se knees par maafi mangwa lee

koi bhi anu par chillata toh chup kara deta

college mei admission ka form la kar diya

anu ki har baat mei meri anu sahi hai .. karta

inke ghar ka loan diya

samar ko paise diye, maine isse kaamm karte dekha nahi kabhi

KM ko dhramshaala bana diya

apni beti ki beijaati dekhkar chup ho jaata

billionare ho kar inn jhuggi jhopdi waalo ke mooh lagna padta 

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 pata hai iss dodo ki galti kya hai, isse shah house shift ho jana chahiye tha

anu pakode banati, yeh chai banata

anu burger banati, yeh aloo cheel kar deta

anu dusting kata, yeh mopping

anu  baa ke knees par tel lagati, yeh baapuji ke

anu khicdi baanati, yeh raita

anu baa ke jhoole mei tel daalti, yeh nut bolt tight karta

anu Mr. shah ko paani pilati, yeh pani la kar deta

Anu Mr. sha ke saath khee-khee karti, yeh  chand se baatein karta

Anu mr. shah ke saath pari ko lekar jhoola jhoolti, yeh dada -dadi ke pyaar par gaana  gaa kar kavita sunata

tab hum maante ki anuj ki priority anu hai

Excellent compilation. We should have a proper list of what all he did (making anpadh orat as business partner, lending her money to pay back Rakhi, loan to winter, Makkhi ke kharche and so much more where he never questioned her) vs what she did (ran to shanty at every opportunity ignoring him, spent time with vanraj on jhula while he was recovering from paralysis, neglected CA and did not tell him what she said before leaving and the likes)

It will help in objective comparison rather than random absurd claims of uss ne saath diya, farz nahi nibhaya etc

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