Making Life Easier For AnupaMaa

Kinjal is Rakhi's daughter not yours. As you did not like Pakhi giving more attention to Barkha than you, similarly Rakhi feels inferior when Kinjal gives more importance to you. Let Rakhi take care of Kinjal. It does not matter what that ungrateful bimbo Kinjal wants.

Vanraj is Kavya's husband not yours. So let Kavya do Jhoola Rasam with V. Why you snatched Kavya's right?

Baa is Dolly's mother not yours. So instead of serving tea to that ungrateful classless lady, serve tea to your mother Kanta. Let Dolly take care of her mom.

Bapuji is Kavya's FIL not yours. So instead of complaining him about carrying Matkas, go see if your current FIL GK needs any help. Don't you feel ashamed of putting so many Matkas on this old man? 

AnupaMaa is snatching everyone's rights from them and then complaining that she is overworked. God did not entrust you with so many responsibilities. You yourself snatched other's responsibilities and now crying crocodile tears. See nobody's life is that hard. Just focus on your responsibilities and let others handle theirs. 

Why don't kavya Dolly  baa stop  anupama  in serving tea breakfast  why they dont ask anupama   not to take tension  we will   do this work  magar  jub anupama  kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai  .fact is that  they all enjoy  anupama  is serving  to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai  

Is anupama  is not  making breakfast  dinner  lunch for  Anuj 

Is anupama  is not  going for anu parents meeting  

Did not  anupama  say to Anuj she will not  go to baby ceremony   and  day before  yesterday  episode again anupama refuse to go to shah  house but Anuj  still Anuj insist anupama  to go to shah  house 

Anupama  said that she will  not go to shah  house 

Anupama  making  food and serving  food both to anu and anu .anupama  realising Anuj hungry .and anupama  immediately  went to prepare food for anuj and  little  anu and nupama  really  care  of  Anuj  and  anu  by massaging hand of anuj .helping  Anuj to walk on his own without  using wheel chair 

Anupama  take care of  Anuj  in hospital  but still she is not  concerned  about  her husband  Anuj, daughter   and gk 

How  ??

Unbelievable.......I really hope that Kinjal's daughter behaves the same way with Kinjal the way she is doing with her sagi maa.....

Yes Rakhi was wrong in hiding the truth from Kinjal....but all she wanted was to save Kinjal from the trauma at a time when she just had a C-section......it is considered a major surgery.....the body becomes weak...there is a baby to take care of and there are chances of post partum depression...Rakhi did not have any ulterior motive.....Anupama and Kinjal both disgust me.....Anupama is not thinking about Rakhi and her feelings and she is encouraging Kinjal with her disgusting behaviour.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Kinjal is Rakhi's daughter not yours. As you did not like Pakhi giving more attention to Barkha than you, similarly Rakhi feels inferior when Kinjal gives more importance to you. Let Rakhi take care of Kinjal. It does not matter what that ungrateful bimbo Kinjal wants.

Vanraj is Kavya's husband not yours. So let Kavya do Jhoola Rasam with V. Why you snatched Kavya's right?

Baa is Dolly's mother not yours. So instead of serving tea to that ungrateful classless lady, serve tea to your mother Kanta. Let Dolly take care of her mom.

Bapuji is Kavya's FIL not yours. So instead of complaining him about carrying Matkas, go see if your current FIL GK needs any help. Don't you feel ashamed of putting so many Matkas on this old man? 

AnupaMaa is snatching everyone's rights from them and then complaining that she is overworked. God did not entrust you with so many responsibilities. You yourself snatched other's responsibilities and now crying crocodile tears. See nobody's life is that hard. Just focus on your responsibilities and let others handle theirs. 

