Trusted the makers too much i think😔 - Page 9

Originally posted by: new_tvfan

I love your reply! You made valid and heartbreaking points about fatherhood.

Aryan truly never got to feel Cheeku like Imlie did. He missed out on all the physical proof that Cheeku was real and alive because of bliology. And on top of that, he didn't think Cheeku was his for a few weeks. Now that is weighing on his mind too and he is losing it completely.

To everyone who is not able to connect to how Aryan lost his rationality so much that he is not even able to connect to Imlie's pain and is blabbering nonsense to her, it's bcz he was a father today before Imlie's husband. Here is an episode of what exactly Aryan would have felt today, it's from another ITV series, would request everyone to watch from 3:41 to 7:12 exact feelings of a father is conveyed:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ9uX5Lme8w

If you have time u can watch after 7:12 as well, it's explained even more beautifully by the character then.

Thanks😊

Originally posted by: pratyay

I think assurance must be given through gestures for sometime I guess. Saying it once just kind of clears the doubt but complete assurance takes time to build. You have to nurture it like a sapling till it becomes a tree. Looking at the kind of obsession Imlie showed for AKT, she should have been more involved in Aryan for him to totally come out of his "maybe I am second" thought. I didn't mean physically but emotionally.

I agree. Assurance is not a key to a lock ki undar dala tala khul gaya, it's actually like a sapling whom u have to water regularly to make it a strong tree.

Gosh now that I think about it Arylie ke relationship mein kitne loopholes the that these 2 needed to address. They never sat down to talk bas fell irrevocably in love. They never even discussed ki dono ko pyaar kab hua? kaise hua? Aryan ne Imlie se shaadi kyu ki thi, Imlie ne Aryan ko shaadi se pahle hi AKT ke samne choose kiya tha, God i want to bang the head of those 2 idiots together to the wall, Gadhe kahike dono😡 Inko doosre kamo ☺️😳 se fursat milti tab toh baat karte na dono se break nhi lagaya jaa raha tha😆🤪

Originally posted by: pratyay

I know the FD is hurt and disappointed. The track is kind of rushed. The build up should have been slow and better.

Aryan was always a flawed human. From his blind revenge on AKT to Jo's track, his flaws were shown. What made him different for me is he learns from his mistakes and always encouraged her to choose herself and dignity.

Its natural for Aryan to have insercurities regarding AKT because he saw the obsession she had for him. He trusts her enough that she will not go behind his back and cheat on him even with AKT. But I don't know if he knows the place of AKT in her heart. Honestly Maasi to Gudiya is hard to connect for anyone because of the toxic relation that Imlie and Malini share. He can't connect to that Maasi jaap logically. For him, her obsession with gudiya, apart from being innocent child, is probably she is AKT's daughter and that is why she is attached to that kid.

MC was the worst possible way to bring it out. Should have been another track. If Gudiya had been some random child Imlie saw on road and tried to save her from accident and goes through MC, Aryan would have got angry, why do you have to be super woman blah blah but not nasty like this.

Here, he was telling her constantly to not go over the board. Yet she did. MC and AC tried to throw her out, what if she had hit the floor then and had miscarriage. AC put fire in the house. What if Narmada, Arpi or Sundar get hurt. Imlie brought the danger into the house inspite of knowing how deranged Malini and her mother are.

@bold: I think they purposely made it so intense bcz we have all seen how Arylie were before this conflict started and that's why we used to wonder ki aise couple ke beech mein separation kaise hoga. It had to be something big and that's what they are showing to us. Damn the episodes are so painful lekin the way they are building the track I haven't been able to skip even 1 epsiode till now. Kudos to the team😃

Originally posted by: pratyay

I think assurance must be given through gestures for sometime I guess. Saying it once just kind of clears the doubt but complete assurance takes time to build. You have to nurture it like a sapling till it becomes a tree. Looking at the kind of obsession Imlie showed for AKT, she should have been more involved in Aryan for him to totally come out of his "maybe I am second" thought. I didn't mean physically but emotionally.

Exactly. Assurance goes only so far if not backed by action. I am not saying Imlie hasn't demonstrated her love for Aryan over and over again but during this Gudiya phase, she needed to be more careful with his feelings.

Originally posted by: wasra

I agree. Assurance is not a key to a lock ki undar dala tala khul gaya, it's actually like a sapling whom u have to water regularly to make it a strong tree.

