Things I support and things I don’t

Lol not that anyone cares but after watching so much heartache need yo vent somewhere so please bear with me 

things I support:

👍🏼Akshara giving reality check to Abhimanyu ✅ very much needed

👍🏼Akshara saying would you have divorced Neil if I had died ✅💯

👍🏼Akshara saying you divorced me twice impulsively n now impulsively you express your love ✅

things I don’t support

👎🏼Akshara calling abhi akshu relationship Umar qaid …big NO …Umar qaid wali relationships waalon sey poochho kya hoti hai Umar qaid wali relationship …the issue with abhi akshu relationship was letting a third person come in between them earlier Akshara used to bring her family later Abhimanyu used to bring his mom n rest birlas one by one…two is company three is crowd…all you had to do was understand that n resolve it instead of impulsively divorcing n impulsively leaving the house …in a marriage not everything is hunky dory all the time…quoting monika geller from friends…you need to work hard on your relationship…some days you have to work extra hard….this deserves a separate topic

👎🏼Akshara claiming she doesn’t love Abhimanyu…simply coz it is safed jhooth lol

👎🏼akshara saying she never got respect in her relationship …that’s not true…maybe the writers forgot their own or someone else’s creation since the team keeps changing every day …Abhimanyu always respected Akshara more then anyone else…if she has forgotten he was the one who supported her to come out of the emotional trauma of Aarohi n goenkas …but Ofcourse in one day they made him undo everything he did before by cslling her a murderer n responsible for  her death …but before the 180 flip yes he gave you plenty respect 

👎🏼Akshara telling Abhimanyu you are speaking to a married lady…but are you really married…or is this a relationship of convenience at the cost of sbhinsv’s happiness? Why doesn’t he deserve to be a husband like how she had Abhimanyu as a husband…why does this realization come after coming to Udaipur?  So when akshara was drowning in Abhimanyu’s thoughts in kasauli hence her changed demeanor what was that…sindoor ki lakeer kahan thi tab …also who writes such dialogues in todays day n age…time to get a fresh crop of writers DKP …please don’t hire from ekta’s team 

👎🏼Akshara telling Abhimanyu to move on with roohi n aarohi but tells Abhimanyu merri feelings ka decision tum mat lo…girl, then you also don’t take his life’s decisions on his behalf …fact of the matter us you are still fighting g like a husband n wife…whether you like it or not 

Anyways I salute you if you have reached the end of this long rant …don’t fret if you don’t agree with me…take it as musings of a broken heart if you will 😊

this is not  reply to your post but what akshu said , bec I watch the epis late . 

Idc if akshu is lying abt her marital status or not..abhimanyu knows nothing abt it so he has no right to claim his "love" back . Holds true even if she is single. 

It's not akshu deciding for him  , it's his decision to marry arohi for ruhi so he must honour it . 

At least once she ranted abt respect ..trust and respect is all about accepting each other as they are ..in good times and bad ..in their times together akshu was 24x7 trying to solve the riddles "anything bad happens its always aksharas mistake " . Abhimanyu ka hand , akshu ki Wajah se , Neil ka khulasa, akshu ki wajah se, manjari ka divorce , akshu ki wajah se , akshu arranged a party , akshu did wrong , akshu let manjari take a decision, akshu ki galti , anisha died , akshu ki galti , Neil died , akshu ki galti, twins died  , akshu ki galti , Neil aroo get married , akshu ki galti . Akshu not complying to abhimanyus "orders" to tc , akshu ki galti  . Where is respect in all this ? 

This reminds me of Aamir s dialogue in taare zameen par..what does love mean ? That if a child does a mistake the parent hugs them and say koi baat nai beta galti hui, main hoon na....

In the end , love or no love ,marriage or no marriage is insignificant ..its her "choice " and her consent which matters ...

If we say she will eat up her words and crawl back to abhimanyu ? Idc now if she does . At least the writers can show abhinanyus realisation/redemption during that time ? Ya uski zaroorat hi nai hai🤢 

Akshara refers to her relationship as umar kaid as she pertains to Abhimanyu as her jailor. Because she feels she does not have agency in her relationship as Abhimanyu decided the course of their marriage. He wants her first, then he divorces her twice impulsively without talking to her and then wants her back. He doesn't want to work on their relationship, he wants to finish it instantly. This ties to respect, Abhimanyu didn't respect her to listen to her but simply accused her and kicked her out. It's not an equal relationship-like she said he would never have divorced Neil but was able to instantly divorce her.