Until now I found Anupama annoying as hell with her bhashans and all....but she is disgusting as well....she makes everything about herself......even with Kinjal ...its not about Kinjal...it is Anupama ji's trauma...and now she is actually gloating that Kinjal prefers her over her sagi Maa.....disgusting woman..🤢

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why don't kavya Dolly  baa stop  anupama  in serving tea breakfast  why they dont ask anupama   not to take tension  we will   do this work  magar  jub anupama  kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai  .fact is that  they all enjoy  anupama  is serving  to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai  

Because anupama dominates them and acts as if her sasural is still her home and she has rights on it 

They do not want to hurt her feelings especially dolly and kavya 

If a  guest or relative comes homes and starts ordering you at  your home you too keep quiet so they do not feel offended because they are there for few days only not permanent. Like some far off dadi comes and says put ghungat full day on head or do not wear modern dress youngsters are told by parents to comply not to offend that bua dadi etc is it not 

If a cousin comes and starts acting as if they are son or daughter of your father or mother you do not shout or show them reality you bear as its for few days why break relation? bear few days thats what indians are taught from childhood its called atiti devo bhava and not hurting others feelings and break relationships

You bear with them for few days and do not show them reality because you do not want to hurt them or make them feel uninvited to that home 

Thats why kavya and dolly are quiet

But baa and pakhi do not care and tell her on face as they are mother and daughter to her. Do your father mother or daughter fear you to say truth on face no not really. Family is born to speak truth on face but yes Baa and pakhi are misbehaving ppl. 

But anupama interferes too much in their life too especially pakhi . Like hotel scene pakhi went to drink cofffee with adhik anupama joined them. When you are in school, college, office or go out with friends will you be ok if papa mummy accompany you for lunch or coffee. No one does that ever. Thats why children lie to parents and roam alone because they know parents will do such things. Here adhik has bad intention but pakhi do not know. If not adhik she goes with another boy will anupama follow her on every coffee and lunch with friends or boy friends. Why she never did that with samar nandini or kinjal toshu because the girls are not her daughters so her sons can take advantage its ok why double standards for own daughter and others daughters? 

If rakhi does not want kinjal marraige to toshu you marry them offf against her parents will 

But if pakhi wants to marry adhik will anupam amarry them against her will? 

One rule for others daughters one for her daughter 

thats why no one likes anupama at her home because shes not same with all 

when samar broke engagement with nandini anupama is ok and did not fight at all for her respect why because shes kavyas neice or because she does not worship anupam alike kinjal 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why don't kavya Dolly  baa stop  anupama  in serving tea breakfast  why they dont ask anupama   not to take tension  we will   do this work  magar  jub anupama  kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai  .fact is that  they all enjoy  anupama  is serving  to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai  

Apni boundaries khud he draw kar ke raho na ! Dusro se kyun expect karna ki Muje apni hadd samjao ! 

Yeah aisi baat ho gayi ki uska nature bhed-bakri jaisa hai so kisi ke bhi Khet mai khusegi, usko bhagane ki responsibility khet owner ki! Kyunki bhed-bakri ka toh nature he hota hai idhar -udhar ghus jaane ke! 🐷

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Is anupama  is not  making breakfast  dinner  lunch for  Anuj 

Is anupama  is not  going for anu parents meeting  

Did not  anupama  say to Anuj she will not  go to baby ceremony   and  day before  yesterday  episode again anupama refuse to go to shah  house but Anuj  still Anuj insist anupama  to go to shah  house 

Anupama  said that she will  not go to shah  house 

Anupama  making  food and serving  food both to anu and anu .anupama  realising Anuj hungry .and anupama  immediately  went to prepare food for anuj and  little  anu and nupama  really  care  of  Anuj  and  anu  by massaging hand of anuj .helping  Anuj to walk on his own without  using wheel chair 

Anupama  take care of  Anuj  in hospital  but still she is not  concerned  about  her husband  Anuj, daughter   and gk 

How  ??

