Why anupama is making everyone handicap? - Page 2

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Its mainly about grass being greener on the other side. Paritosh had a mom-servant but she wasn't worth showing off to his friends. Kinjal had a successful businesswoman mother who didn't have time to run after her with home cooked food. Both were tired of what they already had and despised their moms for not doing enough for them.

No wonder they fell in love.

Absolutely true!

Kinjal has sold out her brain to anupama and now she is no more than anupama's cheerleader. Now kinjal is emotionally handicap that's why her new identity is "Choti Anupama" . Anupama is also emotionally handicap.

Kinjal has lost her own brain and identity both to anupama and that brainless lady judges her own mother rakhi at every step and always complaining about her mother didn't give her enough time! No mother should stand on single toe for child 24/7 otherwise bacche emotionally and physically handicap ban jate hai. Rakhi had raised independent child but anupama ne ek tang par khade reh kar 24/7 service dene ke chakkar mai kinjal ko emotionally handicap bana diya.

Only strong women can raise independent child ! Anupama jaisi mothers bacche ko handicap bana deti hai.

Anupama is not makimg anyone handicap yes anupama is tefuse to say no and start doing jee hazoori yes sir yes sir yes mam yes mam

Anupama did not told kinjal ki mere saath hi chalna gyane mere bina doctor ke passs nahi jaana

Ek baar kinjal yeh keh ko to dekhe ki ab main apne aap jaa sajti hioon. Anupama will have no problem

But yeh now kinajal along with vanraj abd toshu yahi chahte है कि anupama inlogon ki jee huzoor karti rahe

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama is not makimg anyone handicap yes anupama is tefuse to say no and start doing jee hazoori yes sir yes sir yes mam yes mam

Anupama did not told kinjal ki mere saath hi chalna gyane mere bina doctor ke passs nahi jaana

Ek baar kinjal yeh keh ko to dekhe ki ab main apne aap jaa sajti hioon. Anupama will have no problem

But yeh now kinajal along with vanraj abd toshu yahi chahte है कि anupama inlogon ki jee huzoor karti rahe

Anupama khud he sabki jee huzoor karne ke liye mariii ja rahi hai uska kya?

Ab uski shaddi ho gayi hai, kayde se anuj kapadiya ka ghar chalana hai ab anupama ko. Lekin anupama ko sasural aur maayka dono ki dor apne hath mai rakhni hai isiliye toh bahane dhoondh kar jee huzoori karne maayke pohoch jati hai. Agar Jee huzoori nahi karna hota toh mooh khol kar nikkame jobless toshu ko bolti ki regular appointments mai jana bacche ke baap ki zimmedari hai so uthana sikho apne bacche ki responsibility and jao apni pregnant biwi ke sath clinic but no as i said anupama ko sasural and maayka dono ki dor apne hath mai rakhni hai so dusro ko handicap banane par tuli hui hai.

Daily maayke jana hota hai anupama ko jaise maayke mai anupama ke bina kuch ho he nahi sakta! Agar maaykewale bulaye toh bhi bolna chahiye ki ab uska shaddi ho gaya hai so sabko apni zimmedari uthana sikhna padega kyunki koi baar baar sasural se maayke dusro ki zimmedariya nibhane nahi ja sakta!

As i said, anupama ko sasural and maayka dono ka dor apne hath mai he rakhna hai isiliye jee huzoor karne ke liye mariii ja rahi hai otherwise roz roz maayke koi nahi jata maaykewalo ki zimmedari uthane.

Anupama ko pata hai ki agar woh sabki jee huzoori karegi toh he sab uski jay jaykar kar ke uske cheerleader bann kar rahege so waah waai batorne ke liye daily maayke pohoch jati hai dusro ke hisse ki zimmedariya uthane ke liye🤢 otherwise kisi bhi married women ko daily maaykewalo ki zimmedariya uthane ka time nahi hota!

Fir bolegi 7 matke uske head par hai! Honge he naa 7 matke after all maayke sasural dono ki dor apne hath mai jo rakhni hai and dusro ke hisse ki zimmedari jo uthani hai waah waai batorne ke liye! Anupama jitna free toh koi bhi married women nahi hogi kyunki isi ke paas itna time hai maayke ja kar maaykewalo ko pura time sambhalne ka!