Gosh now that I think about it Arylie ke relationship mein kitne loopholes the that these 2 needed to address. They never sat down to talk bas fell irrevocably in love. They never even discussed ki dono ko pyaar kab hua? kaise hua? Aryan ne Imlie se shaadi kyu ki thi, Imlie ne Aryan ko shaadi se pahle hi AKT ke samne choose kiya tha, God i want to bang the head of those 2 idiots together to the wall, Gadhe kahike dono😡 Inko doosre kamo ☺️😳 se fursat milti tab toh baat karte na dono se break nhi lagaya jaa raha tha😆🤪

Bro 🤣🤣🤣 I love your rumour in this situation too.

I agree and I said they same somewhere. Meine Aaj itni baar Aryan ko khosa utni bhaar shayad mein usko appreciate bhi nahi karti 🤣 but lol, gadha hai woh 😡

I understand a father's grief overpowered a husband's empathy. He should have stopped with saying you prioritised Gudiya over Cheeku. Aaj Kahan Gaya Uddhar Singh Rathore 😡😭😭 de deta kuch. It wouldn't have pained me as much as that ckt's name. It's like woh apni hi pyaar pe shaq kar raha hai, Imlie ke pyaar pe shaq kar raha hai, it's soo demeaning 🔪🔪

Malini at Bhaskar times

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CgJShaWsfid/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Originally posted by: sheen97

For me no character is butchered. Aru is still the same.aru who loves his family and is terrified of loosing his loved ones.

Why do we forget that Aryan is a human who just faced his biggest fear.

This was amazingly written realistic episode. Loss they both faced is insurmontable. They are both dealing with grief.

One stage of grief is anger. Aryan is angry and saying things he don't mean. But I'm angry with him for bringing AKT . But I also.know this guy will hate himself for this..

This was wrong and nothing can justify it. But when a person is angry he says hurtful things. I love my brother alot but in our worst fights we said terrible.things to each other.

If aryan blamed Imlie so did.Imlie. bcz it is easier that way..You have a justification for why it happened..

Saying those words don't make ASR into AKT . Not realsing what he did makes him. And he will come around..

Yaar dil lelo❤️

After having cooled down and realising what Aryan must have gone through as a father today I completely agree with ur words.

Aryan ki ek baat hai that I have noticed uske emotions usko overpower kar jate hai, it has been happening in all tracks now so found this in an article:

When people are unable to control their emotions, their responses may be disruptive or inappropriate given the situation or setting.

Anger, sadness, anxiety, and fear are just some of the emotions a person may have.

Originally posted by: wasra

I agree. Assurance is not a key to a lock ki undar dala tala khul gaya, it's actually like a sapling whom u have to water regularly to make it a strong tree.

Gosh now that I think about it Arylie ke relationship mein kitne loopholes the that these 2 needed to address. They never sat down to talk bas fell irrevocably in love. They never even discussed ki dono ko pyaar kab hua? kaise hua? Aryan ne Imlie se shaadi kyu ki thi, Imlie ne Aryan ko shaadi se pahle hi AKT ke samne choose kiya tha, God i want to bang the head of those 2 idiots together to the wall, Gadhe kahike dono😡 Inko doosre kamo ☺️😳 se fursat milti tab toh baat karte na dono se break nhi lagaya jaa raha tha😆🤪

Bold - YES! Assurance is not a lock but a sapling that needs to be nurtured from time to time.

And yes to the loopholes too! She never told Aryan about how she chose his friendship over her "marriage". Yes, she was still trying to get back with AKT but not at the cost of Aryan's friendship. She never told him about all the risks she took for him, from the tandav to running after the kidnappers.

They never really talked about their feelings or when they started. Like their shiddat dance. There were tears in her eyes too! Did she have feelings for him even back then? Or that time the dhaba owner mistook Aryan for her husband. Why did she have such an yearning look in her eyes? She didn't laugh it off like, "Oh him? Nope, he is just my annoying, Akdu friend."

Originally posted by: wasra

To everyone who is not able to connect to how Aryan lost his rationality so much that he is not even able to connect to Imlie's pain and is blabbering nonsense to her, it's bcz he was a father today before Imlie's husband. Here is an episode of what exactly Aryan would have felt today, it's from another ITV series, would request everyone to watch from 3:41 to 7:12 exact feelings of a father is conveyed:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ9uX5Lme8w

If you have time u can watch after 7:12 as well, it's explained even more beautifully by the character then.

Thanks😊

Bold - Well said. He had always put Imlie first but today he put Cheeku first. We are not used to seeing that and hence, we are all confused and hurt and angry.

What else is not true from the article , she goes to bhaskar times now , hopefully there is no marriage between ABP and malini , then there would be no difference between AKT and ABP …. His character will be beyond repair …. Maybe they would show that too to make imlie Mahaan again!