In real life i know 

People leave fathers funerals or brothers weddings to be with hubby and kids for simple reasons like exams or onsite projects 

Anupama is always in shah house even before kinjal trauma started because she likes that house more than kapadia mansion 

Knjal has a mother and father rakhi and her husband 

No one loves or will love kinjal more than her mom dad not anupama not vanraj not anuj kapadia so let her be with her parents

Do not try to snatch only child kinjal from her parents they hv no one but her and their grandkid

Its sin to do that 

Regarding anupama taking care of anuj, even maids will cook, clean, mop or massage hands 

There is diff between family and maid

Anuj needs emotional support and assurance not a maid in anupama

Shes always in hurry to run to shah house leaving anuj alone although so sick 

Like i said people leave fathers funeral both boys and girls for work and hubby 

What anupama doing for anuj is 5% of what others sacrifice for their hubby career and health etc 

After his stroke has she stayed one full day at home with home no always going shahs house everyday on one pertex

Any stroke patient want his wife or parent to spend max time with him 

I know wifes who never gone outstation for 10 years as hubby had stroke they take care and be with him day and night 

Anupama  don't dominant  anyone infact baa vanraj  try to dominate anupama  

Why was baa scolding  anupama  when  anupama  come  so late for  baby naming  ceremony  . When baa is scolding  anupama  for not coming  timely in baby ceremony  that it is baa  dominant  anupama  

Baa even  told anupama many times u r bad dadi tum apni  daadi ka  farz. Nahi nibha rahi ho 

When anupama  when join  Anuj meeting baa and vanraj  try to dominant   anupama  not to meet Anuj 

And  vanraj  was saying  u duty to take care  of ur own children  but  u r getting  married  at this age 

Abd baa dominant anupama  why are u meeting  Anuj as he  is paraya mard 

And vanraj  Even  lock the gate  not allowing anupama  to go with  Anuj  in business  meeting  

And  day before  yesterday  vanraj  went to  Kapadia  house and insist    anupama  to come to shah  house to to take care of kinjal where anupama  clearly refuse to come that  she will  not go to shah  house because  doctor  told her not to leave Anuj alone .anupama clearly refuse  to go to show house  but both  vanraj  and Anuj  insist anupama to go to shah house  to to care of house kinjal 

Anuj  said to anupama  u don't worry I have  other members  to care of me 

And even vanraj  said he will  send samar to tale care of anuj

Annd yesterday  also Dolly  was saying  how she will handle kinjal  without  anupama  

ND today  also  baa going to call anupama  to come to shah  house  to care of kinjal  till vanraj  stop baa not to call anupama  but  he  said he will  call anupama  later

Matlab  every  time  baa  vanraj  go to anupama  and even  call anupama  to take care of kinjal  .even  kinjal told anupama  to accompany her with doctor  during  pregnancy .Kinjal  want anupama  that  anupama  should  be around her  during kinjal pregnancy. Even kinjal told anupama  that  she  should  with her in labor  room 

Whenever  Shah family  face trouble  time this baa always said ab to anupama hi  is situation  ko Sambhal. Sakti Hai  .during  Nandini  and samar break up  baa was  telling  that  anupama  hi is situation  ko Sambhal sakti Hai 

When baa insult  bapuji  then bapuji    himself went to  anupama  home  and  both  baa and bapuji  drag anupama  for their personal  problem 

So whenever  shah face problems  aur  celebrate  festival  the shah themselves sdrag  anupama. To solve their problems  that anupama  hi is situation Sambhal sakti Hai 

Even  rakhi  took promise from anupama  that she will always support  kinjal 

But Pata nahi anupama   Kaun sa version  chal raha hai  ki jahan anupama shah  ke life mein interfere  karti hai aur dominant  karti hai ?

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Until now I found Anupama annoying as hell with her bhashans and all....but she is disgusting as well....she makes everything about herself......even with Kinjal ...its not about Kinjal...it is Anupama ji's trauma...and now she is actually gloating that Kinjal prefers her over her sagi Maa.....disgusting woman..🤢

lol she is not gloating, this is entirely the OP take on the current track.