Aamir get very little bashed compared to if a female actresses to do all the the things him and many male actors do.
Majority of audience will certainly share the same perception when they see media articles that refer to Amir's meddling as ‘perfection’ and the heroine's demands as ‘tantrums’ 😆. But it happened so because while Aamir can be bothersome majority of his work is successful, so his behaviour gets brushed aside under the perfectionist title. Kangana has just tarnished her reputation and majority of people already harboured dislike for DP because of her aggressive PR back then .
IMO at a higher level, every actor intervenes in the process in some way, but the audience's response depends on the type of information they are given about it.
Also , apart from Kangana we currently don’t really have any female actor that put in much effort into the creative process of their films as Aamir, do we ? So can’t really say that it happens because of patriarchy.
There is nothing absolutely nothing likeable about Mahesh Bhatt. Glad that Alia found a father figure in karan on whom she can depend emotionally n otherwise. If it were for him she would not be half as happy as she is today.