For Abhimanyu, Akshara is married and has a child. That's crossing boundaries. Akshara, Abhinav and Abhir are a family. The marriage may be on paper only, but the family is not. Abhimanyu was extremely disrespectful towards that. Abhinav has always treated Abhimanyu well and had tried to make Akshara comfortable when dealing with her ex and ex sasural. Akshara recognizes that. 

Why does everyone think that because Akshara and Abhinav are not in a straightforward marriage, she will easily return to Abhimanyu? She has a commitment, a family and a platonic love for Abhinav. How can she abandon him easily? Right now Akshara is the one tightly holding on Abhinav more than Abhinav tightly holding onto her. She has no inclination to get together with Abhimanyu because to her, they are over. 

Anyways I salute you if you have reached the end of this long rant …don’t fret if you don’t agree with me…take it as musings of a broken heart if you will 😊

Well written post (no way a rant), I enjoyed reading it but sad that it was a 💔episode for you. It takes just one episode for this PH to change tracks ( Team NavRa here and saw it during the acccident episode week). So, all is not lost yet, I would say. 😊

Divorce yes , plus , before marriage , he agreed to marry aroo then left her at the altar n decided to marry akshara n just before the marriage , he was abt to cancel that also.. remember manjaris accident ? Where is the commitment and security for a girl to feel secure ? Today , again he flipped from akshara to arohi to akshara and now back to arohi ..what's the guarantee that he won't flip to akshara again right before the marriage or after marriage to arohi? What the Clownery 🤪

I want to just share my pov on the points you disagree and I might be wrong

1. Umar quaid point was said in context when he declared her a murderer and gave her a divorce as punishment and now without understanding his mistake he wants her back. Now akshata used to think about her family first but after the 2.0 or rather after she married him she tried to prioritize abhi and his family, she had effectively put a stop on her aarohi rant hadn't she.... But on the contrary did abhi stop his maa rant... No.... I understand they were in initial phase of marriage but akshu worked on the relationship and did abhi ever even during niel and aarohi wedding.... 

2. I agree akshu loves abhi but her life has shown her love is not enough it's trust and respect

3. She clearly says that abhinav talks with her discuss every issue and then they decide they are equal this is the respect she is talking about abhimanyu always decided for her.... 

4. Un the eyes of the society she is married and he should have respected that behind the closed doors is an issue between her and abhinav

5. She never took any decision in regards to aarohi and abhimanyu wedding in fact she clearly said it's aarohi ka decision so she is again asking him to think once about roohi

Hey to all who responded…I’m feeling better after walking my dog 😊 so will respond to y’all individually …I get it it is a fractured house…someone’s right is someone’s wrong…all I wanted from this show originally was yo keep me smiling n entertained n I can take drama …v1 was also full of drama but there was always hope for me as a viewer…somehow that is lacking these days…n one can take only that much of sadness as I often say here…real life gives that aplenty …so ok back to post n the replies 😊

yeah I get it…it must be your thoughts and not per se a rebuttal 

I was solely talking about Akshara when I said I’m married …not justifying Abhimanyu’s proposal at all…I was saying you yourself are not truly married not coz if physical relationship but also coz it seems like a staying together of convenience which both of them agreed to but tall claims of marriage don’t gel here for me…just like Abhimanyu’s ilu sticks out like a sore thumb that’s all 

Again …as I said elsewhere when I say I don’t agree about respect I’m talking about the entirety of the show…not just post neil’s death or post their marriage…I mentioned the instances where Abhimanyu was the only one standing for her …their mehendi episode 

Absolutely I 100% agree it is her choice but what she is saying n how she is behaving is not gelling …that makes me question is it truly her choice? Was staying with Abhinav truly her choice…? It was shown she had no other way to survive…which I personally gave serious objections to…like in todays day n age esp with akshu’s character single mom would have totally made sense…to justify abhinav’s role they made her into a dependent woman who can’t stay by herself coz there were perverts around …in the sane show she had been pretty much living alone since the start…so definitely too many loopholes for me to justify in my head