Mai jai jai kar paane ke liye sabki jee hazoori nahi kar sakti because it is impossible for me kyonki mera shareer ek waqt pe thak jaata है सो i needed time for my self and proper hr sleep and rest I

Is duniya mein koi bhi prashansa paane ke liye apna sharee kaam kar kar ke tod nahi daalta

Isliye anupama ka unique case hai ki use kabhi thankaan nahi hoti woh kabhi nahi soti kabhi rest nahi karti isliye har time jee hazoori karti rehti है

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Mai jai jai kar paane ke liye sabki jee hazoori nahi kar sakti because it is impossible for me kyonki mera shareer ek waqt pe thak jaata है सो i needed time for my self and proper hr sleep and rest I

Is duniya mein koi bhi prashansa paane ke liye apna sharee kaam kar kar ke tod nahi daalta

Isliye anupama ka unique case hai ki use kabhi thankaan nahi hoti woh kabhi nahi soti kabhi rest nahi karti isliye har time jee hazoori karti rehti है

Absolutely anupama is rare and unique jo waah waai batorne ke liye sabki jee hazoori karne ke liye daily maayke pohoch jati hai! Kitna marrri ja rahi hoti hai yeh maaykewalo ki zimmedariya uthane ke liye!

Fir bolegi uske head par 7 matka hai! Honge hena 7 matka kyunki usko sasural maayke dono ki dor apne hath mai rakh kar waah waai jo batorni hai! Kabhi bhi pohoch jati hai maaykewalo ki zimmedariya uthane! ANuj ki maa zinda hoti toh iski acchi band bajati! Pure maayke ko handicap bana kar rakkha ahi! Jab dekho tab kabhi iska kaam kabhi uska kaam! Itna maaykewalo ki chinta hai toh dusri shaddi nahi karna chahiye tha! Agar anuj ki maa zinda hoti toh isko permanently maayke bhej deti pure maayke ki zimmedariya uthane!🤢

Sabko handicap bana kar madam 7 matke ka gyan jhadti rehti hai! Pura time maaykewalo ko he dekhna hota hai isko toh dusra shaddi he nahi karna chahiye tha!

Wah wah batorne ka, kikska man nahi karta but kya koi wah wah paane ke chakar mein koi apne shareer pe har time jor dena pasand karega,

One has to bee always to be mental prepare ahd physical prepare to do work for other yeh bahut difficult ki chahe kitni jay Jay kar mile

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Wah wah batorne ka, kikska man nahi karta but kya koi wah wah paane ke chakar mein koi apne shareer pe har time jor dena pasand karega,

One has to bee always to be mental prepare ahd physical prepare to do work for other yeh bahut difficult ki chahe kitni jay Jay kar mile

Hote hai kuch aise ghanchakkar log society mai jo waah waai pane ke liye apne shareer ki and dusro ke life ki band baja sakte hai ! Anupama is one of them isiliye toh sabko handicap bana deti hai.

Hum jaise normal logo ko interest nahi hota but yeh 7 matkewali ghanchakkar can do this isiliye toh daily maaykawalo ka zimmedari uthane pohoch jati hai 7 matkewali.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I find it irritating when she, and everyone else, looks at Anu Jr. with pity when she does her own work, shares things, talks about not wasting food, cleans up after herself, and owns up to her mistakes.

That's bloody basic decency, not underprivileged upbringing. She isn't sick, frustrated, quarrelsome or tried stealing for us to assume she is pitiable because she was an orphan.

Just because Anupamaa didn't teach her kids the basics and now they are cribbing about her absence due to dependence doesn't mean every kid should be that way. Folks like Sara or Kinjal who have never been overpampered by a helicopter mother who wants to keep carrying her children all her life like a kangaroo will obviously find this experience unique and would want that for themselves too, but they fail to see how much it has spoiled Anupamaa's kids because they got treated like that since childhood.

@bold: Absolutely right.

Every child should be taught to be self-reliant.

It is said in Kannada, "Gidavaagi baggaddu, maravaagi baggeete?" Meaning jab bachpan me nahin seekha toh bade hoke kya khaakh seekhoge.

Bad manners, bad habits, bad company jaldi seekh jate hain aur kisi bhi umer me.

Good habits and manners ka aisa hain ki bachpan se hi sikhaye jaate hain.

Insecurity I think- she needs to feel needed, that's what she derives value from- "xyz ko meri zarurat hai". If everyone becomes independent, she won't get that feeling of being needed anymore.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Why anupama is making everyone handicap

The same reason Kathy Bates (as Anne Wilkes) made James Caan (as author Paul Sheldon) handicapped, in the movie "Misery"

She wants them to forever depend on her so she can always baby sit them, make her feel needed and important and get them to do her bidding